should I keep my mouth shut or should I say something?

[lda523287]

I'd stay out of it. You may be blamed for all that goes wrong.

[M69]

OPINION: As a hobbyist or provider, you have an obligation to the code of conduct which is NO OUTING no matter what unless a serious crime was committed (i.e. human trafficking, rape, murder, assault). BTW escorting is not a serious crime in my book.

[nosweat]

I would absolutely go fuck the living shit out of her- seriously.. then say and do nothing.
My guess is you will be tapping that for a long time to come.. and whatever happens between your friend and her is their business

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

I've gone through this exact thing except the guy was my client and the girl was my best friend in the real world. I decided to stick with the provider code of protecting the identity of my clients under any circumstance. I held that till they broke up and she caught him. I am very glad I didn't say anything.

kayla, inquisitive me has a few followups, if you care to reply.

were they just dating or did they marry?
so what happened when they broke up - did you let her or him know?
if you let her know, did you catch hell for not telling her?

just curious...

[Brot]

Would you want some self righteous provider to come tell your fiance / wife you were a john?

[gladius82]

I had a slightly similar situation except my friends were both women I worked with. The friend that was engaged was betrothed to a guy that was hitting on my other friend that I was also trying to fuck.
I talked to my engaged friend and after several questions and some discussion she told me she thought her fiance was the perfect man, "the one".
I decided to reveal his constant hitting on of my future fuck buddy, she was hurt, a little angry at me, but she didn't marry him and we are friends again. I think I did her a great favor....BTW things worked out with my fuck buddy as well, that was some really good pussy!!!!! Shit, I still call her ass every now and then.

[doug_dfw]

From an old dude, keep it to yourself. The odds are 90/10 against you and 60/40 for your buddy who will figure it out in time, if true!!!!.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by el_nino_1

So I was looking at some of the review on here the other day and discovered that my one of my good friends fiancee is a provider. They are getting married next year. I honestly don't think that he knows anything?? If he knew, and continued to go out with her, then I would be totally fine with it. But i honestly don't think he has a clue. I dont know what to do. Any advice? should I just keep my mouth closed? Thats what I was planning on doing but I dont want my buddy to get hurt.

Just remember karma is a bitch

[muffin101]

A sensitive situation can easily get miscommunicated.

You are risking your friendship, their marriage, and potential friendship with the provider/bride to be.

You are potentially also risking outing a pimp as someone had pointed out earlier in the thread.....

Might risk getting capped OP, ijs