Ladies what the hell would you do?

[Cameron Houston]

So I recently made a post about a very positive long review that I had received from a hobbyist. Of course, there were negative comments shortly thereafter which doesn't really bother me. let me ask you this: providers, if the guy is constantly complaining and making negative comments on your reviews would you want to see him again? And guys if a girl supposedly was such a terrible time and you would never go back to see her would you contact her off of the hobby to try to get another appointment with her? Hmmmm? It seems as if my post had touched a nerve because I immediately got a scathing long text message telling me how I needed to conduct myself and things I needed to do and if I did that and corrected my behavior that he would be willing to see me again. (I've seen him twice).. then, @ the end of the message said: if we meet up again, do you think the outcome will change? Do u think u can change your attitude & appearance? Did I mention he was complaining about my looks & telling me how I SHOULD look?.. LADIES, HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE THIS SITUATION? Would you suck it up & go with it after his disrespect, OR, pass on him? Just curious! 1 more thing: if a guy wants to bring toys, I'd prefer them be new & not used. I'm just thinking about how many other people have used it & how many times the guy has actually cleaned it. Lol

[WolfWhistle]

[GlobeSpotter]

i thinck you should book a high rise incall to meet him again







then push him off the balcony

[Cameron Houston]

Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

This is a guy whose contacted me after the 2nd & last meeting, still trying to book an appointment. If I know the 1st 2 didn't go very well, I'm damn sure not going to book a third one with the dude. I am not the only provider that he's pulled stuff like this with. He tries to catch girls off guard and will change his handle which he's done before with another very well-known and respected provider... so I look at it as avoiding the drama and trying to stay away from the drama he's the one that creates the drama seeing as how I've not even contacted him I don't have any of his info and he contacts me away from the hobby.

[Fancyinheels]

I've had epic long positive reviews, I'm told. I'm grateful someone took such a grand chunk of their time to think, and type, so much about me!

If a gent that I already I knew was outright ridiculing me and making demands, I probably wouldn't handle it in the public forums. Every word a provider types is an "infomercial" for her marketing campaign, overall personality, ability to be discreet, and appropriate sense of gracious appreciation. Bringing too much attention to such matters can sometimes backfire. I'd thank him for his suggestions privately, tell him I was a work in progress but fine as is according to my other clients, and suggest, politely, that he look elsewhere for entertainment as evidently I wasn't meeting all of his needs. There's a big difference between a wee suggestion for my box and open-faced criticism on a plate. No need to suffer such negativity, and no need to get into a back-and-forth seesaw battle. I wouldn't respond further. It's tough to brush off an onslaught, I know, but sometimes it's the only thing to do as long as the harassment stays non-physical.

If a stranger I never met was disrespecting and disparaging me, then I might ask him, "Why do you care as obviously we're NEVER going to meet?" It would be a rhetorical question, as it wouldn't matter an iota what his answer was. Some fellows do such for sheer amusement, but don't play into their games of intimidation. Again, end contact, ignore, block, bye.

Used toys? No. My party favors go through rigorous sanitation or are trashed and replaced. I save my "gift gadgets" to use only with the gentleman who gave them to me.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

New Toys Only ( NOT OPENED )
and no don't repeat with him or even give him time of day ..

[GlobeSpotter]

providers don't like used toys


but they'll suck and fuck a used dick

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

providers don't like used toys


but they'll suck and fuck a used dick

We're hoping (often in vain) that you operators cleanse your equipment thoroughly between uses and routinely check it, as is critical for any moving parts to stay lifelong active without serious technical issues.

I have a bucket, a mop, a quart o' bleach, a gallon o' rust remover, a wire brush, a dremel, sandpaper, duct tape, and WD40 if maintenance of said equipment has obviously been ignored for long periods of time. Would your tool like to see THOSE toys?

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

We're hoping (often in vain) that you operators cleanse your equipment thoroughly between uses and routinely check it, .......

I rigorously lather and scrub my tool during every shower....mostly twice daily.

That's what showers are for.

[Victoria of Houston]

I honestly don't understand why any provider would even consider seeing someone who makes them uncomfortable in any way.

And this isn't a dig against you personally, CH. I am just curious what makes you even consider to see someone like that in the first place?

Is it about the money? You're afraid to turn down business and get bad mouthed here?

Years ago, during the beginning of this board, there was a particular undesirable gent who saw a provider friend of mine. She had an awful, awful experience with him. He then began pursuing me and I ignored him. He would try to bad mouth me every chance he got here; on my reviews and any time someone brought me up.

There is always going to be noise and negative trolls who just like stirring up trouble. Stick to your guns, and only agree to sessions with gents you feel comfortable with.

[Cameron Houston]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I honestly don't understand why any provider would even consider seeing someone who makes them uncomfortable in any way.

And this isn't a dig against you personally, CH. I am just curious what makes you even consider to see someone like that in the first place?

Is it about the money? You're afraid to turn down business and get bad mouthed here?

Years ago, during the beginning of this board, there was a particular undesirable gent who saw a provider friend of mine. She had an awful, awful experience with him. He then began pursuing me and I ignored him. He would try to bad mouth me every chance he got here; on my reviews and any time someone brought me up.

There is always going to be noise and negative trolls who just like stirring up trouble. Stick to your guns, and only agree to sessions with gents you feel comfortable with.

If u read correctly, I said I was ignoring him, sweetie. Only after the 2nd appt did he trip out, which is why I ignored him & still do. He's the one who contacted me and started pursuing me this afternoon. And no I'm not afraid of getting bad mouth or any other thing like that because it comes with the territory.

[GringoakaHG]

OP,Are you afraid to give names ?

[GringoakaHG]

Nvm got it.. Read the review.

[enderwiggin]

Originally Posted by Cameron Houston

HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE THIS SITUATION?

Hmmmm... tough one. I'd probably open 3 or 4 threads in coed about it.

[Caligula1]

Move on, there is plenty for everyone.