Adult sex websites....

[Alli]

Just wondering if any of the ladies have ever tried finding clients
on sites such as Adult Friend Finder or Sex Search? In my experience,
I have found my most loyal and best clients on these sites. I actually
have a couple of guys that I have been seeing for over 7 yrs and
have stuck by and helped me out through hard times. Of course
you can't say in your profile what you are really looking for, but
after explaining my situation to guys who have responded to me, I
have actually had pretty good responses, more than advertising on
provider sites. Kinda makes me think, hmm. Anyway, I just wanted
to throw that out there for any ladies who may be struggling in
this biz like I am.

[Trey]

I have seen many chicks on sites like that and some phone sex sites. I saw one girl from the phone sex site many many years ago.

[boardman]

I thinck it's kind of a deceptive practice. There are plenty of SHMB's and escort websites that you can advertise on.
Why go to a sight like that and knowingly misrepresent who you are just to get contacts then tell them, "oh, yeah, there's a fee involved.
To answer your question, Yes, other ladies do it. I've seen it first hand and it pisses me off.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

My view on using these adult matchmaker sites to find clients is this:
These sites are set up for a more wanton open lifestyle, free love type stuff.
Word gets out you are charging a fee, most of those type sites will close your account down.

[lollipop_queen]

I used to have a profile on AFF... but I haven't been back on it since I resurfaced... thanks for the reminder... ;-)

[Horsefly]

Originally Posted by boardman

...Why go to a sight like that...

Sight???

Cats are so smart that they can almost spell.

[Chislaine]

Originally Posted by Alli

Just wondering if any of the ladies have ever tried finding clients
on sites such as Adult Friend Finder or Sex Search? In my experience,
I have found my most loyal and best clients on these sites. I actually
have a couple of guys that I have been seeing for over 7 yrs and
have stuck by and helped me out through hard times. Of course
you can't say in your profile what you are really looking for, but
after explaining my situation to guys who have responded to me, I
have actually had pretty good responses, more than advertising on
provider sites. Kinda makes me think, hmm. Anyway, I just wanted
to throw that out there for any ladies who may be struggling in
this biz like I am.

How did they take it when you told them you were a provider?
I met some gents on SD4Me that should'nt a been on there.They were just looking for a GF.They assume that they can just buy you lunch or fill your gas tank and get the pussy.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by Horsefly

Sight???

Cats are so smart that they can almost spell.

[CaptainQ]

Originally Posted by boardman

I thinck it's kind of a deceptive practice. There are plenty of SHMB's and escort websites that you can advertise on.
Why go to a sight like that and knowingly misrepresent who you are just to get contacts then tell them, "oh, yeah, there's a fee involved.
To answer your question, Yes, other ladies do it. I've seen it first hand and it pisses me off.

I hnew a friend who got pissed when he learned of the girl(s) he responded to were asking for money. Got me thinking, hum... then I found ASPD. I kinda wish I had checked out AFF more, still might. Wonder if there were some there that don't visit/post here or have any listings on P411. Eh, probably safer here. I already have a list longer than I have time for.

[Alli]

Originally Posted by latnremedy

How did they take it when you told them you were a provider?
I met some gents on SD4Me that should'nt a been on there.They were just looking for a GF.They assume that they can just buy you lunch or fill your gas tank and get the pussy.

I would say that half were ok with it and the other half were not. I was usually able to get some of the ones who were not ok with it to change their minds when I meantioned that if they were paying for that site, then really they were already paying for sex.