Providers/hobbyists: How do you handle this?

[Whynottry]

So I'm still searching for my first time being cautious and trying to do my research. Now when you book with a provider and donate for say an hour of their time. After the talking and fun time is over say it's only been 30 mins or so, are you supposed to leave or can you go for another round or do you ask first? Just want to know how to handle this situation should I end up in it. Thanks for the forthcoming advice everyone.

[Jon Colden]

Ask first.

[Whynottry]

Haha that's a pretty simple answer

[offshoredrilling]

I would think one would get a idea from Showcase/website. And from activity's in reviews. My reviews would be useless to ya. I rarely go for MSOG. But I would say most on here are ok with that. And many on BP one and done. Not all in ether case.

I'm Banned from msog for the most part. No I'm not a super stud. It's that I enjoy talking to much. And take my time with things before mmm main act.

[Whynottry]

Yea I imagine nerves might get me the first time and turn me into a blabbermouth hahaha that's why I'm so hesitant still just gotta get the gumption to go for it.

[offshoredrilling]

For me its not nerves. I really talk to much, and let the providers talk as much as they want. Hint look at my post count.

[Whynottry]

Point taken

[Whynottry]

Well booked doesn't today so we will see how the nerves go haha they kicked in as soon as I saw the caller Id hahaha maybe lots of talking will calm me down lol

[Jon Colden]

Nervousness is a very healthy thing. It's the body's way of keeping a person on his toes, so he stays focused and doesn't screw up. I'm nervous every time.

Your last post was mostly gibberish, though. Calm down.

When in the presence of a lady, I find that listening goes a lot farther than talking. Try to be a good listener, and then remember what she talks about.

Humor is your ally.

And if you get distracted by other thoughts, try to remember: the goal is virtually assured, but the journey to that goal is the real reward here.

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by Whynottry

Well booked doesn't today l

what the HOLEY HELL??

[Doove]

Originally Posted by Whynottry

Well booked doesn't today

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

what the HOLEY HELL??

Now you know how we feel.

[SweetElizabeth]

And what if the lady is not into "chatting first"???



Are you prepared yet????
;--)

My personal opinion is if you want to leave, then leave... Many gals will not take offense.

Most ladies (per reviewed) are able to fill in the slots of time, (if any!!) during an hour in which you are not at full attention!


I call that relaxation. ;-)
Good luck!

[SweetElizabeth]

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[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by Doove

Now you know how we feel.

......alright . maybe they should meet out first in a public place to "see if they click"?......try some mexican..

[guest102613-2]

ohhh what an original idea!