GFE and PSE whats it mean to you?

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Damn. I don't understand why some of us are so confrontational and defensive about the matter. The question is simple. It asks for our individual opinions of what goes through our minds when we hear GFE and PSE.

The problem here is that this is all so subjective. The simple fact of the matter is that this is a very intimate, and personal, human interaction and as such we're all going to have our own ideas as to our own needs, wants/desires, and expectations. I seriously doubt that mine are the same as those of another...or theirs mine. We are all individuals, not clones or robots so naturally having these fulfilled, and the weight of importance placed on fulfilling these is going to vary greatly between each and every one of us.

Same goes for branding a provider with a specific title. I suppose if you absolutely have to place a title on a provider based on her activities and level of physical-emotional interaction, it could range from a "Blow-up Doll Experience" through, Limited GFE,/GFE/PSE, on up to a no holds barred "Nymphomaniac Experience". Regardless of which category we find ourselves placing the various providers, each of our lists are going to be different. My definitions are going to vary greatly from others, and theirs, mine.


While I'm as guilty as the next guy in wanting to know what possible activities *might be available*, I'm under no illusion that everyone will be granted the same privilege. But knowing what's possible, certainly helps in the decision making process. I've learned long ago that this isn't YMMV, (your mileage may vary), it's YMWV (your mileage WILL vary). Some people click, and some people don't. From personality differences to physical characteristics to whatever...the reasons and factors are immeasurable. But you're fooling yourself if you believe that your encounter is going to be exactly the same as those of another.

Some people place more importance on certain activities than others. Conversely, some offer certain activities and others don't. It's an individual decision so you can't really fault anyone. However, having this information in-advance, makes for better experiences due to the simple fact that there's no surprise; therefore, less chance of disappointment.

Personally, I don't place all that much importance on what a particular provider 'titles' herself. If I feel that she's the right person to meet my needs and fulfill my desires, then she's the one I'll call.

Too many people are getting caught up in titles and are failing to see the forest for the trees.

And that's all I've got to say about that.


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Bravo sir bravo....brings a tear to my eye!

[Mature Companion]

I agree 100%!
try telling that to Mojo, as he hell bent on telling me, I OFFER PSE because I myself, enjoy intensity, imagination, spontaneity, and no boundaries with my lovers. I view that as being uninhibited. Not PSE and certainly not that of *offering* PSE.

Originally Posted by ammonite

I don't like "boxes", and I think its wrong to categorize pse vs gfe as to menus or activities. I never have a preconceived ideas of what going to happen in a session.

I try to bring these things with me every time: intensity, imagination, spontaneity, and no boundaries. I expect the same from my partner. Then just see where it goes and and have the vest sexual experience you can, call it whatever you want.

Just my opinion

It's not the first time that I've agreed with Sofa. But he makes some good points of which Mojo, might want to re-read, before he goes about contacting ladies and *telling* them what they certainly DO offer to men.

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I agree 100%!
try telling that to Mojo, as he hell bent on telling me, I OFFER PSE because I myself, enjoy intensity, imagination, spontaneity, and no boundaries with my lovers. I view that as being uninhibited. Not PSE and certainly not that of *offering* PSE.

Just like one of my favorite pornstars I love it!

[selena skye pse]

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