Strapon vs. erect penis

[bigmiketwo]

OK, so I have spent time with escorts w/ strapons, dominas and kinky masseuses. Enjoyed most of them at the time. Have had a lot of experience receiving fingers, toys, and strapons in the rear portal. Generally I enjoy the toys for awhile, then I get uncomfortable with them and they become more of a distraction than a boost to the erotic feelings. So have experimented with some TS ladies. One in New Orleans that was strictly a bottom, one in Los Angeles that was a top, then a duo pair in Houston and got topped by one of them. Wrote a review on that one. So with the two top ladies I felt little discomfort on actual penetration and none while each 'completed' the session, covered of course. So my question is for those familiar with both penetrations. Have you noticed a marked difference between a toy and an erect penis?? In either entrance?? I think perhaps oral doesn't count, but what the hell, take a shot at it anyway.

Stay safe out there!

[guest043013-2]

I have no experience on the receiving end in terms of your question. I would like to hear the ladies' perspectives on it, I guess both anal and vaginal. Oral penetration by a toy - I don't get that at all, but sure, if someone wants to go there.

My thoughts, I guess as a voyeur, not a participant:

Toy penetration, with just a toy, not as part of a strapon play, would lack the full body contact that penetration by a penis attached to a body would have, and even a strap-on attached to a body. The feeling of the legs intertwining, arms wrapped around each other, lips kissing, and bellys rubbing, all of that would add to the overall pleasure in my eyes.

Again, since I am not experienced in strap-on play, I am only assuming that strap-ons imitate the angle of penetration of the real thing. However, since strap-ons can come in many sizes, larger ones may provide a different experience than real life penis penetration, smaller ones may reduce pain in other cases, and adding different curves, bumps, etc. can make a strapon experience a lot different.

The next area that would be different would be temperature. Would presume that unless you warm up the strap-on, that the initial penetration might be a cold surprise.

Next thing I think of is that a penis is fairly flexible in nature, despite the claims of rock hard penis-endowed hobbyist. While some of the strap-ons may imitate the physical characteristics of the natural penis, I bet they fall short in some ways. Now, does more flexible or less flexible lead to better orgasms would seem to be a great poll question.

Another issue is the orgasmic quality of the male penis, versus a strap-on. First, the spasms during orgasm of the penis itself I assume cannot be replicated. Also, during strap-on play, perhaps a double ended strap-on can bring about an orgasm for the wearer, but I don't see it being the same as the full body spasms of a quality orgasm. Part of this relates back to the full body contact I discussed earlier. Having the full body next to you, feeling the body that is penetrating you go through those orgasmic spasms I suspect adds to the overall fun the receiver has. Is it possible for a strap-on wearer to have a simultaneous orgasm with the receiver?

Last thing is something that should be hard to measure in the hobby. I don't think that most strap-ons ejaculate. How does the lack of an ejaculation in a strap-on reduce the pleasure of the receiver. Of course, that also applies in the oral penetration activities as well.

One of the better questions I have seen lately. I actually would be interested in the response of ladies since I think the number of them who can compare all of this is greater, and well, personally I have little interest in being penetrated myself via TS or strap-on play.

[RFPD]

Originally Posted by tigercat

I have no experience on the receiving end in terms of your question. I would like to hear the ladies' perspectives on it, I guess both anal and vaginal. Oral penetration by a toy - I don't get that at all, but sure, if someone wants to go there.

My thoughts, I guess as a voyeur, not a participant:

Toy penetration, with just a toy, not as part of a strapon play, would lack the full body contact that penetration by a penis attached to a body would have, and even a strap-on attached to a body. The feeling of the legs intertwining, arms wrapped around each other, lips kissing, and bellys rubbing, all of that would add to the overall pleasure in my eyes.

Again, since I am not experienced in strap-on play, I am only assuming that strap-ons imitate the angle of penetration of the real thing. However, since strap-ons can come in many sizes, larger ones may provide a different experience than real life penis penetration, smaller ones may reduce pain in other cases, and adding different curves, bumps, etc. can make a strapon experience a lot different.

The next area that would be different would be temperature. Would presume that unless you warm up the strap-on, that the initial penetration might be a cold surprise.

Next thing I think of is that a penis is fairly flexible in nature, despite the claims of rock hard penis-endowed hobbyist. While some of the strap-ons may imitate the physical characteristics of the natural penis, I bet they fall short in some ways. Now, does more flexible or less flexible lead to better orgasms would seem to be a great poll question.

Another issue is the orgasmic quality of the male penis, versus a strap-on. First, the spasms during orgasm of the penis itself I assume cannot be replicated. Also, during strap-on play, perhaps a double ended strap-on can bring about an orgasm for the wearer, but I don't see it being the same as the full body spasms of a quality orgasm. Part of this relates back to the full body contact I discussed earlier. Having the full body next to you, feeling the body that is penetrating you go through those orgasmic spasms I suspect adds to the overall fun the receiver has. Is it possible for a strap-on wearer to have a simultaneous orgasm with the receiver?

Last thing is something that should be hard to measure in the hobby. I don't think that most strap-ons ejaculate. How does the lack of an ejaculation in a strap-on reduce the pleasure of the receiver. Of course, that also applies in the oral penetration activities as well.

One of the better questions I have seen lately. I actually would be interested in the response of ladies since I think the number of them who can compare all of this is greater, and well, personally I have little interest in being penetrated myself via TS or strap-on play.

LOL!! No experience?

[DallasRain]

good question...i am not sure how to answer this for myself...except that I do prefer the feel of a real penis....alot of my guys who experience the same sessions you do,will say that it does not matter them them..they all say that "it's all good & fun"!

[Nicolet]

All my toys are made of glass, so they get warm very quickly and retain that warmth. But there is nothing on this earth better that a hot, throbbing, cock buried deep!

[Centralarnewguy]

A glass strap on Nicolet? Don't think I have ever seen one of those before? I have seen big ones, little ones, pink ones, blue ones, soft ones, hard ones but never a glass one but sounds quite intriguing!

[Nicolet]

I have a pic of it in my showcase, its the curved blue one.........

[DallasRain]

I have a glass toy but I use it cold! lol