Dissappointment

[cosnewb]

I always grew up with the mindset that if you have nothing good to say then don't say it. Well I usually apply this by keeping my complaints neutral and not specific towards the actual offender. Usually it is the situation that is aggravating and not the person themselves, that is my main justification usually. I understand when an individual is just fucked up, plenty of personal experience, and when the situation is un-salvagable regardless of the participants.

Tonight I found myself in a situation which seems pretty fucked up on the personal level, but I keep it anonymous because there is reasonable doubt. I contacted a newer provider tonight, a former BP girl, and had no problem initiating contact. Everything seemed on the up and up and nothing really threw up any red flags initially. I ended up running a little late and when I told her she replied back that she was slightly delayed too due to traffic. I thought, alright, that's cool it all worked out.

Expecting maybe 20 minutes I do not get a message for close to an hour. I am not from here, so I had left early to make sure that I found the place without making a thousand turnarounds that still baffle me. Still I thought it was good that she was delayed because the reason I couldn't find my way was because goggle maps is corky's more fucked up cousin. I put in one address and that maps led me in the complete opposite direction.

I had already had a very aggravating day when it seemed like there would be no respite from the bad luck. I should have remembered that before I left on my adventure. When the stars finally aligned and I was on the right side of town I approach the door. no ones home. I message our friend and she tells me that she is at the other hotel of the same name at the same exit. I will never understand that. anyway, I finally arrived at my destination.

I went in and knew instantly that this former BP girl was still close to her root by the difference between the pictures and reality. I am not saying that the pictures were not her, but they sure weren't recent. Now, I would not consider myself picky. I have had no problem being with many different body types. Heres the thing, I love WYSIWYG. now what I saw and what I ended up getting were two different things. I wont say that I love BBWs per say, but I love thick women. What I tend to forget is that BBW is like autism ... its a spectrum(inappropriate? maybe). From the pictures I had expected a nice thick woman, but what I got was pretty much the epitome of BBW. Not that even mind her body type, but I don't like being surprised.

Despite all of this I give the benefit of the doubt and activities commence. I will have to say she has very awesome oral skills. I have never been able to cum from bj, but she had me close to being on the way. But even though she said she was nqns, she stopped. I suppose I can understand though because I can be a chore in that regard. We continued and she slipped on the condom with her mouth and climbed on top of me. She was good, but my stereotypical white boy rythym kept interefering. Afterwards we did some K9 for a bit and it was nice to grab her ass and watch it shake. Then she turned over on her own (I prefer to make those decisions) and was hoping I would finish if I had MISH. Besides the fact that I had already inquired about MSOG, and this was only 20 minutes in.

She got a phone call and had to stop a couple times. Finally when I needed a refresher from her lips she decided she had no saliva and told me to jack off with her mouth on my cock. I tried that but I knew she was already done. It wasn't even another hobbyist calling her, it was her sister waiting to go out. She was late getting home and because of that her sister kept bugging her to finish up (shes in the biz too) so they could go out. SHe finally decides after 20 min or so that she needs to get ready to leave. She offers me a rain check and reduces the rate by 70%.

Overall it was very disappointing not only to get lost, but also to arrive to someone very different from what you were expecting only to have an experience that was way below the standards. While the BJ was amazing, she was in such a rush she could not complete the promised nqns.

I was raised not to speak poorly about people. I just choose not to write a negative review in public like a gossip. I just had to vent about the frustration I expierienced over an already trying day. In some ways I understand all sides, in others I am baffled. Oh well, lesson learned. I should have suspected a BP girl, especially one so new to the site. But we live and learn. At least she didn't try to dash with the whole hours worth.

[AngeLisa]

Good thing she remains nameless because it sounds like you were late ( for whatever reason that may be) nd didn't get ripped off just blue balled!
Suks

[cosnewb]

Well I had left early just to drive around, I just happened to have the wrong info from Google. If I had known where I was heading then it might have been different. Like I said, its been a very weird day for me altogether. And you are right, I did not get ripped off monetarily, just expectationaly. If I hadnt been told there would be a delay then I would have gotten cross streets and neighboring locations at first. It was just a generally disappointing experience.

[Guest120113]

You might want to share this kind of stuff in the mens lounge sugar...

[SofaKingFun]

Well, you can vent, which is pretty-much doing nothing at all...except that you're allowing this ugly cycle to perpetuate,.... or... you can do what you should and tell it in a review.

If a provider is misrepresenting herself in the form of old/dated pictures and if she doesn't understand that your appointed time is supposed to go undisturbed--meaning, without the interruption of constant and continual phone calls, and if she simply doesn't live up to what she's presented in her ads, then perhaps a review might be just the wake-up call this anonymous provider needs so as to bring about a change.

In my eyes, if you're not part of the solution, then you're part of the problem. Allowing this sort of thing to perpetuate is a problem. It was certainly enough of a problem for you to want to vent about it and start your own, vent thread....

But seriously, why even bother? What good is it going to do? To you, it might be of some relief to vent and get it off of your chest. To a lot of others, it paints you in a bad light because it shows that you'll tolerate this sort of behavior, and it shows that you're okay with keeping that information to yourself while others are unknowingly going to schedule with her and possibly be subjected to the same sort of shit that you were... besides that, it does nothing to correct the problem

Had someone brought this matter to light before you scheduled with her, would you have gone through with arranging this meeting? Yeah, I know, you didn't have this information so you can't answer that question.

Well, now you do have the information and you're choosing to sit on it. Why?

You don't have to beat the gal up in the review. Simply post what happened.

It's obvious that you've got a fine command of the English language, so it shouldn't be too difficult for you to convey the message without dogging this particular provider.

Simply state the facts in a level-headed, even-tempered, matter-of-fact manner and you'll be fine. But certainly get the information out there.

That's what makes this clock tick and why they named it,
Escort Client Community Information Exchange

Without the exchange of information, both good and bad, the thing breaks down.

Do what's right and post a review. Doing so will benefit everyone of us, her included.

Regards,
SofaKingFun

**While it was a noble gesture for her to offer to knock off 70% of her rate, it just makes you wonder how bad must the appointment have been for her to even consider that as an option, muchless 70%


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[Sonya Playmate]

Cowsnewb, sorry to hear you had a bad experience. Always do your "research" before you go see someone. You may want to review it also so guy's don't run into same situation as you did. Better luck to ur next adventure! :-)

[savak]

I can relate to alot of your story in situations that I'll just keep to myself....

[Mossman]

This sort of "I'm too nice to name her" crap is useless. Grow a pair!

[Keyzer Soze]

Thanks for deciding to post a review.

[cosnewb]

After some discussion it seemed more than clear it should be done and it should have been my first thought. Now just waiting on this one to get moved.

[John Landecker]

Welcome to the hobby! You are not going to see stars after every session. Believe me ....I know.


Hey CosnewB, I was going to send you a PM but you must have your mailbox turned off.

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[cosnewb]

That's odd, I have room and I have not disabled any messaging.

[John Landecker]

Originally Posted by cosnewb

That's odd, I have room and I have not disabled any messaging.

Ahhh working now, not sure what you did.



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[Lovelyyellie]

What's sad is.he.makes it sound like all my.fault when he had the issues

[Lovelyyellie]

Also realize im. not from.here as well . And yes sometimes shit does happen but to negate from.the fact you ddidn'tidn't get ripped off. I'm not some 300 pound lady nor have I recieved any.negative marks in this site or my.other review site. Which are all in the plus