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guest092513 · 10-09-2010, 05:37 PM

Ok some of you know me and some of you don't. But I am going to ask anyway. I have just dissolved my fifteen year marriage. Now now no need for applause or cheers or tears it was amicable and the right thing to do all is well.

What I want to know is, what have some of you others done in this situation (ladies included) did you run rampant chasing tail or did you just take it easy for awhile?

canyonman · 10-09-2010, 05:55 PM

I can give you my 2 cents... I took it easy for a long time. So much depends on your own situation though, everyone has different circumstances. In my case I focused on raising kids and enjoying the moment of no spousal stress... the peace in the household was grand. 15 years later I am still single... I do chase from time to time these days though.
Good luck...

This might be better in the Coed forum...

guest092513 · 10-09-2010, 06:30 PM

well mods if this is better in coed lets move it there

Mature Companion · 10-09-2010, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by carguy2442

Ok some of you know me and some of you don't. But I am going to ask anyway. I have just dissolved my fifteen year marriage. Now now no need for applause or cheers or tears it was amicable and the right thing to do all is well.

What I want to know is, what have some of you others done in this situation (ladies included) did you run rampant chasing tail or did you just take it easy for awhile?

You'll always know where I stand, dear friend.
I say do whatever it is you desire. Live life & enjoy it to the fullest with no regrets. If your gonna go chase tail. Let me know. I'll be your wing gal. I'll attract the big breasted women for you.

Mokoa · 10-10-2010, 01:14 AM

Moved to the proper forum.

MsPrittiKitti · 10-10-2010, 02:18 AM

awww WM, you sound like me!!
lol im ALWAYS the wing girl...and introducing my male friends to ladies they find interest in!
the longest relationship i had....wasnt nearly as serious as yours.
sorry i have no advice.
but i wish you the best of luck, & hope whatever you decide...keeps you happy!!!!

XoXo

Bibi Joy · 10-10-2010, 03:36 PM

You cum straight to me and do the right thing marry me!!!

Kidding just dont do what I did....

like three months later I latched onto my bartender I was drunk for five years>>>

Man I remember the day your S.O. called me and was like you want my man you can have him!! I was like HELLL NO my husband isnt into threesomes>> All we were looking for was a hitch for our car lady!!

Glad your solo enjoy lets get together soon for a drink hell its a celebration!!! Another good man single dang what a treat!!

Pepper_Springfield · 10-10-2010, 04:53 PM

I say have fun fun fun!

Likinikki · 10-10-2010, 07:34 PM

Wow...sorry to hear that in any case! Enjoy, take it one day at a time...and go slow my friend!

Guest072013 · 10-11-2010, 08:58 AM

I had so many fantasies when my husband died after 16yrs.. so dove in and got them pretty much all filled when I joined here. I say life is short, have fun and be safe. licks and kisses baby...

guest092513 · 10-11-2010, 09:57 AM

Thank you so much ladies for your kind words and encouragement. While my focus will be on my children. I think I am gonna try to live a little.

Mature Companion · 10-11-2010, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by carguy2442

Thank you so much ladies for your kind words and encouragement. While my focus will be on my children. I think I am gonna try to live a little.

That my friend, is what I want to hear. It's been a long time coming.
You'll always have a shoulder to lean on whenever you need it.

anita · 10-13-2010, 09:46 PM

Do things that please you, and that you might have not done in years. Get closer to your friends. Do not chase right away, unless it is just for sex which might not make you feel any better if you still love your ex. But if I was you, I would have had a male non-sexual friend,to just talk to....err if sex happen it is not bad lool, we all have needs.

Guest110911 · 11-07-2010, 11:42 PM

i wasnt married quite as long as you...but pretty much, i took 6 months off...then went from 'relationship' to 'relationship'. till i saw that wasnt working...then i 'ran rampant'...then i ended back in one of the relationships....and now i have that...and started to hobby lol

Mossman · 11-08-2010, 02:45 AM

Don't know you and haven't been where you are, but a guy married 15 years obviously liked something about marriage. Now if sex is what was lacking, I say dive in and get your fill. If love and commitment is what you need, then put yourself out there. Who knows where love will find you? Believe it though, it will find you.