How to give him the best orgasm of his life? Thoughts?

[Guest100514]

1. KNOW WHEN IT’S COMING

Get to know your partner and learn the tell-tale signs. Is there a twitch? A sudden stiffening? Heavier breathing? If you can learn to tell when his orgasm is coming ‘round the bend, you’ll be able to make it more awesome when it happens.

2. TALK TO HIM

One thing that can make a guy’s orgasm kind of a bummer? Feeling like it happened too suddenly and it wasn’t that big a deal when it did. Tell that you really want it to happen. Right now. Let him know how hot it is for you when he comes. Just knowing that might help him to really let go in a way he normally wouldn’t.

3. TELL HIM WHERE

Let me be perfectly clear and say that you absolutely do not have to emulate porn in order to satisfy your guy. But if you’re comfortable with it (or even turned on by it), inviting him to come somewhere on you is… really nice.

Why? It’s hard to say, but here’s my theory: Many men still have residual insecurities from their adolescence. We worry that women think our junk (and what comes out of it) kind of… gross. And it’s embarrassing.

So, maybe telling us that you want it on you helps us to put those fears aside and makes us feel like sexy, confident, grown men. In any case, we like it.

If you actually are grossed out by the prospect, or just aren’t comfortable with it, that’s fine. Just don’t do it. Telling him that you want it inside you (or inside a condom, more likely, but the sentiment is what’s important) will do the trick, too.

4. GRAB HIS BUTT

Yep. When you’re having intercourse and he’s about to finish, grab him by the butt and pull him in. It’s a way to say “I really want it,” without saying anything at all.

5. NIPPLES

Not all guys have particularly sensitive nipples (not all women do either, from what I understand), but some do. And some really do. Flicking his nipples with your tongue or fingers or squeezing them gently right before he comes can heighten the sensation and result in more of a full-body orgasm.

6. DRAW IT OUT (BUT NOT TOO MUCH)

The longer it takes, the better it is. Unless it takes forever. The happy medium here is to try to get a guy close to coming as quickly as you can, then tease him once he’s there to extend the experience.


http://www.thedatereport.com/dating/...om-a-real-guy/




I stumbled across this article online.
Men: Do you agree? What are your six tips?
Ladies: Do you see this as actual advice? What are your six tips to other ladies?

[Guest060214]

[Guest120614-1]

Yes, Yes, and HELL YES to the Nipple play!!! Especially when Im balls deep, nipple play drives me up a wall! Love it!

Originally Posted by Jillian Price

5. NIPPLES

Not all guys have particularly sensitive nipples (not all women do either, from what I understand), but some do. And some really do. Flicking his nipples with your tongue or fingers or squeezing them gently right before he comes can heighten the sensation and result in more of a full-body orgasm.

[Skout]

Originally Posted by Jillian Price

4. GRAB HIS BUTT

Yep. When you’re having intercourse and he’s about to finish, grab him by the butt and pull him in. It’s a way to say “I really want it,” without saying anything at all.

I do enjoy when a woman does this. I also love having her arms around me. But I'm a bit of a softie because all my hardness leaves my heart and goes into my...

Well, you know.

[daveindallas]

In order of importance to me
6....by far the most imp
4....like for you to grab my butt!!!
3....love it...tell me where you want it
2....talk dirty to me
Nipple play hasn't done much for
Me. Maybe haven't had it done right.
Have had it done wrong though...lol

[BlisswithKriss]

She has to be playing, fingering my asshole, maybe even inserting her finger deep to send me wild. Also gently stroking my butt crack. That would finish me off in a heartbeat. Nipple play does nothing for me. Dirty talk is more effective.

[Guest102215]

Originally Posted by DA_Tyler

She has to be playing, fingering my asshole, maybe even inserting her finger deep to send me wild. Also gently stroking my butt crack. That would finish me off in a heartbeat. Nipple play does nothing for me. Dirty talk is more effective.

TM fucking I!! Tyler. Lol but hey WALDT,
Jillian.. I am more than willing to be your test dummy!

[Sir Lancehernot]

1) Particularly if he's getting there via L1 or L2, don't forget the boys! Some attention there can help reach the threshold and enhance the intensity,

2) Again, particularly with L1 and L2, don't forget aftercare. Most women head straight for the hot rag after the final spurt. I've found one who extends the pleasure for a good 30 seconds or so by continuing to pay attention to Little Lance. The combination of sensitivity and attention can best be described as "exquisite agony"

[Guest112814]

Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

1) Particularly if he's getting there via L1 or L2, don't forget the boys! Some attention there can help reach the threshold and enhance the intensity,

2) Again, particularly with L1 and L2, don't forget aftercare. Most women head straight for the hot rag after the final spurt. I've found one who extends the pleasure for a good 30 seconds or so by continuing to pay attention to Little Lance. The combination of sensitivity and attention can best be described as "exquisite agony"

Very good advice. The extra few seconds at the end down there after the final (in my case, only) spurt like she's in love with my cock and cum takes a good session to GREAT. Doesn't really have to do anything except act like she is just in awe.

Also about the after care, seen two providers that use a little rubbing alcohol in addition to water or a wipe which is a great touch. Nice, really clean way to head out, especially if you're going back to work or to see the SO.

[Clouddancer]

I like all of the answers above, but one thing that really sends me over the edge.....

use my name

kinky I know, but we all have our quirks

[Guest060214]

call me "baby"

[str8.2.bbbj]

Jillian, you're hot and seem cool; but this list sux. You want to give a man the BEST orgasm of his life?
1. Suck his dick without him having to ask.
2. Make him a sandwich after he busts a nut.
3. Give him some silence.

Haaaaaaaaaa...That is the ultimate happiness.

[eccienewbie]

Just as he's about to peak, scream "I'LL PAY YOU!!!!"

Either that or call him "baby."

[killswitch321]

Well said, Jillian. Throw in Eye Contact and I could relate to that. Eye contact enhances the experience.

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by killswitch321

Well said, Jillian. Throw in Eye Contact and I could relate to that. Eye contact enhances the experience.

Eye contact=greatness!