I've been to quite a few professional Dommes across the country, and have also submitted to various fetish/domination activities with "Providers" as well.
As far as activities, I've done the very mild (spanking and hair pulling) all the way to terrifyingly savage brutality where we agreed that conscience and empathy be left at the door (and I happily admit to preferring the latter).
If you are wanting lessons, or to be taught a specific skill, go with someone who has experience. It matters. If you're just looking to partake in freaky fetishes, I'd recommend watching first just being an observer (most guys won't complain), just to get a feel of the energy, mindset, and attitude that it takes to pull it off successfully.
That being said, if any ladies are looking to sharpen their skills or blow off some steam, I'd love to meet.
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