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Naughty Destiny · 09-20-2012, 05:40 PM

Hello everybody! I hope you are all doing well today.

I have heard many times from my clients that the reason that they see escorts is because their wife is not interested in sex anymore (for whatever reason). I was wondering if the shoe was ever on the other foot so to speak. As in do you guys ever lose interest in having sex with your wife or is it always the wife that loses interest in having sex with the husband? It seems to me that this could go either way because I can't understand why only women would lose interest. Are there any of you guys out there that just are not interested in having sex with your wife anymore? If the answer is yes, why?

Guest070313 · 09-20-2012, 05:57 PM

I've lost interest in my SO cause she's not a freak and all of the sudden after the baby doesn't like to suck dick. Mine is still very attractive and got a hot body but I just need a woman that loves sucking dick and being a freak. Even if a woman doesn't love it but tries her best to make me feel good is what I like. I don't get that at home anymore.

PLUS to keep it real, I've always enjoyed having a variety of women. I just have to be more discreet these days. That's why I'm Hobbying now.

I think I just kinda fucked myself though because now I have my friends with benefits/GF's and providers... Oh well, I'm just a man whore... In the words of Hank "I'm just carrying on a family tradition".

exoticbabygirl · 09-20-2012, 06:51 PM

Man whoreyou are sir... But I like them

str8.2.bbbj · 09-20-2012, 07:22 PM

It's not that with me. Sometimes a man just wants sex without having to fucking talk about it. Just suck my dick and swallow. Fuck! I don't want to think about kids, bills, business--just lips on the dick.

BODYSHOPGUY · 09-20-2012, 07:36 PM

Well, there is nothing like the excitement of being with a woman for the first time! The thrill of discovering all the new hot hot buttons, way she responds, different sounds and moans. It's just eciteing! Plus there is the bonus of reafriming our manhood. With an escort, dancer, etc your just a few hundred dollars away, and hopefully no drama!
My SO is several years younger, very attractive, but sometimes life just gets in the way,
If you forgot the dry cleaning forget the blow job for a week, etc
I'm sure I'm like everyone else and love my SO or we wouldnt have one. So for me it's one of life's guilty pleasures, my mini vacation.
Sometimes just lurking around, living the hobby through people's reviews and viewing p411 is enough for me and sometimes not.... Love fantacy!

Boltfan · 09-20-2012, 07:56 PM

Al Bundy didn't want to have sex with his wife. I'm just sayin.

Copierguy0 · 09-20-2012, 08:19 PM

It's a Man Thing. Theres no such thing as a Loyal Man. All men fuck other women.
We are low by nature and have to do it. Men must find and conquer as much pussy as he can get. It's a Man thing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZb2H4AK1po

CG

Prolongus · 09-20-2012, 08:32 PM

[QUOTE=Copierguy0;3220251]It's a Man Thing. Theres no such thing as a Loyal Man. All men fuck other women.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZb2H4AK1po

Friggin' "A" CG...plus that fact my wife is a Puritan when it comes to sex these days compared to the lovely Providers here...

"You want to put your DICK in my MOUTH??? NOOOOO"

"You want to LICK my PUSSY??? NOOOOO"

"Well, maybe 20 years ago, but I am sophisticated now and that just is NOT going to happen...you dirty old pervert, you."

Being married...keeps you grounded...unless you fly to ECCIE.

pyramider · 09-20-2012, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Boltfan

Al Bundy didn't want to have sex with his wife. I'm just sayin.

Peg Bundy's voice alone would make a diamond cutter soft.

jwood · 09-21-2012, 07:15 AM

I have a great SO, sex and everthing is good. Growing up in a small town, most ladies think they have to be in love to fuck. Thats not the case in the hobby world. I like varity and I'm just a bad boy.

mayday · 09-21-2012, 07:45 AM

for evolution to suceed there must be varity. mongamy is an out growth of societys' need for responsibility to care for women and children. the two are in constant conflict. such is life.

Spikebaby · 09-21-2012, 07:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mayday

for evolution to suceed there must be varity. mongamy is an out growth of societys' need for responsibility to care for women and children. the two are in constant conflict. such is life.

Could not have said it better!!!!

The Original Jenna of Dallas
spikebaby
Jennaofdallas@yahoo.com

Stag · 09-21-2012, 09:54 AM

I hate to admit this. When we first married (many, many, many years ago) the lovely Mrs. Stag seemed to enjoy sex of all the kinds I enjoy (insert all the acronyms here except Greek), at the acceptable rate of 2-3 times a week. Then she got pregnant. And i can tell you the exact date our second (and last) child was conceived, because it was the only time we had sex between the births of our two children. And she wasn't really into it -- she was just trying to shut up my whining and begging. Over the course of the next decades, I whined and begged over and over and over again, but she didn't fall for it all that many times.

Over that period of time, I grew more and more resentful of the deprivation. And at the same time my resentment was getting more and more entrenched, she was getting less and less sexually attractive. Don't get me wrong -- I still love my wife deeply, and I am devoted to her as a person with whom I hope to spend the rest of my life. But she just doesn't tingle the junk for me any more, both for reasons of resentment and for reasons of weight gain and aging.

Ironically, after she went through menopause, she started getting a little more randy. Not all the time -- just about once every two or three months -- but when she wants it, she wants it. But I just don't. I really, really, REALLY have to work it up just to fake it for her benefit (which, now that I think about it, was just what I suppose she was doing for me those two to three times a year all those decades).

I'm a pretty religious person generally, so it was a big leap for me to start hobbying after a couple of decades of marriage, but it was a necessary release. Without some way to get that need met, I really might have gotten so frustrated that I left a very nice person purely out of mind-numbing frustration.

So the much shorter, summary answer to your original question is -- yes, I hobby because I just don't like sex with the lovely Mrs. Stag anymore.

hrlee · 09-21-2012, 11:21 AM

She can do whatever she wants, I don't care at all.

hotindallas · 09-21-2012, 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Copierguy0

It's a Man Thing. Theres no such thing as a Loyal Man. All men fuck other women.
We are low by nature and have to do it. Men must find and conquer as much pussy as he can get. It's a Man thing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZb2H4AK1po

CG

I'll have you know that I am ABSOLUTELY loyal to one woman (For exactly the length of the session I just paid for).