Newbie question on safety!

[Jetsetter1]

So I'm a newbie and am making preparations to have my first visit with a wonderful woman who is well reviewed, and has been kind enough to see a newbie. I look forward to writing my first review!

My question is this, I see a lot of BBBJ and CIM in a lot of providers reviews. I understand that you lady's as providers look after yourselves, and such. My question is, is it a worth the health risk STD wise? To either you or us? I understand the hobby has its risks, and it's something we all weight out risk/reward. Just wondering how everyone views it.

Thanks for anyone who takes the time to respond!
J

[bilbobaggin]

You pretty much hit the nail on the head. It's all about your idea of risk/reward. Is it worth the risk, or not? Only a question you can answer.

[Jaycock]

I'm a newbie and I was with 2 ladies who offered covered services only. I wasn't satisfied so I went looking for someone that offered GFE. Everything was covered except BBBJ, so...guess what happened? Raging case of gonorrhea a week later. Had a great time explaining that one to the wife. My advice to you: only gamble what you are prepared to lose. If it's too risky, wrap it up or don't do it at all.

[Jetsetter1]

Jay..

May I ask who the first 2 providers were? The lady who was going to be my Intro into the hobby flaked! And of the other lady's that have great reviews on here aren't all that newbie friendly however they have been very professional about it, which was great.
I'm looking to break into the hobby sooner rather than later and the few that say they're newbie friendly don't seem to be in a rush to return messages from here. If I don't here back soon I might have to take my $$ to baby dolls..LOL

[SpanishJewel]

So, a provider gave you gonorrhea from a BBBJ...

Have you written an alert or informed the men's board about this? Where did you find said provider??

I, for one, am most interested in knowing. Also, if you're not going to out the provider have you ever considered that it was your wife that gave it to you? How did you know you had gonorrhea after one week from your provider visit?

Got to tell ya dude, your story does not ring true at all.... you've also basically stated that in your opinion that ladies who offer GFE are higher risk than those who aren't.....

Perhaps your research is what is lacking...

just saying,

xo
Jazz

[Markj11]

Obviously backpage?

[SpanishJewel]

Originally Posted by Markj11

Obviously backpage?

Obviously.......



or an unabashed and total lie.... I am going for the latter....

[RockThomas]

You tell him Jazz!
Glad to see you back in town dear!

[Jaycock]

Jetsetter--I've posted my reviews on the 2 ladies with whom I broke my newbie cherry.
SpanishJewel--I'm in healthcare and very familiar with the incubation period for GC and there's no question of the source. I'm not outing the provider here since it was addressed privately, but there was no BP source.
Gonococcal pharyngitis is clinically silent until the male shows up with urethritis. Men come to medical attention within a week of acquisition but usually not before infecting at least one other.
I'm a huge fan of the GFE, because otherwise why bother? And my experience notwithstanding, I'd do it again. But it does require a significant dose of caveat emptor.

[Sarah Renee]

Originally Posted by Jaycock

I've posted my reviews on the 2 ladies with whom I broke my newbie cherry.

And yet you have no reviews showing on your profile....hmmmmm

Yep I'm going to go with BS....

[zeejoe]

Originally Posted by Jaycock

I'd do it again. But it does require a significant dose of caveat emptor.

As do wordy explanations from newbs with self-admitted poor judgement skills.

So.... which one of these Backpage chicks gave you VD again?

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1059489690&hi ghlight=#post1059489690

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2055670&highl ight=

[Jaycock]

Neither of those ladies

[badboy45tfm]

It is a proven medical fact that yes you can catch some nasties with bbbj The eccie ladies are very clean and reputable but I just dont trust some of the guys before me so with that and in my situation I love the babes that give a ccbj and it feels like it's not covered and yes they are ones that do just fine.So I can get a good suck and go home and say yes dear it's fine you don't want to suck my dick and yes dear let's do it just like you want and feel safe and very happy. Just have to love the eccie babes

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by zeejoe

As do wordy explanations from newbs with self-admitted poor judgement skills.

So.... which one of these Backpage chicks gave you VD again?

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1059489690&hi ghlight=#post1059489690

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2055670&highl ight=

I wondered why I had not yet seen those reviews and now I know why. Jaycock, you clicked on "New Thread" button and copied and pasted the form into a thread and populated the categories instead of clicking on "New Review" button. Thus the submissions didn't apear in the Review Moderation Queue for one of us to approve or reject for PA credit.

Click on the "New Review" button next time and simply complete the form.

[Jetsetter1]

I was just looking for some newbie advice I did not mean to start a fight between members. Lol. I'm still looking to pop my cherry into the hobby, and am hoping maybe the weekend will be the time! I think until I'm comfortable in the hobby and if I am fortunate enough to find one lady to be a constant provider I will stick with full coverage.
And to be perfectly clear I'm on the same page as BadBoy. I believe that the wonderful ladies here on ECCIE care enough to look after themselves. It's the guys before me that I wouldn't trust.
Here's hoping that this weekend is the weekend to POP into the hobby! Be safe all!