New to hobby - P411 or date check?

[Greasejob]

So I'm a noob and wondering if I really need either/both?

[Guest123018]

Well you can't go wrong w/P411. Do it you won't regret it

[Greasejob]

So P411 is used by more providers?

[holmes50]

Go with P411.

[DallasRain]

ditto p411 is more popular here

have fun!

[Marshpirate]

P411

[siberia]

I am glad this thread was
introduced today.
A guy SHOULD understand and
respect our screening methods
without complaining or dictating
the way we do things. Please take into
consideration that screening is
for many reasons.
Merely asking a provider about a client is part of the process, I will STILL ask
for your information.
If you have good intentions there
shouldn't be a problem.
Men come to my private place, see my face, see my vehicle and without hesistation. If you can't respect my confort level with compassion as a gentleman should, move along and don't be disrespectful.
It doesn't matter if you have 100
written reviews & been around forever,
My body, My place is the location
you will be using.

[Greasejob]

Thanks for all the input. I'm a little slow but I'm starting to catch on.

I've just gone through the application process at P411; not too bad but it's really not set up to do from a smartphone. There are lots of reassurances on security and privacy definitely make me feel at ease. The only problem I had was caused by my credit card company. The fraud dept. blocked the transaction and I had to both the cc company and p411. All is good now.

[Arverni]

P411 is probably the best choice ... but I don't see the need in either as long as you're sticking to local hobbying. And ... by that ... I mean anywhere basically in Louisiana or the Mississippi Gulf Coast on up to Hattiesburg and probably into Mobile too.

Then you girls coming in from Houston ... see one or two of them and you're probably good to go for Houston too.

Most of the providers have heard of each other and will give references.

I have seen girls that advertise exclusively on P411 ... and they still see me. They just check the references.

Funny thing is ... I have no problem giving my information to a well established and reputable provider - but sticking my info into a P411 d/b is a bit disconcerting for me. But ... I don't want to start a P411 debate here, that can get pretty heated.

[Arverni]

Originally Posted by siberia

I am glad this thread was
introduced today.
A guy SHOULD understand and
respect our screening methods
without complaining or dictating
the way we do things.

I've said this very thing many times. However, if you have guys complaining about giving you their personal information - it's probably because you're new to the area.

The issue is this ... I have given my info to well-established gals who've been around awhile and I have no problems with that ... as long as they've had plenty of chances to "fuck up" but haven't. What I mean by a "fuck up" is ... basically being careless or worse - doing malicious things with someone's info. If a girl's been here awhile she's seen it all and done it all ... been provoked ... and yet has stuck to the principle of "discretion".

I also talk to providers about their opinions on certain girls. If a particular gal has had a problem maintaining discretion - they'll usually tell me "off the record". Word gets around ... either through some ill-fated ECCIE post, or just scuttlebutt.

There's certainly a few women on ECCIE that I've seen enough from here on the boards to know I don't ever want to give them personal info. But then, the vast majority of them ... I wouldn't have a problem with.

[siberia]

I hear ya babe.
The basic stuff : Name,
Phone,email,age, work
phone# is requested.
Not asking for DL, home
address, SSN, or DOB.

As an avid reader, the horror
stories of experienced hobbyist
going down hill for all the
wrong reasons does happen.
Screening should be expected
regardless of the years or member-
ship status.
I can't afford to mess up because they
know my location. You can imagine the type of hell a stalker could cause &
you have a ,he say_she say alert. I have read it .

[Arverni]

No ... I'm totally with you on that. I am a big believer that any girl who enters this business should be respected for her choice of screening methods. Just saying that guys have a right to pass if they don't agree with them. What I dislike is guys COMPLAINING about the screening. Don't like the screening? Don't call the girl ... move on.

[occhipini]

P411 been having it 4 or 5 years

[siberia]

Originally Posted by occhipini

P411 been having it 4 or 5 years

It helps.

[stavinChain]

I've had P411 for 6+ years. I would not hobby without it. It's a well-run operation owned by Gina, a former escort who understands both sides of the aisle. I never give any information other than the P411 protocol. If a provider requests more info, I move on.