Is anonymity the new sex appeal?

[Guest041919]

Forget about the premise of hobbying for a second. Does anonymity make people hornier than confiding in someone? Would you rather have wild sex fantasies in confidence with someone you know more about and who is not a threat or is the hush hush pen-name game the only way to get close?

[Unique_Carpenter]

Kinder,
Interesting question.
The pro gals on my long term dance card are trusted friends, and what we do is not a fantasy.

[TailHooked]

Well there have always been one night stands. I think being anonymous is more mysterious. That unexpected quality from not knowing what to expect next. In a serious relationship, you have lost that because you truly know most everything.

[Danson&Highsmith]

I have asked myself this question, but not necessarily in this way. I have left real relationships over the years under the guise of "I can't get hurt. I can't get involved." Yet sometimes in this hobby, I become friends and confide in some people more than people close to me. Should I? No, but it is reality of where I am right now. I have had some terrible experiences and some really captivating ones that I still think about. I think there is something to being anonymous, but I don't think you can ever totally separate the intimate attachment from this game.

[SweetSuzanna]

Thats why one night stands are so hot steamy! Or sex parties where everyone is wearing a mask. Think of that Tom Cruise movie!