Providers: How much do YOU get?

[DirtySecrets]

And by that, I mean how many emails, PMs, text queries, etc., do you receive on an average day. I have sometimes sent a provider a PM to sort of introduce myself, to make first contact in what I hope will be an actual meeting in the future. In several cases, I've received no answer from the lady, even when I was complimentary and polite. It finally struck me, though, that I have no idea how buried you gals are by messages from us horny individuals. Anybody wanna share how many hobby things you have to respond to on the average day?

[foxyred73]

It deps on the lady and she does things in here bus

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by DirtySecrets

And by that, I mean how many emails, PMs, text queries, etc., do you receive on an average day. I have sometimes sent a provider a PM to sort of introduce myself, to make first contact in what I hope will be an actual meeting in the future. In several cases, I've received no answer from the lady, even when I was complimentary and polite. It finally struck me, though, that I have no idea how buried you gals are by messages from us horny individuals. Anybody wanna share how many hobby things you have to respond to on the average day?

DirtySecrets, Just depends everyday can be a little different. When I receive a pm, e-mail, or text. I'm always really fast on replying back to that person. Also remember providers do have there personal lives too. It's always best to give a little time and wait to hear back.

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

DirtySecrets, Just depends everyday can be a little different. When I receive a pm, e-mail, or text. I'm always really fast on replying back to that person. Also remember providers do have there personal lives too. It's always best to give a little time and wait to hear back.

Agreed. Some of us have quite a few things to juggle. We aren't trying to be rude. I get back to all my emails and such within a few hours though.

Give them a few hours. Screening can take a while too, maybe they were already checking things out.

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by DirtySecrets

And by that, I mean how many emails, PMs, text queries, etc., do you receive on an average day. I have sometimes sent a provider a PM to sort of introduce myself, to make first contact in what I hope will be an actual meeting in the future. In several cases, I've received no answer from the lady, even when I was complimentary and polite. It finally struck me, though, that I have no idea how buried you gals are by messages from us horny individuals. Anybody wanna share how many hobby things you have to respond to on the average day?

Sir Dirty Secrets...

This is a GREAT QUESTION and thank you for bringing it up.... The other beautiful ladies are correct that the number of emails, pm's, texts, phone calls etc... does vary from provider to provider... and also the type of screening that they do... However, in my case... and I believe... to my dismay... that I am TORTOISE of the GROUP!! Lol... BAD SLAVE!!

Maybe, it's because I am so damn OLD!! Lol.. I don't know... but here is how a TYPICAL DAY goes for me:

1) Arise between 4:00 - 5:00am...

2) I usually go for a 4 mile hill climbing session on the treadmill... followed by some weight training...

3) Then it is BACK to the apartment to take my bubble bath... and get DRESSED for the DAY!!

4) I receive between 40-50 emails and pm's per day... These come in via ECCIE, email, TER, P411 or my website... THIS DOES NOT INCLUDE TEXTS OR PHONE CALLS...

5) Typically, a NEW gentleman who IS NOT a P411 provider... requires between 10-12 emails... before I can see him... Now, you may ask WHY so many?

a) First, this is our courtship... we are getting to know each other... and it is IMPORTANT to me... that I make sure that I am the RIGHT PROVIDER for YOU... You BOYS work VERY HARD for your money... and you deserve to see a provider that suits both your personality and your needs!!

b) I am a STICKLER for references... So, the average gentleman sends me between 2-4 references... I then have to contact each of them... sometimes, I have to contact them via ECCIE, email AND via TEXT... rarely does a provider require that I call her... at this point in my career... However, if that is needed... I am happy to oblige...

c) If the references are not able to reply... by the requested appointment date... then another email or pm is sent out... in order to check for ALTERNATIVE dates and times...

D) As you can see... the number of emails... that are needed to very EACH NEW GENTLEMAN can be substantial...and I for one... VERY MUCH APPRECIATE understanding gentleman like yourself...

6) In between appointments... I will TRY to return emails, pm's etc... but please understand... that we are HUMAN... and that our dates can be VERY PHYSICAL...So, there are times... when we may NEED To nap in between our dates...

7) Now, I am ASSUMING that my munchkins aren't with me on this day... and even though I am a low volume provider... I will typically need 2-3 hours to return emails... and I work out 1-3 hours per day... and then you budget in time to get ready... your appointments etc.... and before you know it... your day is simply gone...


I always ask everyone to be patient with me... because like many of the providers on the board... I am a single Mom... and I also have a challenging genetic disorder... that I deal with on a daily basis... and so, unfortunately... I sometimes tire faster than I would like... For example, because of the rainy weather in San Antonio the last few weeks... I have had a migraine... that will subside... but not completely go away... So, this has greatly affected my ability to return my messages in a timely manner... and that sort of thing... ALWAYS stresses me out and makes me feel terrible...

I DO NOT MIND a GENTLE REMINDER from a kindly gentleman like yourself...just asking where we are in the verification process... I really don't... and then I always make a SPECIAL NOTE... to make it up to the gentleman... when we finally DO MEET IN PERSON...

As we speak... I am about to crash... Lol... i am normally in bed pretty early...

Have a great night...

Your seductive slave,

Guinevere

[DirtySecrets]

Ah, thank you for the truly informative answer, gorgeous Slave. I'm trying to imagine what it would be like to receive 40 emails a day which said, "Dear DirtySecrets, please come see me and let's have lots of naked fun." Wow...that would take a lot of response time.
A second/somewhat related question for the ladies: if you're on my "Buddy List", the window on the left shows me when you're online...supposedly. Do some of you leave yourself logged in while you're showering or cleaning or going to the store? On several occasions, I have seen LadyX listed as online, PMed her to say, "Are you free tomorrow at 11am?" and waited...and waited. Personally, I'd rather have a simple "No, sorry," in a few minutes than wait for an hour or even over night for no response at all.
I apologize if I sound whiny or upset; I'm not. I love the women who populate this board and truly love spending time (and $) with them. Just trying to understand what prompts you to respond and what makes you decide to ignore.

[foxyred73]

Mrs dirty little sercrets to anwers your question about being loggin to this website when comes to rmail it set up thew main email that I get on a daily basic from horny guys and other guys that you look at adds here on eccie and your showcase .ALso everyone is diffent how the settup there pvt emails and text time.

[Guest042015]

I think the mobile site has issues with leaving you logged in if the window is open & running in the background.

[extant51]

To My Humble Slave:
Please be sure to get plenty of rest throughout your tiring and eventful day. You deserve and need it because I, for one, know the energy you surely expend in giving such exquisite pleasure to your lordly masters. Such obedient slaves are in short supply and therefore the anticipation of your reply serves to remind we masters that the pleasure of your company is extensively sought, and we should relish when our time comes to rule over your domain.

[Slave Guinevere]

Originally Posted by extant51

To My Humble Slave:
Please be sure to get plenty of rest throughout your tiring and eventful day. You deserve and need it because I, for one, know the energy you surely expend in giving such exquisite pleasure to your lordly masters. Such obedient slaves are in short supply and therefore the anticipation of your reply serves to remind we masters that the pleasure of your company is extensively sought, and we should relish when our time comes to rule over your domain.

Sir Extent51...

Thank you for your kind words... it is truly my pleasure to serve and please... those in my care... I have had some issues with my disorder recently... so, if ya'll could give me a few more days... to relax and recover... I am sure... that I will soon be back... to my usual perky and cheerful self...

I greatly appreciate everyone's patience and kindness with the delay in my replies... it is very frustrating for me to fall behind... but in this instance... it was truly out of my control...

However, the GOOD NEWS is... I am on the UPSWING... So, I should be back to my normal SASSY and SEDUCTIVE self by Thursday at the latest...

Your adoring slave,

Guinevere

[repete offender]

SASSY and SEXXXXY you are!!!!!