Time lapse when responding to texts

[Guest011124]

How long is the window of opportunity for a girl to respond to a text? To maintain discretion, many do not want a girl to respond hours later. However, I don't want someone to think I'm completely ignoring them if I never get back to them. Interested in hearing from both men and women.

[blackops2424]

I schedule in advance so getting back a few hours later is fine for me. Same day appts are very rare in my world as time is needed for....let's call it "planning"

I assume providers have lives outside of this, they are not starring at theirs phones patiently awaiting my texts.

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by blackops2424

I assume providers have lives outside of this, they are not starring at theirs phones patiently awaiting my texts.

They aren't???
I'm disillusioned...

BBG -- All my girls know that they can text me at any time -- but I make that clear to them up front... AND... I always state that when I meet a new girl....
But then again... I'm a "model" hobbyist....

[lilylivered]

Try to plan ahead. If someone doesn't bother to return at all it makes me think twice before I try again. Late is definitely better.

[Guest011124]

Originally Posted by lilylivered

Try to plan ahead. If someone doesn't bother to return at all it makes me think twice before I try again. Late is definitely better.

Thanks for the input. I'm great with TCB but have an unconventional sleep schedule so sometimes it is 5+ hours later.

[doctorisin]

If I have an unanswered message out to a lady, the Im expecting a reply and it can come hours or a day later, thats fine to me. Unsolicited messages, where the girl reaches out first, Id prefer that only happen w a regular, or a travelling girl Ive seen before since Bing trips are few and car between.

[afterdark1971]

At one point in my life I had to have total discretion... But if I texted, I would give an acceptable window of call back (within the hour)to prevent detection by eyes a text should not reach. These days.. If I text, and don't get quick response I will leave another message letting you know to text me anytime so you won't feel awkward or worried to return my message later.
I hope this helps... I also hopes it helps fellow hobbiest to potentially avoid that embarrassing text while your at dinner with the wife and kids

[Lexxxy]

Great thread BBG! I panic when this happens! I work and sleep really weird hours too. I usually put in my ads that if they don't leave a screen name and time frame to call back in I won't call back for discretion. I usually give it an hour or two at the most unless it's a regular I know wants me to get back to them. I'm also weird about texting out of the blue. I know a lot say to let them know when I'm back in town or have a gf with me but I feel like I'm soliciting or being a pain in the ass.

[NeverenoughBuff]

I always include what time you can respond until in my text.

[JONBALLS]

why would I be getting a return text?


I cant image a scenario where I would send one out

[bigdickdaddydom]

wasn't ever pussy whipped not even with a ring on my finger. text or call anytime.

[*ShannahS*]

When I used to do solo I didn't reply if the text was older than 1h.

[ToriStarr]

Generally I've found the gents whom this is an issue for will usually say "don't text back after 4" etc.

If they don't, I respond when I see it then. If I'm unsure, I just say "hey"

I also do this with my "heads up" texts when traveling. I send out "hey" to the clients I've met in that city and wait for their response. If they ask "who is this?", I say "this is Tori, is this Chris? Maybe I have the wrong number"... using a male name that I know isn't theirs. Incase it's the so responding.

So far that's seemed to work fine. Unfortunately I can't keep track of everyone's texting preferences so this is my system but I tell them to let me know if it's an issue. Only one guy has, so I deleted his number completely so I wouldn't text him again before my next trip on accident.

[Guest011124]

I do all of my pre-trip heads up communication via email or PM because I don't want to be randomly texting clients.

[ToriStarr]

Yeah text just works best for me in general. I tell them to tell me if it's an issue, so far other than that one guy who's number I just deleted, no issues.