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Dondo7 · 09-29-2013, 10:26 PM

I saw a gal earlier this summer and I asked her about the details of her life in this hobby. She seemed shocked about this, like it was the first time she's been asked. Was this a weird question?

Nero Wolfe · 09-29-2013, 10:53 PM

Perhaps a little premature on a first encounter (which, coincidentally, seems to describe my sex life). But I have discussed the business at length with my past and present regulars after I have gotten to know them. I have learned a lot about this fascinating business from many different women who all have slightly different points of view about it.

Get to know her better and when she feels comfortable with you then broach the subject again.

Guest013121 · 09-29-2013, 10:58 PM

Its not a weird question but sometimes life in this hobby is not all peaches and cream. And sometimes when a lady tells someone something personal, they have to fear that this person they're confiding in may one day throw it up in their face to hurt them. And words on this board have a way of painting a picture on a lady. So maybe she was just a little taken back that you asked her, and not knowing you that well she may have been untrusting to tell you any details hun. We all have a story to tell but its about trust. I don't think you did anything wrong but you don't know what she has maybe been through in her past that prevented her from answering your question.

Dondo7 · 09-29-2013, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Nero Wolfe

Perhaps a little premature on a first encounter (which, coincidentally, seems to describe my sex life). But I have discussed the business at length with my past and present regulars after I have gotten to know them. I have learned a lot about this fascinating business from many different women who all have slightly different points of view about it.

Get to know her better and when she feels comfortable with you then broach the subject again.

lol. She was visiting so I'll never see her again. Maybe I can establish trust with Gemma and she'll lay all her dirt on me, that'd be some fun

royamcr · 09-29-2013, 11:31 PM

She probably didn't know where to start. I am sure all you gals have lots of stories. lol

mojoworkin · 09-30-2013, 12:50 AM

Some ladies will unload their life story on you, whether you want to hear it or not. I try to be a good listener, but sometimes it's just too much information.

Dondo7 · 09-30-2013, 02:13 AM

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Originally Posted by mojoworkin

Some ladies will unload their life story on you, whether you want to hear it or not. I try to be a good listener, but sometimes it's just too much information.

Right, I only want to hear it from those that I like

Blondie B · 09-30-2013, 02:14 AM

I have plenty of men ask me mostly out of curiosity and I'll usually give them the short answer and I've known some girls that will give their life story. I would rather keep the mood light so we can still have fun. I have responsibilities like everyone else and choose to do what and I don't like to feel like the man feels bad for me and has any pity because that's not what the date is about.

dirty dog · 09-30-2013, 05:42 AM

Sorry but why would you care, are you interested in becoming an escort? Or are you trying to save a girl? Are you looking for a girl friend? Writing a book? I mean really what does it matter, unless your trying to do one of the listed items, its a business transaction. The funny thing to me is that if the situation was reversed and she was asking you to spill the detailed information of your life you would have been posting an alert LOL.

JonSnow · 09-30-2013, 08:34 AM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Sorry but why would you care, are you interested in becoming an escort? Or are you trying to save a girl? Are you looking for a girl friend? Writing a book? I mean really what does it matter, unless your trying to do one of the listed items, its a business transaction. The funny thing to me is that if the situation was reversed and she was asking you to spill the detailed information of your life you would have been posting an alert LOL.

It's ok to be interested in something without having some sort of ulterior motive. This is a pretty unique profession that not very many people could or would do, so I think it's pretty natural to be curious about it.

SexyKaylen · 09-30-2013, 09:37 AM

Im writing a book..lol

Guest013121 · 09-30-2013, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by JonSnow

It's ok to be interested in something without having some sort of ulterior motive. This is a pretty unique profession that not very many people could or would do, so I think it's pretty natural to be curious about it.

Eeeeexxactly!!

Guest102513-1 · 09-30-2013, 11:14 AM

Well, how would you like if she asked you "details of being a hobbist"???

Like how do you do this, and not let your wife/SO find out???

Do you ever feel guilty about playing in the hobby and having a relationship IRL...and how do you handle that??

How do you meet a lady...during your work day, and your boss doesn't find out??

How much do you make ($$$) professionally, in order to have enough money to hobby??

How do you skim your cash, in order for your wife/SO to not find out??

What would your kids think, if they found out you hobbied??

What were the details in your life, that made you to decide to start paying for "it"????

When did you learn...or when do you think you'll have to start... needing the blue pill, in order to play successfully????

I'm sure your questions were harmless...but quite frankly unless this whole subject is brought up by the lady...or she has been a regular of yours...it really isn't any of your/ours business

The hobby is about the ladies creating fantasies for the guys...and the ladies making a little juice. And hopefully all parties being safe and having fun.

Beyond that, why in Earth should we feel the need to probe...like they say in sports "show a little class, and act like you have been there before???

And finally and most importantly, why do you NOT DO any freaking reviews.....opppss sorry about that, wrong thread, on that last point!!!!

JonSnow · 09-30-2013, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by vkmaster

Well, how would you like if she asked you "details of being a hobbist"???

There is nothing wrong in asking questions and having a conversation. And there is nothing wrong with telling the person asking that you're not comfortable answering.

dirty dog · 09-30-2013, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by JonSnow

It's ok to be interested in something without having some sort of ulterior motive. This is a pretty unique profession that not very many people could or would do, so I think it's pretty natural to be curious about it.

Could be Jon but someone conducting illegal business activities is probably not really looking to be questioned, but hey maybe its just me.