Time to speak my mind.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by @rlo726

Thanks Kay... This BS thread has gone on long enough...

So you think they should close it....because they aint!

[SpicyOnion]

Hm...most of the providers have responded here....except one...and there you go....

[Cleo]

Originally Posted by SpicyOnion

Hm...most of the providers have responded here....except one...and there you go....

Wouldn't responding only afford those who're interested in bashing or piling on, the opportunity & ammunition to do so? IDK if the accusations are true or not. I have no stake in this, but I do know that responding, defending oneself when the buzzards are circling is the equivalent of ringing the "dinner bell."

I do feel that in all of the finger pointing, we forgot to mention ourselves, the client? If we set a date, make that date!?! Allowing a provider to entice us away from an arrangement to receive a 10% or 20% savings, in my opinion is BS? How much is our credibility & reputation worth if a second provider can offer us a $10 discount & we break a commitment with a lady whom we've agreed to meet? Not taking any sides here, but let's strive to be realistic & at all costs, honest.

[bigryan2222]

Originally Posted by Cleo

Wouldn't responding only afford those who're interested in bashing or piling on, the opportunity & ammunition to do so? IDK if the accusations are true or not. I have no stake in this, but I do know that responding, defending oneself when the buzzards are circling is the equivalent of ringing the "dinner bell."

I do feel that in all of the finger pointing, we forgot to mention ourselves, the client? If we set a date, make that date!?! Allowing a provider to entice us away from an arrangement to receive a 10% or 20% savings, in my opinion is BS? How much is our credibility & reputation worth if a second provider can offer us a $10 discount & we break a commitment with a lady whom we've agreed to meet? Not taking any sides here, but let's strive to be realistic & at all costs, honest.

Man, all I can say is that your join date clearly shows in this case. To my understanding Kaylen has improved many things since I saw her. There has been nearly zero drama regarding her for 9 months or so also. Before that there where many train wreck threads involving her.

There are girls that have attacked Kaylen who crossed a line. There are also girls with impeccable reputations who thanked me for saying her name. Also, the OP of this thread is about as drama free as any woman I have ever known on this board. I have never met destiny but she has my complete respect with how she carries herself on this board and with the trust of those women on this board I know that I can trust.

Also, don't say you are not taking sides when you clearly are. I really am fine with white knighting for the most part, but it has a tendancy to show either ignorance or lack of knowledge. You clearly think we'll of Kaylen. I don't know how many guys and girls have problems with her. It may be a low percentage of guys but the problems are certainly there and a large number of providers end up having problems with her and providers seem to have a natural tendany to protect each other.

I really do want good things for Kaylen. A lot I guys enjoy her company which makes her good for the hobby scene. The big exception is all crap that follows her. The worst thing is that she can play victim like no person I have ever seen in or out of the hobby.

[AllThisMeat]

Originally Posted by Cleo

Wouldn't responding only afford those who're interested in bashing or piling on, the opportunity & ammunition to do so? IDK if the accusations are true or not. I have no stake in this, but I do know that responding, defending oneself when the buzzards are circling is the equivalent of ringing the "dinner bell."

I do feel that in all of the finger pointing, we forgot to mention ourselves, the client? If we set a date, make that date!?! Allowing a provider to entice us away from an arrangement to receive a 10% or 20% savings, in my opinion is BS? How much is our credibility & reputation worth if a second provider can offer us a $10 discount & we break a commitment with a lady whom we've agreed to meet? Not taking any sides here, but let's strive to be realistic & at all costs, honest.

I think it is an interesting perspective to say that it is ok for a woman to not speak her perspective on accusations made by providers and clients and then shame clients for how they choose to spend their money.

If you want to be realistic... if all it takes for someone to see one provider over another is $10 off, they're probably not as good as they think they are. How one man spends his $10 is his own business.

[Guest110923]

its not an accusation if its TRUE. LOL
It may have gotten a little personal in the attacks but again thats to be expected. When you go out of your way to start shit with various people ... dont expect everyone youve done it to to hold their tongue about it...
Some people dont want to be involved in the drama and bullshit.... alot of us just want have a good time with people we are going to enjoy... Providers want to be able to get references without getting our heads bitten off and personally attacked .. i dont think thats too much to ask...
So Destiny it may have gotten a little out of hand but i personally think youre awesome for bringing it up. Its probably something that shouldve been said a long time ago .
ESCORT.CLIENT.COMMUNITY.INFO.E XCHANGE.. Thats exactly what this site is for . If it prevented one person unknowingly getting involved in unnecessary drama when all they were looking for was to get a reference or a guy looking for a good time.... then this thread served its purpose.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

In the real world there's a big difference between somebody's feelings getting hurt and somebody's life being at stake big difference big humongous difference

Wow did I miss something, I havnt read anywhere about anyones life being threatened. Was that statement for dramatic effect?

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

Was that statement for dramatic effect?

YES!

[Guest110923]

And kaylen you can stop pming me harassing me saying ' you got me' whatever the fuck that means. Sorry im not fluent in crazy you will have to forgive me ...

The subject was brought up in coEd and i stated my opinion... i didnt break any rules or personally attack you. .. i simply stated facts....

If thats a little too much for you to handle.. thats a personal problem. Dont try to drag me into your drama...

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by Kay2Day

And kaylen you can stop pming me harassing me saying ' you got me' whatever the fuck that means. Sorry im not fluent in crazy ypu will have to forgive me ...

The subject was brought up in coEd and i stated my opinion... i didnt break any rules or personally attack you. .. i simply stated facts....

If thats a little too much for you to handle.. thats a personal problem. Dont try to drag me into your drama...
Worry about yourself.... BYE..
weirdo
LOL

I am enjoying this thread.

[Guest110923]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

I am enjoying this thread.

LoL it is kinda funny.
Whats even funnier i couldnt get her to respond to a reference request for a year and half but she PMed me 5 times tonight talking shit....
Then wonders why people call her a trainwreck

OHHHHH THE IRONY
LMAO

Mustve struck a nerve preeeeeeetty hard . Thats usually the side effect when the truth meets crazy LOL.

[JS42]

You go girl.

[johnsontedt84]

Showtime or HBO should come up with a series about this stuff. Gold mine I tell you.

[Kshunter]

I know for a fact that at least one provider in this thread is lying and it ain't Kaylen.

I can only judge Kaylen on my own interactions with her. She's provided references to other providers for me before and she's been nothing but good to me. Oh, and Bigryan, wanna compare join dates with ME?

[Guest110923]

Kshunter awwww how nice of you to come to kaylen defense...

White knights are ADORABLE . Like cute little lap dogs you just want to cuddle with ... Good for you sir most guys would be offended at the notion of being a HOOKTARD'S lap dog but thats so awesome you are so comfortable with it

Too bad i have a pm from her dated just a few days ago WHY SHE DIDN'T PROVIDE references to me... and text msgs from a gent saying she provided references just NOT TO ME..