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Chloe · 09-20-2011, 02:47 AM

Wanted the best advice on swingers clubs! I have been but am not an expert. I want advice on anyone who has been to different places, run places and legalities of

naughtyfun · 09-20-2011, 01:03 PM

There are a couple of them in the Buffalo area. I am not really sure what kind of info your looking for. There is one place by the airport that is just a club for drinking, dancing and mingeling, and meeting new people. If you hit it off with someone you will need to go somewhere else to play. There is another place about an hour south of Buffalo that is a bigger club and it is split in half. One half is the bar,dance floor, chairs, tables and pool table. Then the other half has a hot tub,sitting area and couches throughout, 5 or 6 private rooms with windows and curtains. Your choice to leave them open or close them. Then there is a HUGE multi level bed and a a couch for those that wanna watch. There is also a hotel in Canada near Niagara Falls that hosts parties a couple of times a month.

I am not sure what kind of legalities your looking for. If your looking to oopen one or if you just want to go. Anyone can go if you get yourself on the guest list. I am not sure about how to open one. I would think that would just be a zoning issue.

parshooter226 · 09-20-2011, 03:00 PM

I ski quite a bit in Ellicottville during the winter months, is the club cell phone Buffalo anywhere near there? Can you let me know details. If you have any?

cravenmorehead · 09-20-2011, 03:02 PM

Think I'm going to a giant swingers convention in Key West Fla. next month , will report back.

http://www.fantasyfest.net/

LillyLilly · 10-04-2011, 05:14 PM

I'm pretty sure that the only legal aspect of swinging is that the clubs cannot charge. Other than that, it is all free and clear and legal and nobody's business. There is no law against sex and swinging,,,,,,,just exchanging money for it

Guest120615-3 · 10-04-2011, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by LillyLilly

I'm pretty sure that the only legal aspect of swinging is that the clubs cannot charge. Other than that, it is all free and clear and legal and nobody's business. There is no law against sex and swinging,,,,,,,just exchanging money for it

Lilly, I'm not certain but I believe there are certain health code laws violated with swinging in a public venue.

I say this because married dudes were caught and arrested at my gym for sucking each other off in the steam room. Apparently, there's a whole system for meeting up on craigslist with their own codes and shit. Fucking Internet!

I go to a really nice gym too! Geez. Guys and their horniness! Haha

Jon Colden · 10-04-2011, 08:05 PM

Wait! Hold on a minute. What are you saying? There are laws against exchanging sex for money? Are you sure about this? I'm not sure I believe that, because that would mean...

No, I think you're mistaken about this. Think about it, it doesn't make SENSE!

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Originally Posted by LillyLilly

I'm pretty sure that the only legal aspect of swinging is that the clubs cannot charge. Other than that, it is all free and clear and legal and nobody's business. There is no law against sex and swinging,,,,,,,just exchanging money for it

LillyLilly · 10-05-2011, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by mwebber

Lilly, I'm not certain but I believe there are certain health code laws violated with swinging in a public venue. 
 
I say this because married dudes were caught and arrested at my gym for sucking each other off in the steam room. Apparently, there's a whole system for meeting up on craigslist with their own codes and shit. Fucking Internet! <IMG class=inlineimg title="Msn Wink" border=0 alt="" src="images/smilies/modern/msn-wink.gif" smilieid="559"> 
I go to a really nice gym too! Geez. Guys and their horniness! Haha

Sex in a public place is a no no whether swinging or not.

LillyLilly · 10-05-2011, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Jon Colden

Wait! Hold on a minute. What are you saying? There are laws against exchanging sex for money? Are you sure about this? I'm not sure I believe that, because that would mean...

No, I think you're mistaken about this. Think about it, it doesn't make SENSE!

LOL Excuse me? Isn't the question about swinging? There is a lot of sex out there that doesn't come with a price tag and as I stated to her regarding questions of legality........swinging clubs cannot charge. Anyone who wants to make money selling sex on the pretense that it is a swinging club is probably going to end up in jail.

Now, is she talking about real swinging or running prostitution???? You tell me, big guy. Did I miss something here?

cravenmorehead · 10-05-2011, 04:00 PM

There's always a price for sex , a diamond ring and a promise , casual sex , pay me now or me me now and later.

LillyLilly · 10-06-2011, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cravenmorehead

There's always a price for sex , a diamond ring and a promise , casual sex , pay me now or me me now and later.

That's not what swinging is all about. It's not about money.

Guest101715 · 10-08-2011, 08:00 AM

My wife and I have been to a few clubs and found that not all clubs are created equal. The variation out there is amazing - what is it that you're looking for?

We used to live in Dallas, TX and enjoyed visiting the Sans Souci club. This was a night club in a hotel, fairly classy, and all the people there were fairly attractive!! The dance floor was a great place to "bump into" people that we were interested in, and the dancing was erotic and heated. There were a good mix of couples (first timers, soft swap, and full swap couples). People were pretty easy going and accepting of other people's limits, and having a hotel room close by led to some amazing nights.

We've tried to find something similar in the Syracuse Social Club, but have been disappointed in the events that we've gone to. We take good care of ourselves but found that height/weight proportions were a little out of line with our preferences. Also found the events to be a bit "cliquish." It's a small community and it seemed like everyone knows everyone else already!

Last but not least, we've visited Club Wicked in Toronto. By far the wildest of our experiences, this is an on-premise sex club. There's a bar and dance club on the first floor, and a "towels or less only" upstairs area opens later in the evening. There club supposedly screens for attractive people. I didn't see anyone get bounced from the door, but the place was just full of young beautiful bodies. The dance club in itself was extremely erotic, with cages for the ladies to dance/grope/make out in and a few sexy contests during the night. At one point, I looked over to the bar to see an enthusiastic blow job being delivered to a very happy man!! The upstairs area was simply surreal. There was mix of couples who just wanted to watch, those who wanted to perform, and those that simply wanted to lose themselves in a writhing tangle of sex and skin. . . talk about sensory overload!! This was an amazing experience for both of us and we will be back!!

LynnT · 10-08-2011, 10:05 AM

Went to the one in NYC, they charged a door fee.

Had rooms to play in, bar, dance floor etc. Big group rooms and some smaller ones. Also a shower facility. The big room was wall to wall mirrors and ceiling and the floor was covered in cushions.

The club fees are all legal. Your biggest issue will probably be zoning, etc for where you can open one.. I know in Syracuse you cant get permits ect in certain parts of town for clubs and adult oriented business. And you might not be able to serve booze there as there is nude activity.

make sure you have someone on constant clean up.. we found condoms here and there.. you got a towel and a locker to lock up your stuff. Id suggest using sheets for sanitary reasons for the group rooms.. not everyone is courteous or clean..