Definitely a good topic in the present climate especially.
Over the years, countless clients & non-bcd hobby friends have stated that my posted thoughts appealed to them. Whether we agree or disagree, I'm considered "comfortable" to talk with and know that I am the same person as "Kat" as I am in RL. Regardless of whether or not I'm fulfilling a fantasy or simply lending an ear, being genuine is very important to me and I'm glad it shows.
BBangs... That's very sweet how you conveyed your story. I'm happy for you this Valentine's.
GG... I'm with you on paying attention. That's one reason I don't let negative posters scare me off. This is just as much research material for me as it is for the fellas. :-P
Keep sharing your thoughts, People! We have to learn from each other... Different perspectives, experiences, lessons learned... & hopefully in a comfortable environment for us all.
XOXOX
Kit-Kat