I am a predator. The introduction before the bedroom is foreplay; I like to make my dates comfortable and disarm them with unrelated conversation. For me, it is important to find a shared interest we can connect over. I always make eye contact, and it amuses me when my date squirms under my gaze. On a rare occasion I can find a partner that will challenge me, and in those few encounters I become somewhat submissive (which can be fun). But generally speaking, I am an alpha and I like to play with my food before I devour it
Once in the bedroom it is the kisses that give me a rush. Kissing can be so much fun! I prefer the mutual undressing because it feels much more natural. I love oral, and I think any woman that doesn't like oral has probably never had a proper orgasm from it. For me it is the touching and mutual exploration before the story's climax that turns me on. I also like orgasms that build. You know, the kind that makes you feel like you are about to fall....and you keep waiting, and waiting, and when you finally do fall it is earth shattering and you are exhausted. I would prefer one of those over 4 multiples any day of the week
I also like to watch a man touch himself. It is sexy to see an individual embrace their sexuality with confidence.