Date wedding..

[dvldog2111]

Ok this maybe be a strange request, but I thought I would ask anyways.

I was wanting to know if anyone has taken a provider to a wedding? Providers gone to weddings? My date just called to tell me she cant make it. So I thought I would see if maybe a provider would go? Should I expect to pay the same rates as BCD? Is this inappropriate? Can anyone think of any problems this would cause either myself or the provider?

Thnx
DD

[ferdburf]

I would think the bride and groom would appreciate your sitting in a pew in the back of the church if you're planning a BBBJ during the ceremony. Brides get awfully jealous when someone "steals their day."

[oleguy]

I think that would be fun depending on who you might take. Honestly I think back to the first time I saw Laney Von. If she was the type girl you could take it would be a complete distraction to the service as all male eyes would be on her and she would become the center of attention. The bride would be pissed.

[safire_sweet]

I think that would be wonderful as long as you bring a girl who can represent her self in a lady like fashion maybe someone you have seen before that you have clicked with. Always expect to pay the same rate remember the donation is for companionship no matter what is happening,I hope you find a wonderful date.
Congratulations to the couple getting married,
Safire Sweet

[Guest021812-3]

That's like buying a bunch of food to take to an event that's already catered.

[dvldog2111]

Originally Posted by TheBizz

That's like buying a bunch of food to take to an event that's already catered.

yea.. I did think of that but I met the bride a few wks ago with my friend the groom and a cpl of her friends present and.. well going off what I saw pickens will be slim..

and really I normally wouldn't mind going stag, but kind of want a date for this particular event.

[LuckJack]

raises hand

[LazurusLong]

What could possibly go wrong with taking someone you don't know at all to an event where most times it is an open bar and you have zero concept of any other vices she may have.

Will she be offering B&G specials to the wedding party and other guests? I recall one escort at a "social" 5-6 years ago that when the social ended, she went to the bar and started handing out business cards and soliciting the bar patrons. VERY CLASSY!

[Merlin's Wand]

I hope she and the groom aren't already "acquainted" . . . .

[hotlips_houlihan]

wow, some of you guys have such high opinions of ladies

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

wow, some of you guys have such high opinions of ladies

Quite the opposite.

As someone who has not only witnessed more than his fair share of meltdowns and improper behavior by escorts for a very long time, I can think of numerous other and much better things than to find an escort to be his date.

Maybe he needs to ask his friends if they know any single ladies who might be fun to take to a wedding or even co-workers and explain the situation and try that rather than taking an escort.

If you want, I can begin to list the sort of behaviors I have witnessed or heard about in just the last 5 years that might curl his hair and give him more pause about asking an escort.

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Quite the opposite.

As someone who has not only witnessed more than his fair share of meltdowns and improper behavior by escorts for a very long time, I can think of numerous other and much better things than to find an escort to be his date.

Maybe he needs to ask his friends if they know any single ladies who might be fun to take to a wedding or even co-workers and explain the situation and try that rather than taking an escort.

If you want, I can begin to list the sort of behaviors I have witnessed or heard about in just the last 5 years that might curl his hair and give him more pause about asking an escort.

Then perhaps you need to change the caliber of women/escorts you associate yourself with.

[Torito]

Of course there are an infinite # of things that can go wrong, provider or not. In this case if I were to consider it, then certainly it would be someone that I had spent several sessions with. Otherwise I would not feel at all safe with unknown demeanor among my friends with possibilty of screwing up my friends wedding.

Torito

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Then perhaps you need to change the caliber of women/escorts you associate yourself with.

Hotlips,

Trying to take jabs at who I associate with is childish at best since you have zero idea of who I do associate in public.

My point of my reply is that it appears this newbie is asking for advice and given he clearly does not have a regular provider or two that he might know well enough and have spent enough time in social settings that he might have felt comfortable in asking, I'm trying to give my opinion.

You on the other hand are doing nothing but attacking those like myself who have replied with cautionary statements which makes me wonder what your agenda is with regard to this thread.

edit to add since this entire post was quoted:

Hotlips.

You STILL have failed to CONTRIBUTE anything to this thread other that to critique others.

[luvstolickalot]

Nothing Ventured nothing Gained. Live life on the edge you can be conservative when your dead!