What would you do?

[daarakan]

To give the basic scenario, you schedule an appointment with a provider (got reviews from creditable members), go to her hotel. Not a run down shack, not 5 stars, along the lines of a best western. As you pull up, two le drive out of parking lot. What do you do?

I guess if you brave you go through with it, but as not a run down hotel, you don't expect to see 2 cars come out of the lot. But there is a restaurant right next to it (sharing parking lot), so it entirely possible they came out of there (though in that instance you ain't thinking about the restaurant and putting two and two together. Do you tell provider truth about the cars and say you can't make it? Can they even listen in over cells?

Do you make up any excuse that comes to mind for a last minute cancellation (engine trouble etc). In this scenario she hasn't given the room # and you haven't gone there, so it safer for both to do a last minute cancellation and peeve her off, but keep both out of any risk.

I reckon an hour later or so, it dons on you that is 90% sure they came from the restaurant and you panicked for no reason and you feel like an idiot. But a car with a gold star within 200ft of a meeting place is the anti-blue pill.

How would you react to the situation and what is the best way to handle it?

[lowgear]

I would not stay,how could you have a good time thinking they might knock on your door,i think the lady would not park her car either if she was on her way to see you,and she saw there cars

[DallasRain]

If they were doing a sting wouldn't they be using unmarked cars???

My advice is if you are 100% sure about who you are seeing,relax and go see her!!

True story--I was staying at a very classy hotel in Albuquerque ..I had a full schedule booked for the next two days..I checked in sunday eve and it was nearly an empty hotel....I woke up the next day ready to go have fun,BUT the parking lot was full of police cars & sherriff cars from all over new mexico!! They were having a "cop" convention.....lol

[Outdoorsman]

I agree with Dallas, I would walk in like I was seeing my lover, which is completely legal. I would be aware of any language or motions the lady made and if after a few minutes she was fine. I would not place the envelope anywhere just yet. I would wait for her to ask for envelope and if she did that just might kill the session, but if she undressed and we started DFK and fondling, I would feel much more comfortable.

In my experience cops have no idea what is going on right in front of their face, they would think it is a husband having an affair. Even if they knew they more than likely would not even care as long as no is complaining. Now the cleaning crew of the hotel, those are people to be fearful of as they know how many men come and go from that room and they know exactly what the lady is doing. I have seen them subpeonaed into court to testify to how many men they have seen coming and going.

[daarakan]

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

I agree with Dallas, I would walk in like I was seeing my lover, which is completely legal. I would be aware of any language or motions the lady made and if after a few minutes she was fine. I would not place the envelope anywhere just yet. I would wait for her to ask for envelope and if she did that just might kill the session, but if she undressed and we started DFK and fondling, I would feel much more comfortable.

In my experience cops have no idea what is going on right in front of their face, they would think it is a husband having an affair. Even if they knew they more than likely would not even care as long as no is complaining. Now the cleaning crew of the hotel, those are people to be fearful of as they know how many men come and go from that room and they know exactly what the lady is doing. I have seen them subpeonaed into court to testify to how many men they have seen coming and going.

Yeah, I didn't think she was involved, but started thinking what if they could bust in and get both of us. No real evidence, but that ain't ever stopped'em before. Not the most logical thinking, but with a minute to make a decision, logical thought isn't always the easiest to come by at least not for me doh . But good to hear others experiences

[blackdragonz]

I had same experience. Came to hotel saw 10 police cars parked between hotel and waffle house. so scary i drove away and called her told her about police cars, she told me they had breakfast-meeting. so i turned around and proceeded to hotel room. at that time she got many great reviews that why i trust our members' reviews to proceed to see her.

[BIG C]

I've actually had this exact scenario happen to me before and I still went in for the session and had no problems.....Although I can certainly understand how/why someone would panick and turn around and get the hell out of Dodge, I think you probably would have been okay for the following reasons:

1: If you've already done your homework and found out this was a well-reviewed provider and there's no history of drama and/or troubles in her past, then there's a less chance that she would be working a sting with LE;

2: If the cops are working a sting at that operation, there's probably not going to be much chance that they would have been that much of a presence in the open like that since they know that if guys can see them openly parading around then they will do what you did and get the hell out of Dodge.....They won't be able to catch many johns if the guys are spooked before they even make the phone call to find out what room to go to.....They may not use unmarked cars, as has been suggested above, but you can best believe that their paddywagons and marked police cars are hidden out of view so you won't get spooked by them.....

[JAdams]

I went to meet a lady not long after Katrina and some of the rooms were still being redone on the floor I arrived to meet her at her incall for. There was new furnature in the halls wrapped in plastic and two night watch security guards that were keeping patrol of the hotel....walking the floors and making sure the newly arrived furnature was staying on the grounds...pluss it was post Katrina time.

So, I approach the door and just as I'm knocking one of the security guards turn the corner and start walking down the hall toward me with a bunch of papers in his hand. He then stops, puts the room bill under the door and goes to the next. He saw me knock and kinda give me a funny look. She comes to the peep hole and hesitates for second because the security guard is now trying to make small talk with me. He continues down the hall past me and starts heading back toward me. He gets to me and in wondering why I haven't gone in or have not been let in. I say "My sister is in town for the first time and she drank a bit fast...hope she answers the damn door." I then offer to take the room bill. He then decides to knock firmly on the door. She cracks it with the little pull open lock still attached, she notices the guy in uniform with the crackerjack security pin and slams the door shut.

I about dropped a load on the floor right there, but kept my cool and said "She must have forgotten to toss some clothes on." I then talk through the door, "I'm not waiting for your ass all night, you've got 5 mins to get dressed or I'm leaving you here." The security guard laughed and continued on.

I texted the provider...she throughly belived I was LE at this point, was totally freaked out and the date never happened.

[CRISTY-CUPPS]

If I saw LE in the Hotel parking lot I would Make like Linda Lovelace and blow!
(leave not deep throat lol)

[April Showers]

Great story bluee!

Made me choke on my coffee!!!

[BIG C]

Originally Posted by April Showers

Made me choke on my coffee!!!

I can think of much better things for you to choke on than your coffee .....

[London Rayne]

Cops are everywhere, and I think it's hilarious how we all assume they know what we are doing lol. It's not like you have a sign on your back that says, "Going see a hooker," but I understand your paranoia. Everytime I drink even a glass of wine and get in my vehicle...even though I am not over the limit, I cringe at every cop car I see hehe.

If you are scared don't go through with the date, but at least call her and let her know your constraints so she knows you are not a scum bag blowing her off. I had an incident similiar to Dallas' in Baton Rouge...cop convention lol. I simply told the guy before he even arrived what to expect and we both laughed about it afterwards.

I never stay at hotels that are less than 3 stars, but do remember that MANY five star and boutiqe hotels have been reported as having stings. The Monteleone..one of my faves, busted a few girls back when I first started. Sheraton in Music City also a popular sting op. I don't feel comfortable staying in hotels at all, so I am looking into renting several apts. by the month when I tour. It is so much more comfortable having a full kitchen and dining area, and the price comes out about even when you consider how much money you spend on room service staying in a hotel.

I also don't like pesky maids in the halls all day long. Even if you only see one guy per day during your stay, I am pretty sure the same maid will see more than one going in your room lol. I had an incident where a maid was in my suite when I returned from a lunch date, and I still had my school girl skirt, high heels, a condom on the night stand, and an empty envelope that read, "Good morning my hot lil school girl," all visible lol.

I called the front desk and complained that the "DO NOT DISTURB" sign should be observed, regardless of what their cleaning policy is. Another day, I was abruptly surprised by a knock on the door at 9 a.m. telling me that they "had" to clean the room every 2 days. WTF if I want it cleaned I will let you know at MY convienence!! I will be writing a review of that hotel on hotwire. At $225 a night, I expect to be left the hell alone!!

[BIG C]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I called the front desk and complained that the "DO NOT DISTURB" sign should be observed, regardless of what their cleaning policy is. Another day, I was abruptly surprised by a knock on the door at 9 a.m. telling me that they "had" to clean the room every 2 days. WTF if I want it cleaned I will let you know at MY convienence!! I will be writing a review of that hotel on hotwire. At $225 a night, I expect to be left the hell alone!!

That's so funny because many years ago this same thing happened to me in NYC at a Sheraton.....My cute as hell little young travel assistant was staying with me in the room (always was her suggestion to stay with me rather than get her own room, which was the main reason she was always traveling with me----lol) and we were going at it one early morning when housekeeping came knocking on the door and then used their pass key to open the damn door, despite the fact that the DO NOT DISTURB sign was on the door, and the door latch was on (thank goodness because the chambermaid was a hefty one).....Anyway, I complained to the front desk about the meaning of a "DO NOT DISTURB" sign and they retorted with "We have our policy regardless of your wishes" so I immediately checked out of there and into a Marriott (Courtyard I think).....I wrote the Sheraton Corp HQ and after a few back and forth letters and a vow to never use them, or recommend them again, they finally decided to issue me a 100% refund.....That was kewl, but I've still never gone back to them again (at least not on my dime as I think I may have seen a few providers in a Sheraton since then).....

But anyway, back on topic, I still think that even though your apprehension is quite understandable, if you had already researched the provider, and felt comfortable enough to see her, then I doubt under the scenario that you described that you would have been in any jeopardy because as I said, when LE is working sting operations they're generally not so visible to potential johns riding up....

[dilbert firestorm]

that's so sad that the hotels don't follow their customers "do not disturb" sign policy when cleaning rooms.

[London Rayne]

I may just try that Big C, because they would owe me around $1500 lol. I could see if it were a low rate hotel like the Super 8 or Motel 6, but when you are paying TOP dollar to stay in a nice place, especially for a friggin week, you should be the one in control. Even if they do need to clean the room, ask the customer when would be a good time to do that.

The one day I actually had time to study was the day they pick to haul in the cleaning products. I tipped them both $20 bucks and said I would be done in a few hours, and to come back then. Then the housekeeping manager comes banging on the door telling me the same thing they did about their every 2 day policy.

I just looked him dead in the face and said I don't have a comprehension or a hearing problem, so no need to go over this again. I told him that unless he wanted the Hilton across the street to have my business and many of my friend's business, he should just stop annoying the hell out of me. I also told him that the cameras in the hall have a record of anyone entering that room when the do not disturb sign is in place. If any of my belongings were to go missing, they could in fact be held liable for violating my privacy and wishes to begin with. That did the trick! He gave me a new room that was just cleaned, so I had 2 days to enjoy it.

Now I know how some of you guys feel when you see a top shelf provider and she leads you to the Super 8, and service is only average. When we pay for the best, that's what we expect....not just some of the time either.