WTF? Communication people!

[BigDeal]

I got a bone to pick with several providers here...and Ive got to say something about...so if I piss off a few and it gets me a few DNS list... so be it....my time, my money and my friendship isnt worth crap to you!
I have been in 3-4 different conversations over the last few days with different providers on a couple different methods and (I dont think Im alone in this).....but the conversation just goes DARK!

Im sitting there waiting on a reply ...nothing...NO KISS MY ASS...nuthin!

Providers you cant say "hey I gotta run...ttyl" be frickin couteous!

Ya send a mssg...it gets read....basically screams a reply....nuthin!

Now A bit of background..Im a AD Sales Rep who sees 10-15 businesses a day and calls another 25-30 and on top of that AND gets 80 emails a day which all require a reply!! On top of that Im a single dad!
I always reply timely and dont procrastinate...If I did my income would suck!
AND dont give me that "Im busy" or "I had an appt" crap
It cant be that bad for Providers....WE all here have lives and families!!

A providers time is no more important than mine is...and im the one with the coin...The client (me) is REVENUE for your family for your livelihood!!

If I treated someone who spent money with me or will in the future the way some providers do...Id be Broke!

I know this is a slow time for providers (obviously Im not a provider) and you all are reaching out to people to make appts and trying to get us to book with you...and if you aint got no mo money....WELL Im done with ya....well thats for the street ...this is suppose to be a more professional system a different standard.
When you communicate with your regulars or whatever..taking the time to talk to them..you are planting seeds for revenue in 2012.
ya see regular clients ..DIE, MOVE AWAY, DECIDE TO GET OUT, whatever....but if you treat them like shit they just stop seeing you!

If i take the time to write you you outta have the decency to reply and even tell me you cant talk right now!

Now Im not saying all providers are like this...their are some great ones here....but I sick of it! Thats all....everyone go back to your TV trays and Healthy Choice meals and X factor!
Good Nite and God Bless!

[Smoking Monkey]

I have experienced the same frustrations with some providers. Many have horrible communication skills. Just think how much better their business would be if they replied in a timely manner...or even replied at all!

[dirty dog]

Dude quit trying to befriend them, just fuck em. Your trying to develope relationships with women whom just want to do their job, get paid and get back to "their real life" until the next customer calls. Can you imagine how many texts, emails and calls these women get daily from dudes who are just lonley and want to talk, do you also realize how much time they have to waste to respond back and forth with men who have no intention of getting with them anyway. I am not trying to be a dick, but I see so many men on this board who act like what they do is dating and then cry when they get their feelings hurt. No offense to the providers many of whom are nice and will spend the time, but do be mad at those who dont. Lets keep it real, these ladies beforfuckin, not befriendin.

[BigDeal]

No i gotcha Dog ...heres my point though im in sales and not everyone I contact will do business with me...right?
But just because that prospect (or in this case new client) doesnt end up doing business now...it doesnt mean they wont down the road.

If their profile says hey Im online and then you see your mssg is read...then you never hear from them....then I aint important to them(that part i agree with)
No disagreements...im sure there are alot of opinions here
Im for the fuckin ....but
A) dont fuckin lie to me
b) treat me as you would any other person...i aint an idiot
c) If im paying you and you like it...keep doin what your doin
d) I have a girlfriend....if i want to be ignored ill go to her

[jan-w]

One thing to consider is that ladies here on Eccie may not answer you because they don't like you.

Many do read the threads here and some guys post a lot of crap or make pests of themselves and they read these posts and won't bother to respond. Alternately, they may respond and lead you on just for the hell of it if they don't like you. That's been known to happen too.

Also, most women have no tolerance with the endless e-mail game. If you don't get right to the point and make an appointment, they'll ditch you.

If I contact someone and they don't respond, I just move on and forget about them. What else can you do?

[MsElena]

I will say that I agree with DD. There are a lot of guys who just want to chat and I can usually tell that within the first two emails. I don't have time to waste and I have no patience for guys who play games.

I can only speak for myself, but I try my hardest to respond to all PMs and emails in a timely manner. If I'm out of town on vacation, automated response is on and I try to have a VM message sayng so. If I don't like a guy based upon his posts, I'll tell him straight up. Why play games, its stupid and this is a business, not romper room.

Common courtesy goes a long way on both sides.

[Lovin50]

I don't have this to worry about. I hired an appointment clerk thru priceanescort.com to make all my contacts, screen my provider and negotiate rates and services. Their new quick response coupon program has been working quite well. Just this afternoon my appointment clerk sent an urgent email request thru P411 and within 15 min my requested provider called me directly and was already at Priscilla's stocking supplies. It really WORKS! With the quick response program the reductions in the rates are tiered to encourage a timely return call from the provider. Also, Under contract if my priceanescort.com appointment clerk has not secured the request within a 45 min window I am allowed to fuck her at no charge and get all this for only $9.95 per month.
Many, many clients who have heard about this have attempted to get my appointment clerk under contract for their own needs but she refuses to sign the contract.

Says she is always getting fucked in the deal.

[jframe2]

Wow, thought I had heard everything.

Originally Posted by Lovin50

I don't have this to worry about. I hired an appointment clerk thru priceanescort.com to make all my contacts, screen my provider and negotiate rates and services. Their new quick response coupon program has been working quite well. Just this afternoon my appointment clerk sent an urgent email request thru P411 and within 15 min my requested provider called me directly and was already at Priscilla's stocking supplies. It really WORKS! With the quick response program the reductions in the rates are tiered to encourage a timely return call from the provider. Also, Under contract if my priceanescort.com appointment clerk has not secured the request within a 45 min window I am allowed to fuck her at no charge and get all this for only $9.95 per month.
Many, many clients who have heard about this have attempted to get my appointment clerk under contract for their own needs but she refuses to sign the contract.

Says she is always getting fucked in the deal.

[i'va biggen]

I just deleted 4 PM's to providers that were unread,guess they didn't need the business.

[Tabie]

u can lick mine...
and I will like it... kisses baby ..

[Guest052813-01]

Originally Posted by Lovin50

I don't have this to worry about. I hired an appointment clerk thru priceanescort.com to make all my contacts, screen my provider and negotiate rates and services. Their new quick response coupon program has been working quite well. Just this afternoon my appointment clerk sent an urgent email request thru P411 and within 15 min my requested provider called me directly and was already at Priscilla's stocking supplies. It really WORKS! With the quick response program the reductions in the rates are tiered to encourage a timely return call from the provider. Also, Under contract if my priceanescort.com appointment clerk has not secured the request within a 45 min window I am allowed to fuck her at no charge and get all this for only $9.95 per month.
Many, many clients who have heard about this have attempted to get my appointment clerk under contract for their own needs but she refuses to sign the contract.

Says she is always getting fucked in the deal.

Well I know threADs aer allowed, but....

[rharley]

i think some of you guys are forgetting, the gals are NOT here to be your friends. they're here to get you off and make a living. when you expect more, like being your email buddy, you're sure to be dissapointed. respect their time, and if they don't want to be friends, respect their wishes, don't be hurt, and don't be on here badmouthing anybody.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by rharley

i think some of you guys are forgetting, the gals are NOT here to be your friends. they're here to get you off and make a living. when you expect more, like being your email buddy, you're sure to be dissapointed. respect their time, and if they don't want to be friends, respect their wishes, don't be hurt, and don't be on here badmouthing anybody.

Nobody's badmouthing anybody....Its just a discussion on simple etiquette
I say to anyone that has sent a mssg and R harley your days comin if it hasnt already...your gonna wonder "hey wont this provider respond"
then youll just say screw it she doesnt wanna and next time you consider that providers services you'll say
"yeah but she never responded to me last time" and then youll pass on seeing her
They need to respect the time I put in as well... just an objective viewpoint

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I will say that I agree with DD. There are a lot of guys who just want to chat and I can usually tell that within the first two emails. I don't have time to waste and I have no patience for guys who play games.

I can only speak for myself, but I try my hardest to respond to all PMs and emails in a timely manner. If I'm out of town on vacation, automated response is on and I try to have a VM message sayng so. If I don't like a guy based upon his posts, I'll tell him straight up. Why play games, its stupid and this is a business, not romper room.

Common courtesy goes a long way on both sides.

MS Elena
I agree with you on newbies to see you....but honey...why would you just write them off if after 2 convo's...I think a better way to handle it would be straight forward and say " hey are we gonna do business or not?"
If they cant answer that or dont know ,,,then move on and tell them that!
But you dont have to just decide "oh this person is a waste" unless youve called them out and seen there response.
I agree there alot of time wasters...But what about people youve seen before and like...if after 2 convo's do you write them off?
Ya know i love ya!

[ss4699]

Originally Posted by rharley

i think some of you guys are forgetting, the gals are NOT here to be your friends. they're here to get you off and make a living. when you expect more, like being your email buddy, you're sure to be dissapointed. respect their time, and if they don't want to be friends, respect their wishes, don't be hurt, and don't be on here badmouthing anybody.

Still missing his point. I contacted a provider and it took about 4 or 5 days to get an appointment set. I showed up at the time and called and got the "oh, I thought......". All I could say was "FORGET IT" and a little later, I called the "38 Special" and BANG a couple of hours in was dick deep in a wonderful lady....

If you are an adult services provider, provide services. Will I contact the lady and try again and again and again?

Will I mention her name and out her? Would it make a difference?