maybe they should have a "NO THUG" policy......
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In support of Surcher.
I am an AA (Black, Negrito or whatever terms are used today). I have seen a few providers in my days. My preference in my dating, past marriage and relationships has been caucasion, asian or Latin.
I am not physically attracted to AA women.
As with many males and females it is a preference. It has nothing to do with being raised in Europe. I grew up in the Bronx mind you most of my life I thought my first name was "Papi".
I think the offense comes with how the terms is phrased
NBA seems like something on a bathroom in Alabama in the 60's.
A better way for a provider to phrase this may be what I have seen is that "I dont see AA males. No Offense , but this is my preference" This dose sound better. In my opinion.
I have seen a provider with a age preference with AA clients and reference which is good. That would weed out what people have termed "hood" people. Funny because in America today that comes in all races.
A provider preference in whom she provides a service to is her choice and her body.
I am just caught off guard when providers don't provide the information "up front". And I will skip their add.
Some are thrown off because they say I sounded white. Which was funny to me. She expalined after our converstaion that it was my dialect and voice. Not because I have a hold on the English language.
A lot of minorities have an education greater than high school, good families, homes and careers( and jobs). We all speak English. Maybe not in the context and form for a provider to feel comfortable with providing services.
Lastly, The provide "C" is attractive, but she dosent look Black in my opinion.
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