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Austins1hobby · 12-04-2013, 12:47 PM

It is known to all that Every woman fakes every now and then but truly how often do providers really fake it? While watching the new Showtime series Masters of sex I heard a true question and statement asked and answered. Why do women fake orgasm's? Answer(s); to make the man cum faster. or to get back to doing whatever it is she would rather be doing. That made me wonder, how many providers actually fake it? I know in some or most cases providers have a routine and trust me if you see the same provider more than a few times you will pick up on the routine if there is one. Faking it to get the session over and done because lets be honest men love feeling like we did something and when we feel like we pleasured a woman its over for us. I have even faked it just to get it over lol.

I figure all the providers fake it majority of the time unless they are either really into the person or they really and I mean really enjoy having sex. I would love to know "and I can only speak for myself" what helps a provider "besides money" reach that Orgasm.

Guest021414 · 12-04-2013, 12:49 PM

DATY vibrator or sybiAn for me

A lot of those providers are high volume actresses!
They have 30 reviews in 2weeks and they are all identical lol it's a play to them they think they are really pse

Not all providers are in just for the money!

Austins1hobby · 12-04-2013, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Daddyslilslut

DATY vibrator or sybiAn for me

A lot of those providers are high volume actresses!
They have 30 reviews in 2weeks and they are all identical lol it's a play to them they think they are really pse

Not all providers are in just for the money!

Well I know some don't need the money and some really enjoy the company or sex. However you are definitely right about the quantity some providers see in the matter of a week hell sometimes in the matter of a couple of days.

Britttany_love · 12-04-2013, 02:33 PM

For most women it takes alittle time to get warmed up. I know thats true for me. I dont fake an "O" it either happens or it doesnt, depends on the activity, the day and the person. Im not dissapointed if I dont "O" I still have great sex and sometimes prefer the constant stimulation during sex over a quick "O". Im a pleaser so im happy knowing my partner is satisfied and that we both had a great time.

Austins1hobby · 12-04-2013, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Britttany_love

For most women it takes alittle time to get warmed up. I know thats true for me. I dont fake an "O" it either happens or it doesnt, depends on the activity, the day and the person. Im not dissapointed if I dont "O" I still have great sex and sometimes prefer the constant stimulation during sex over a quick "O". Im a pleaser so im happy knowing my partner is satisfied and that we both had a great time.

I am sure some would like to know what you like so that it gets you to that point?

Britttany_love · 12-04-2013, 04:00 PM

The best way to get me going is foreplay. However like i said that all depends on your partner.. some guys dont do oral, some dont know how to do it right and then you have the guys who know what to do. It takes time and patience. Typically when a woman has an (O) the pussy tightens and clinches around the cock then you notice more wetness so im not sure how that part is easy to fake. If I was a guy I rather know your having a good time then know your faking it trying to get me in and out. There is nothing sexy about a well rehersed girl screaming and moaning like shes on a porn set when shes really rolling her eyes as you pound her.

It seems from your post that you want to know your getting the girl off which is good. It would be interesting to see how many guys here care to get the provider off or only care to themselves.

So a question for you and other hobbyist... Do you book a session to get the provider off or do you book so you can get off?

Austins1hobby · 12-04-2013, 04:43 PM

Honestly, getting a provider off is more of a turn on to me and it then gets me off. But I only know of a couple that could say if I really got them off or not. But its a huge turn on to me to get her off and then myself.

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Originally Posted by Britttany_love

The best way to get me going is foreplay. However like i said that all depends on your partner.. some guys dont do oral, some dont know how to do it right and then you have the guys who know what to do. It takes time and patience. Typically when a woman has an (O) the pussy tightens and clinches around the cock then you notice more wetness so im not sure how that part is easy to fake. If I was a guy I rather know your having a good time then know your faking it trying to get me in and out. There is nothing sexy about a well rehersed girl screaming and moaning like shes on a porn set when shes really rolling her eyes as you pound her.

It seems from your post that you want to know your getting the girl off which is good. It would be interesting to see how many guys here care to get the provider off or only care to themselves.

So a question for you and other hobbyist... Do you book a session to get the provider off or do you book so you can get off?

Fred Rogers · 12-04-2013, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Daddyslilslut

DATY vibrator or sybiAn for me

A lot of those providers are high volume actresses!
They have 30 reviews in 2weeks and they are all identical lol it's a play to them they think they are really pse

Not all providers are in just for the money!

I find it hard to belive that "Not all providers are in just for the money" that the only reason they are here.

JennsLolli · 12-04-2013, 10:36 PM

HERE'S a thought: If you don't want a girl to fake orgasms, stop demanding that she have them. "I'm going to lick you until you come" or "I won't fuck you until you come" or "I can't come until you do" are triggers to make a girl feel obligated to fake it. And when you force 10 girls to fake it, you're gonna think that you're a much better lover than what you actually are.

I'm with Brittany on this one. I don't always get off. And really, I don't care if I do or not. If anything, I sort of prefer that I don't, as when I do come it's fairly draining and I have fun either way. THAT being said, sometimes I can't stop myself from diddling a bit and pushing myself over the edge. Other times it sneaks up on me.

As far as how many providers in general fake it, who knows. I'm betting that it's a majority. Not a majority as in most of the women, but as in over 50% of the sessions that take place in Austin where the girl says "I'm coming" she is really nowhere close. But that's merely an assumption.

travis13131 · 12-05-2013, 01:59 AM

Great topic...This is only my thinking. Not saying it is the majority of the thought out there . I think what you said, holds bar. I also think every woman will have a fake o to please the guy to start. That being said, it is awkward in the real world and also for the provider when it comes to the REAL O. (calling a spade a spade). Both different worlds are coming from the same place from the start, to please the man regardless of the different intentions. ( no disrespect to the woman. . As a man we are trying to please the woman to get that O) Both have agendas... BUT can you get the REAL O from a provider? sticking to the topic..... You got an x men tongue that can move the speed of lightning, Maybe a dick that has the lasso of wonder woman ...I say, who the fuck cares. If you want to REALLY satisfy a woman. You need to meet them on their needs emotionally and then physically. Both are equally important. ( how can you do it in an hour. I am just saying what I know from woman..Be a repeat customer if that is your goal) You need to get to know them...Otherwise it is fake O. Side bar...Sometimes you meet someone in the real world for the night and fuck. The woman had a great O. To get there you met them emotionally.. There is a lot of room for my point. But what do I know

.On to the next drink or six

dextrose48 · 12-05-2013, 02:18 AM

I have been fooled,I'm sure but agree with Britttany. Pussy tightens and juices follow. Love it!

Austins1hobby · 12-05-2013, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by JennsLolli

HERE'S a thought: If you don't want a girl to fake orgasms, stop demanding that she have them. "I'm going to lick you until you come" or "I won't fuck you until you come" or "I can't come until you do" are triggers to make a girl feel obligated to fake it. And when you force 10 girls to fake it, you're gonna think that you're a much better lover than what you actually are.

I'm with Brittany on this one. I don't always get off. And really, I don't care if I do or not. If anything, I sort of prefer that I don't, as when I do come it's fairly draining and I have fun either way. THAT being said, sometimes I can't stop myself from diddling a bit and pushing myself over the edge. Other times it sneaks up on me.

As far as how many providers in general fake it, who knows. I'm betting that it's a majority. Not a majority as in most of the women, but as in over 50% of the sessions that take place in Austin where the girl says "I'm coming" she is really nowhere close. But that's merely an assumption.

Love the honesty that's all I ask for is just for the girls to be blunt about it. (well at least in this thread lol)

Austins1hobby · 12-05-2013, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by travis13131

Great topic...This is only my thinking. Not saying it is the majority of the thought out there . I think what you said, holds bar. I also think every woman will have a fake o to please the guy to start. That being said, it is awkward in the real world and also for the provider when it comes to the REAL O. (calling a spade a spade). Both different worlds are coming from the same place from the start, to please the man regardless of the different intentions. ( no disrespect to the woman. . As a man we are trying to please the woman to get that O) Both have agendas... BUT can you get the REAL O from a provider? sticking to the topic..... You got an x men tongue that can move the speed of lightning, Maybe a dick that has the lasso of wonder woman ...I say, who the fuck cares. If you want to REALLY satisfy a woman. You need to meet them on their needs emotionally and then physically. Both are equally important. ( how can you do it in an hour. I am just saying what I know from woman..Be a repeat customer if that is your goal) You need to get to know them...Otherwise it is fake O. Side bar...Sometimes you meet someone in the real world for the night and fuck. The woman had a great O. To get there you met them emotionally.. There is a lot of room for my point. But what do I know

.On to the next drink or six

All great and valid points. I understand some hobbyist and providers don't want that connection (emotional) with each other because of whatever reasons but to me a great connections makes for a great experience and most likely a repeat for me to go back. IJS whatever connection takes place from emotional, physical, maybe a even deeper connection is almost a guaranteed repeat customer. I think the providers that can connect with a hobbyist on a level get the most repeats but what do I know I'm just speaking from my point of view. But has Brittany stated you definitely feel a difference it tightens, starts to throb, and gushes lol ad honestly they may not moan or make a sound they may just be biting their bottom lip.

But I would really like to know what (besides the emotional connect) gets a provider to that spot.

Short on Hobby Funds · 12-05-2013, 05:51 PM

I know you wanted provider input not dudes, but I think it's hilarious that my wife faked it when we were dating and then stopped when we got married. The funny part is that I always hated the sounds she made when faking it, so sex actually got better with marriage! Turns out, I'm 1/1,000,000 or she is anyway. lol

Austins1hobby · 12-06-2013, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Short on Hobby Funds

I know you wanted provider input not dudes, but I think it's hilarious that my wife faked it when we were dating and then stopped when we got married. The funny part is that I always hated the sounds she made when faking it, so sex actually got better with marriage! Turns out, I'm 1/1,000,000 or she is anyway. lol

A lot changes when you get married.

I have a great story about a co-worker. This guy was dating 2-3 girls at once and liked them all because each had their own little benefit. They all were pretty equal in the bedroom (not at the same time) until one asked if he wanted to try anal! HELL yea was his response she allowed greek she allowed CIM and she started to swallow. Now he of course decided she was the one and married her and guess what happen?

After they got married the BJ's to CIM ended lol now it's BJ's till she wants to stop. The greek was never ever seen or done. They only do mish, cg, and the occasional K9. Sad sad sad. I laughed so hard when he told me this.