Does anyone else have this problem?

[BabyDallass]

Okay, So everyone always complains on how nobody comes to their town...blah, blah, blah, but when you finally do get to their town, you get no reply, or you get last minute calls cancel. So whats going on?! Somebody please explain it to me lol...Another person who wastes my time and PMs me and texts me and then when I finally arrive I dont hear from you or you keep canceling last minute, then I will not waste my time talking with you... Respect my time, Thank you!

[Worldtravler]

He must get cold feet.

[twobullhunglow]

You look absolutely delectable, if you ever think of coming down to the Ft. Smith area, please post and I will do my best to match our schedules.

[Flyboy182]

Type the letters DATY on your menu and watch what happens. You are smoking hot, but fair market economic dynamics do drive behavior. I'm sorry if you are getting jacked around because you are upfront and have every right to play as you are comfy playing.

[Danielle Reid]

Same thing happens to me. I don't go to people out of town just because they asked. If they want me, they'll come to me. I waste too much time and money chasing guys.

[Ginger Doll]

I think that happens to everyone, BD. Life happens, so cancellations will occur occasionally... But if someone habitually cancels, I won't even bother responding to them anymore. I think those kind of guys are just lonely and looking for pen pals! Lol

I've found that establishing a couple of reliable regulars in whichever area I'm touring to really helps. At least that way I know that my travel costs will be paid for, and won't end up costing me money. A lot of guys will book last-minute once they know you've arrived, too.

[BabyDallass]

I know it happens and we have to get over it and just take it for whats it worth and all that....but I mean the ones who do it over and over. And the ones who scream "come to my city I cant wait to see you and they will waste your time with all these PMs before you get there and then once you get there you don`t even get a reply...Yeah those guys are bull shit and they can stay away from me....Its like they are just literally trying to get chat time and that`s it! I have had some guys PM me for years talking about dumb bull shit and always ACT like they want to set something up and never do...Sorry Im not letting them waste my time anymore...And as for the DATY statement, Oh Well, IF THEY DONT LIKE MY MENU THEY SHOULD NOT EVEN WASTE MY TIME WITH A PM....

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

..And as for the DATY statement, Oh Well, IF THEY DONT LIKE MY MENU THEY SHOULD NOT EVEN WASTE MY TIME WITH A PM....

WORD....Better Safe than sorry.


You could always return the favor. Next time they start PM'ing you about setting a date up, you could always put them on a wild goose chase.

[Flyboy182]

Originally Posted by Worldtravler

WORD....Better Safe than sorry.


You could always return the favor. Next time they start PM'ing you about setting a date up, you could always put them on a wild goose chase.

Yeah....that's gonna help a whole lot.

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

Yeah....that's gonna help a whole lot.

They probably stop PM'ing her and then get on here and start crying like little bithch's.

I'm referring to the ones that have been standing her up.

[UnderConstruction]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I know it happens and we have to get over it and just take it for whats it worth and all that....but I mean the ones who do it over and over. And the ones who scream "come to my city I cant wait to see you and they will waste your time with all these PMs before you get there and then once you get there you don`t even get a reply...Yeah those guys are bull shit and they can stay away from me....Its like they are just literally trying to get chat time and that`s it! I have had some guys PM me for years talking about dumb bull shit and always ACT like they want to set something up and never do...Sorry Im not letting them waste my time anymore...And as for the DATY statement, Oh Well, IF THEY DONT LIKE MY MENU THEY SHOULD NOT EVEN WASTE MY TIME WITH A PM....

Did you ever think that's why they're fucking with you? Flyboy clearly stated your problem in his post above and it's pretty simple; your menu isn't commensurate with your donation.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Correct. The lady can run her biz with as many restrictions as she wants. But don't cry when the restrictions are pretty severe and biz does not materialize, especially when the price in this market is upper level.

[CharlieQ]

Hi BD -

Been trying to contact u but get "the call cannot be completed" msg,

Do you have my number blocked? If so, why???

A puzzled CharliQ in HS

[DallasRain]

It happens everywhere! You just have to be patient & have a backup plan!

best to ya babe!!