When does time start.

[Samcro84]

What happens if I wanted to go somewhere with a provider like dinner, movie, drinks or ? before. How does it normally work?

I have had different answers from providers.

[Guest081519]

It depends on the lady. They all work independently from each other. One thing is certain. You want make sure that you are both on the same plan before you commence.

[lasvegas]

you know even though you pay for food , movie and drink...you are still on the clock right??? if might be and should be discounted, but she is expecting to be paid for it... (at least most of them)

[MsPrittiKitti]

Well said JJ
I think if you are unsure, havent built a rapport with said lady, or its the "first" date...i think you would be safe if you compensated her for her time accordingly
You dont want to be known as a "haggler, one that asks for more but expects to pay less, etc" type of gentleman

[rockerrick]

I've definitely met ladies who go out to dinner , or club off the clock . But they are rare ! And I had seen them a couple times first .

[Still Looking]

I have NEVER paid for time that was NOT BCD! Thats just me. It would make feel like buying a friend. Not going to do that. Seems I have no shortage of ladies who would like to have dinner, drinks, Las Vegas, Hawaii etc to join me. But I ALWAYS pay for BCD.... ALWAYS!

[joesnapshot]

Several providers have rates posted for multi-hour "dates"--dinner, drinks and "dessert".
After you've seem them a couple of times, some will be willing to go to lunch or dinner w/you afterwards if they're not busy. Just keep in mind they're business women, not girlfriends and spend accordingly and be respectful of their time.

[Mossman]

Suggestion. Post up that you would like to take a lady to Morton's and a movie and then BCD. Once the dollar signs dissolve, I think a lady might like an evening out. I know if I had to look at vaginas all the time, I might like an occasional break. Just a theory. Most I ever did was lunch before or after and I paid for the meal. To me this equates to tying the pork chop around your neck so the dog will play with you. Hope you and the lucky lady have a great time.

[Guest081519]

Some of us are so abrasive and discusting that we need a pork-chop around our neck.

Don't knock the pork-chop. Its served me well.

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by travelerman

What happens if I wanted to go somewhere with a provider like dinner, movie, drinks or ? before. How does it normally work?

I have had different answers from providers.

All ladies are different in this type of situation you could write a nice introduction about yourself in e-mail or pm. Asking the lady if she ever does dinner, movies, drinks. A lot great information in this thread already good luck to you travelerman.

[Guest041315]

You definitely need to know up front. I have only done it with providers I have known for a while and always off the clock. It is not a question of money for me. I just don’t need to be seen with eye candy at a restaurant, movies, bar etc. I just do it if we mutually want to experience something. Of course I pay for everything.

[guy fawkes]

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[flinde]

I need a Smithflield smoked pork chop, and the dog needs to be hungry.

This is an area that requires frank discussion between the parties so that there is no misunderstandings and resentments.

[bamatide]

Discuss it with the provider each one is different. Both of you must agree on the donation and what is expected before the date.

[Samcro84]

There are too many abreviations - BCD? I know it is probably real easy, but sitting here al least 5 minutes trying to figure it out - LOL