WHAT U EXPECT & WHAT WE EXPECT ...

[Secret Encounters]

OK GUYS/DOLLS. I JUST READ OVER A THREAD ABOUT LACK OF HYGIENE AND HOW TO ADDRESS IT AND IT MADE ME THINK.. WHAT ARE A FEW THINGS THAT U EXPECT FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX DURING A SESSION? SECOND WHATS UR IDEAL SESSION SCENARIO .. PRIOR TO THE BOOM BOOM!!??

I PERSONALLY GET FRESH FOR EACH SESSION, GROOMED, PERFUME (NONE IF REQUESTED) MAKEUP (NO LIPSTICK OR PUT LIPSTICK COLOR REQUESTED), LOTIONED IT UP AND PUT LINGERE ON...

AS FOR MY "FRIENDS" ONCE HERE I EXPECT A WARM WELCUM , THEN DONATION LEFT ON COUNTER THEN I WOULD LIKE FOR MY FRIEND TO ASK FOR THE RR SO I HVE TIME TO CHECK THE DONATION AND GIVES HIM PLENTY OF TIME TO FRESHEN UP INCLUDING WIPING DOWN THERE, OR SHOWERING, I HAVE HAND CLOTHES, TOWELS, MENS SOAP, TOOTHBRISHES OR BODY SPRAY & DEODORANT IF NEEDED..PLEASE USE WHT U NEED . THEN AFTER GETTN OUT OF THE RR LETS GET DWN TO SOME FUN!!
THESE THINGS DNT TAKE LONG TO FRESHEN UP.. BE COURTEOUS OF OTHERS.. WERE HERE FOR PLEASURE TOO & IFSOMETHN DOWN SOUTH ISNT SO FRESH IT MAY LIMIT ACTIVITIES OR EVEN LEAD TO CBJS.. OR FOR LADIES NO DATY .. IVE NEVER HAD MUCH OF A PROBLEM BUT IM JUST SAYN..


I LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING ALL THE FEEDBACK.. IF THERE IS ANYTHING A PROVIDER OR HOBBYIST CAN DO PLEASE .. PLEASE LET US KNOW..



SINCERELY
SWEET LEXXXI DD'S

[Guest080312-1]

You generally nailed it, Lexxxi.

I always leave the donation upon arrival -- not necessarily on the counter, but in a conspicuous place (left it on the TV last time).

I don't repair to the bathroom while she counts, for a couple reasons:

1. I wouldn't take offense if she took it to the bathroom herself, or even counted it in front of me.

2. I shower just before leaving home for the appointment; I'm already squeaky clean when I arrive. A couple times, having just showered, I've arrived feeling sweaty "down there" as a result of the drive on a blazing hot summer day; so in these exceptional cases, I've asked to quickly shower again before we started playing.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

Here here!

I have a Guideline List on my site for such ocassions.


KKA
XOXO

[tallgeese]

Ditto that Gary. I don't feel right without showering before going to a session.

[anaximander]

I expect nothing but a clean kitty
and no halitosis.

I myself scrub down and shave.
Cactus don't get kisses.
Don't want to scuff kitty either.

ATF gets donation in a card.
Everyone else on the table.
Tribute if any is placed on table.

[Secret Encounters]

Thanks for the feedback & bad breath is just gross!! I personally don't smoke (unless drinking) which I usually dnt b4 a session but I ask for NO SMOKERS mouth and expect dfk!! I hve extra toothbrushes n scope "whitening " at that .. and regular.... u gentlemen have it dwn to the T. Now yo spread the word..

[levi tab]

I've never been able to figure out why you wouldn't want to be fresh and squeaky clean for a session. Whether I've showered when I've left for the appointment or not, I always shower, brush my teeth and rinse upon arrival just to give the Provider a more secure feeling that I am fresh and clean.

Plus, it gives the Provider a chance to the check the donation while I'm cleaning up.

As for the Provider, I expect the same, for her to be fresh and clean.

[Secret Encounters]

DING DING DING ... WE GOT A WEINER.. I MEAN WINNER ..LOL..
But very true .. its just common courtesy ..

[Guest061918]

I agree 100% with Lexxi and that is what I do when i see a provider.

[Secret Encounters]

^^^thumbs up ^^^ Ll..

[MsPrittiKitti]

My expectations are minimal:
*freshly showered (whether its right before arriving or once you get here)
*correct donation placed in plain sight upon arrival
*respect (for my time, my place, my boundaries)

A gent can always expect from me:
*freshly showered/shaved (legs, etc), fresh breath, hair & light makeup in order
*clean towels (almost always new), soap, spray deodorants, mouthwash, etc
*clean/in order incall, complete with candles & soft music
*safety coats in various sizes
*refreshments such as bottle water, wine, juice, etc

[Secret Encounters]

Right on!! ^^