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PleasantSurprise · 12-15-2013, 07:09 PM

I was wondering today about scenarios that would make having unprotected sex OK.

Does that scenario ever present itself?

What are the requirements?

As a married man, or a man with a SO, if you were to say unprotected sex feels so much better and if you were bound and determined to make it work with blonde bombshell down the way, what would have to happen in order for you to proceed with no longer using condoms?

As a married woman, or woman with a SO, what would you require before having unprotected sex with a man?

Is unprotected sex ok in real life, but off limits for anyone in the hobby?

Is it ok with some people, but not ok with others? How do you determine when to use a condom and when not to? Hobby yes, real life no?

Johnny4455 · 12-15-2013, 07:30 PM

Never, for me. Under no circumstances.

DestinyInKC · 12-15-2013, 07:31 PM

Unprotected sex in this hobby is not ok under ANY circumstances. No matter how long you have known each other, no matter if they have papers to prove they are "clean", and especially not for an extra donation. It is disgusting and should not even be considered.

vitokc · 12-15-2013, 08:09 PM

Never, under any circumstances. Having bareback anything is not worth the risk. I know some providers perform bbbj and that's ok if it's their choice. I don't normally see FS provders, but if they
offered I would decline. If the parties are willing to take the risk, that's their business. It's just not for me.

nycalcharlie2003 · 12-15-2013, 09:13 PM

Unprotected FS is not disgusting, but it is dangerous! That being said, I have never had a provider offer me bareback FS. If they did, I would NOT take them them up on it. Some folks think that if you catch HIV all you have to is just take some meds and you will be fine. The meds work, but I understand that the side effects are pretty bad. Better to be safe than sorry.

Charlie

bigryan222 · 12-15-2013, 09:36 PM

It is all about risk vs reward. I dislike condoms, but they basically take all of the risk out of the hobby and my personal life for me. I am single so I don't have to worry about concequenses past myself for the most part. Still, I am a little to selfish to want to worry about littleryans running around KC. STDs are obviously a concern too, but I have a bigger fear of knocking a girl up that I don't intend to spend the rest of my life with. I had a friend who believed his girlfriend lied about being on the pill to pregnant and force him to marry her. I had another friend who let it slip after a few drinks that she told her now husband she was on birth control when she really was getting fertility treatments. I had a lot of respect for that girl so it sorta changed my whole viewpoint on contraception. Its hard to truly trust anyone when it comes to making babies. So guys will do anything to spread their seed. Some girls will do anything to get knocked up.

BobsAlias · 12-15-2013, 09:52 PM

I remember back to my HS girlfriend. Her cum...my cum...everywhere...dripping down my shaft as she road me CG. Just going at it like rabbits for hours. Damn what a nice memory. Nothing disgusting about all that cum swapping at all.

That's the only thing nice about the 6-7 times a year that the Mrs. is in the mood for sex. *sigh*
And no... she's not my old HS girlfriend

SinsOfTheFlesh · 12-15-2013, 09:53 PM

The one and only place where unprotected sex is OK is in a monogamous relationship where both partners have been tested and are negative. Outside of that, uncovered sex is a game of roulette.

OLindsay · 12-16-2013, 06:33 AM

Too many risks for that. .

i'va biggen · 12-16-2013, 08:24 AM

Apparently a BBBJ is unprotected anymore.

OLindsay · 12-16-2013, 08:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Apparently a BBBJ is unprotected anymore.

Mines bbbj, just not bbfs..

i'va biggen · 12-16-2013, 10:51 AM

Very few of you left babe...

JRLawrence · 12-16-2013, 10:54 AM

I can remember my military days when a guy had to have a condom in hand to receive his liberty pass to get off base, even the married guys.

JR

vitokc · 12-16-2013, 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigryan222

It is all about risk vs reward. I dislike condoms, but they basically take all of the risk out of the hobby and my personal life for me. I am single so I don't have to worry about concequenses past myself for the most part. Still, I am a little to selfish to want to worry about littleryans running around KC. STDs are obviously a concern too, but I have a bigger fear of knocking a girl up that I don't intend to spend the rest of my life with. I had a friend who believed his girlfriend lied about being on the pill to pregnant and force him to marry her. I had another friend who let it slip after a few drinks that she told her now husband she was on birth control when she really was getting fertility treatments. I had a lot of respect for that girl so it sorta changed my whole viewpoint on contraception. Its hard to truly trust anyone when it comes to making babies. So guys will do anything to spread their seed. Some girls will do anything to get knocked up.

You're right, the reward is something we would all enjoy. The risk is different depending on your personal situation. If you're married or have a s/o, it's crazy
to risk any possibility of hurting them, possibly for life. HIV aside, there are plenty of other bugs that won't kill you, but make life hell.

paragod · 12-16-2013, 12:19 PM

I think there are several hobbyists on here that protest BBFS just a little too much and it makes me wonder if all their bluster about " I must know who these ladies offering BBFS are so that I can avoid them at all costs" are really just hoping to get some themselves.

I think BBFS is more common in this hobby than anyone wants to admit. It's been said many times, Everyone barebacks Someone.

I have had BBFS with a provider once on a paid date in my hobby career that was initiated by her and I was scared to death about it. I was fairly new and made sure it never happened again. About 6 years ago I met a very lovely provider at a meet and greet and we hit off so well that we ended up dating for quite some time. I never saw her on a paid date, only "real" dates and we were always BBFS but we proved to eachother we were clean and I trusted that she was not BBFS anyone else, and she trusted me with the same. She continued to see clients and I continued to see other providers occasionally but I believe we were only BB with eachother. (No, I won't say who it is, she is no longer a provider)

My personal belief is that its just too risky in general to BBFS in this hobby FOR ME and so I do not have BBFS, but if you really think about it, other than pregnancy, a man is pretty much exposing himself to the same diseases if he DATY without a dental dam that he is BBFS.