I like my sleep......

[Guest042015]

I've seen this topic addressed in many other ways, but I feel like it's time again....

What is acceptable hours to call a provider?

If I don't answer at 330am what makes you think I will at 4am. Again at 545? And 630 I finally answer.... Is there any limit on what is acceptable?

I know some women choose to keep hours other than typical 9 to 5, and I consider myself an early riser in the provider world(typically wake up around 6am)I think 7am until 11pm is acceptable for calling a provider. There are in fact hours listed on my showcase, but they are a guideline....not only that but it clearly states in my ads that if we have not met before I prefer PM or emails....

I know it's my fault for leaving the ringer on, but come on.....

So this leads me to the question, since men are doing it, are there providers taking calls at 3-5am? Let alone with no references?

Am I overreacting, or is this behavior just plain rude?

I would appreciate responses from ladies & gents.... If I need to change the way I think about this I will, but I just can't wrap my head around a woman waiting around for a gent to call at 3-5am.


Sincerely,
Still Tired DD

[Keyzer Soze]

A couple of thoughts, any gut that is calling at this time of the night, has more than likely been out enjoying some adult beverages,which are clouding his judgement. Very rude indeed,I'm sure you know what steps to take.

[thatgirlbailey]

I am glad you bring this up. I have had this issue as well. I have listed hours as well. I can POSSIBLY make exceptions but, not always. I DO NOT take calls that late. I, like you, am an early riser although I really do not prefer to take dates until 11 on. I normally get on my computer in the mornings take care of the business on there and then take care of the REAL business later.

Like Keyzer stated they are probably f^cked up one form or another and that is something I do NOT tolerate.

I will say though that I do turn my ringer off every night. Believe me if you wake me up while I am asleep you won't get sweet southern Bailey....lol

[mwsatx]

Agree with Keyser on this one. While I'm sure there may be an occasional legit call at that time of night, most are not going to be someone you want to see. I like to play later at night but I always make arrangements during the day or even several days ahead of time.

I think some men forget that providers are people too. I'm not sure that I could handle some of the things you deal with in this profession.

[Guest042015]

Originally Posted by mwsatx

Agree with Keyser on this one. While I'm sure there may be an occasional legit call at that time of night, most are not going to be someone you want to see. I like to play later at night but I always make arrangements during the day or even several days ahead of time.

I think some men forget that providers are people too. I'm not sure that I could handle some of the things you deal with in this profession.

I have to take a 5 hour energy to see you, and I will accommodate late night requests if I get them in advance, but I do love our kinky late night rendezvous!!!

[KlassyKelliAnn]

I believe a guy should only call a provider after he has researched HOW she requires herself to be contacted. If she has a certain availability listed then that is when he should make contact. Additionally, if he needs a 3am appt he needs to contact her during her normal hours and make the appt unless she has specified availability otherwise as in a short notice post or what have you. And finally, I agree, DD, totally when you mentioned new friends should contact via PM and I require this strictly as I do not answer any call from anyone who has not first PMed me with their introduction and references. I do not speak to anyone until they are verified. Things are becoming too dangerous out there and with more and more crazies impersonating handles and using fake refs, etc - it is important to keep such rules in place and always follow up.

[sms918]

hi DD, your completely right. I turn my cell ringer off, but have gotten a call or two from a provider at 3:00 a.m. asking if I wanted to meet. I happened to check my phone one time and said I was in bed, and another didn't notice until the next day.

I understand that some people are out at that time, and there's providers who are available. I would assume the best way to check is the short notice request/iso. I see providers, say available 3-5 a.m., and requests at those times, but to call up a provider in the middle of the night once or repeatedly is rude.

My only suggestion is to turn your ringer off at night, have message say call back in the morning.

[Guest101314]

Most times, I'm a heavy sleeper so a call in the middle of the night wont wake me.... But guys, PUHLEASE check our hours!! They are there for a reason.. I have kids so me seeing you after my posted hours is flat out not going to happen on short notice. Now, if you call me a few days ahead, we might could work something out. It's all about respect though.

Another thing, please do not call back to back to back. That annoys the living shit out of me. If I don't answer on the first call, shoot me a text. I might be busy with a client or real world stuff and cannot answer you. And if you text me to call you back, I will when I have the opportunity to. We aren't ignoring you guys on purpose, unless you are on the Do Not Answer list, then we are but you would know if you are on that list or not.

We most definitely are people to, not sex robots. Be respectful so when we do get to play together it's enjoyable for everyone.

[bamatide]

I agree with the above posts. Providers do have a life outside of hobbying.

No matter the time I wish to see a provider, I always pm them in advance to arrange an appt.

I know I love my sleep!!

[Charlottehoney]

Its an ongoing thing. I once saw a guy last minute just cause I was awake and he was so drunk it was not worth it. In my opinion unless they schedule in advance cause, no good can come of a last minute meeting in the middle of the night. Especially from someone who calls more than once.

[steve_in_texas]

I think 11 pm should be the latest. Ppl who know me know better than to call me after that no matter if it's to reup. There is no price on a goodnight sleep