You look at the pictures and decide to book an appointment but when you get there she does not look like her pictures and you are disappointed.

[Still Looking]

You look at the pictures and decide to book an appointment but when you get there she does not look like her pictures and you are disappointed. Now what?

Most sessions more forward as planned. The pictures worked they got you to call them and book a session.

But if you are tired of being disappointed here are a few things you can do.

1) When setting the appointment request / demand she dress and look EXACTLY like she is pictured. After all if the pictures are current she should have the same cloths still available.

2) Verify hair length and color are as pictured.

3) Verify the pictures are current and she still weighs what's listed.

4) Verify no one else will be at in call including pets when you arrive.

5) Verify the provider does NOT schedule a session to start the moment yours ends.

6) Verify both shower and towels are available if its something you want.

7) If the pictures shows no tattoos or piercings verify that's the case if its a deal breaker as many photo shop those out of pictures.

Use common sense. When looking at pictures that is the very BEST the provider will look. If you look at glamor shots or photo shopped pictures you have to expect the provider to look different. If she is wearing make up in the pictures that doesn't mean she will be when you show up especially if you're #3-#10 for the day.

Bottom line if up front you take the time to request certain things you will have ladies decide to NOT schedule with you. Good news is you won't be disappointed.

The X factor... in many cases it's not what you see in the pictures it's what you don't see. If the lady does not show her face, if the tummy is covered, if the pictures are blurred or grainy to hide facial scaring, if they publish a face shot but not a body most of the time that's where your problem will be. I'm a face guy. If I can't see the face I ask if I can get a face pic emailed to me. Believe it or not most of the time the provider will send it. If she does not then the balls in my court. Usually I won't schedule.

If when you show up the provider is so drastically different than the pictures and you have verified up front the items that are important to you and she simply wasn't being honest or truthful... simply say you are NOT what was pictures or what I expected. Do this in the first minute of getting there and walk out the door. If more hobbyists did this there would be a lot less disappointment and ladies might get the message. Don't sit there for 10-20 minutes and then decide to leave. If you do that... pay her for her time.

Most disappointments can be eliminated by simply taking the time to verify things important to you. Some things you can't do anything about. Like a dishonest provider.

If she posts pictures that she looks like Alice Eve



But when you get there and the door opens she looks
like Alice Cooper



Turn... pause... and run like hell.

[rockerrick]

And don't forget to report your experience when you decide to turn and walk.

[Guest062019]

Lol. Nice.

[Guest111215]

Very good advice from the Master, himself, SL.
Damn, sound like I'm brown-nosy. So unlike me.

Threads like these should be saved in a special section here for newbies to read and learn.

[FBSMLUVR]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

4) Verify no one else will be at in call including pets when you arrive.

If when you show up the provider is so drastically different than the pictures and you have verified up front the items that are important to you and she simply wasn't being honest or truthful... simply say you are NOT what was pictures or what I expected. Do this in the first minute of getting there and walk out the door. If more hobbyists did this there would be a lot less disappointment and ladies might get the message. Don't sit there for 10-20 minutes and then decide to leave. If you do that... pay her for her time.

4) Including pets when you arrive. I sure the fuck learned my lesson on that one. See my one and only No review...(so far lol)

Amen to the last paragraph. Turn and walk away. I've done it twice and didn't even walk in the door. I just said thanks, but no thanks, you're not who you presented yourself to be in your pics, turned and walked away. My thought was as I walked....I hope she learns a fucking lesson from this. Was a little worried that some kind of sharp object was going to end up in my back as I walked though lol

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by FBSMLUVR

4) Including pets when you arrive. I sure the fuck learned my lesson on that one. See my one and only No review...(so far lol)

Amen to the last paragraph. Turn and walk away. I've done it twice and didn't even walk in the door. I just said thanks, but no thanks, you're not who you presented yourself to be in your pics, turned and walked away. My thought was as I walked....I hope she learns a fucking lesson from this. Was a little worried that some kind of sharp object was going to end up in my back as I walked though lol

I think I said RUN..... LOL

[Fingerling]

So lets be clear,

It is ok to walk away. NO HARM NO FOUL

Or will you get an infraction for breach of contract or have white knights call you out for messing up the board?

[rockerrick]

Yes it's OKAY, if you think you were mislead.
Might get WK's, tell them to fuck off it's your experience not theirs

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Yes it's OKAY, if you think you were mislead.
Might get WK's, tell them to fuck off it's your experience not theirs

RR, I totally agree, but you know that there are plenty of wusses that care about any kind of backlash. Sadly, some care what others think. I never understood that mentality.

I don't care how much money you have, wasted money is still, a waste...

sixx

[Buddy G]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

You look at the pictures and decide to book an appointment but when you get there she does not look like her pictures and you are disappointed. Now what?

3) Verify the pictures are current and she still weighs what's listed.

I could not agree more! One thing I've started doing is bringing my own scale with me. If she doesn't want to weigh in then there is no sticking it in is how I say it.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Buddy G

I could not agree more! One thing I've started doing is bringing my own scale with me. If she doesn't want to weigh in then there is no sticking it in is how I say it.

The issue at hand is to eliminate the problems before the meeting. I have mentioned this before. I had at least two very high end providers $400-$500 per hour schedule with me. I communicated my expectations and made several verifications. It took no time for there to "Suddenly & Unexpectedly" change in schedule. I have weighed many providers and many asked to be weighed along with measured their height. In many cases so I could clear up mixed reviews.

Something I want you guys to know. Providers have rules! we are expected to follow those rules! Well guess what? We can also have rules! If they don't follow our rules well they can just have a nice day! Example: When I say I expect you to drive yourself. And the provider shows up with her boyfriend, girlfriend, neighbor dropping her off down the street. The meeting is off! No exceptions. At that point they are liars and I'm done.

[The Griffin]

Book it! You learn something new everyday.

[Bob McV]

I have only once turned heel when the door opened. I think I actually stammered out "I uhh, sorry wrong room" and I am pretty sure I heard her say Bob? as I walked away.

I am all for having rules and standards, and your one about not having a driver seems perfectly acceptable. But to what end? is it to filter out the liars? Or are you worried that someone else knowing your location is a security risk, but yet not worried that she could easily txt someone the same address you sent her?

[Guest010218]

Might be concern about the neighbors might say about a Pimp sitting out front of you house smoking a fat one, while he has the car gently idling, ready for a fast get away...

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Bob McV

I have only once turned heel when the door opened. I think I actually stammered out "I uhh, sorry wrong room" and I am pretty sure I heard her say Bob? as I walked away.

I am all for having rules and standards, and your one about not having a driver seems perfectly acceptable. But to what end? is it to filter out the liars? Or are you worried that someone else knowing your location is a security risk, but yet not worried that she could easily txt someone the same address you sent her?

If you request the provider drive herself and she agrees then that's expected. I don't want bubba parked in front of my neighbors house smoking a blunt and drawing attention to himself. Don't want bubba parked in my drive way either. You haven't lived till bubba starts laying on the horn requesting the provider come out! Or decides he needs to start banging on the door because she didn't answer the phone. Short answer.... No pimps! No cabs or Uber guys hanging around drawing attention to the providers visit!