Can I just say....

[ToriStarr]

...That I honestly try to be nice to everyone. I'm a glass-is-half-full kind of girl in general, and I usually hate to complain. But tonight, I'm just kind of over being so nice.
Gentlemen PLEASE READ CAREFULLY!!!! No, not this. My ad. Ads. Reviews. Profile - whatever it was that you initially saw that made you think to reach out to me. Thank you, for your interest, sincerely! But it drives me absolutely nuts when it is CLEARLY stated that I require screening, and yet this is ignored. If you are emailing me for the first time, PLEASE DO NOT ask if I'm available now or in an hour and that's it....no hey here's my references, my eccie handle etc etc. I love to accommodate, and I love to please, but realistically most of the time I can't even see really good regulars on such short notice. We all have lives aside from this, we are all busy etc etc. I have kids, that I actually take care of, I don't pawn them off on someone else constantly, and while I enjoy spending time with you gentleman, guess what? I also enjoy spending time with them!
So please, do not contact me for the first time and not provide some form of verification for yourself. And as I've said before, if you are new and unsure, I can handle that. I want to and try to make you comfortable. So if you do not know what is required for screening, just ask me please.
Then there's the introduction, or lack thereof, in some emails. Tell me your name. I don't care if it's real or fake, it's just common courtesy. I have no false pretenses about what it is that I do...I have no expectations of friendship, if it happens great, I love making new friends, but if not and the date is just that a date and done, fine with me my feelings aren't hurt. Call me old fashioned or crazy or whatever, but I just find it very rude and unappealing when I get a message from someone I've never spoken to before, providing no verification, and asking to get together in an hour.

I know I'm not the first to bring this stuff up, and I'm sure I won't be the last either, but I just really needed to vent, and I'm hoping it gets through to someone....I can hope I guess.

Rant over....
Thank you!

[Plastic Man]

any jimmie who ...continued reading the above ...beyond the first sentence ...is totally ...beta

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

any jimmie who ...continued reading the above ...beyond the first sentence ...is totally ...beta

Read what?

[RochBob]

Unfortunately, you are not wrong. I hear this all the time. Ladies receive Texts, E-mails, etc. from people they don't know that want to meet within the hour or with minimal information. Then the guys get mad when they don't respond to them or tell them that they can't meet in 20 Minutes because they haven't been verified. These usually seem to be new guys that don't do any research or can't/won't read the requirements for an initial meeting that the Provider posts with her ad/Showcase/Website.

[eatyu2]

Kinda makes you long for the gold old fashioned street corner whores. Those were the days. At least they knew what they were. The only "screening" was done by the man and his money. There......rant over.

[ToriStarr]

Originally Posted by eatyu2

Kinda makes you long for the gold old fashioned street corner whores. Those were the days. At least they knew what they were. The only "screening" was done by the man and his money. There......rant over.

How about the good old fashioned days when men were....ahem...men?
Perhaps Syracuse is lacking, but Buffalo still has street walkers!!!!! But you won't find them online

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by RochBob

Unfortunately, you are not wrong. I hear this all the time. ...blah blah blah

coming from a jimmie with a ...kitty cat avatar ...totally beta

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by ToriStarr

How about the good old fashioned days when men were....ahem...men?

you mean ...when men were fucking ...betas ...who be worrin bout ...a funnels ..."schedule"? ...sweeeeeeeet

...no wonder jimmies aint ...gettin any

[ToriStarr]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

you mean ...when men were fucking ...betas ...who be worrin bout ...a funnels ..."schedule"? ...sweeeeeeeet

...no wonder jimmies aint ...gettin any

There's a big difference between being respectful, both of women and yourself, and kissing ass. No I don't want a man to kiss my ass or beg, because that isn't a man! Some courtesy though, yeah, that's appreciated and no I don't think it's asking too much.
You can keep picking apart everything I say, as you do to just about everyone in general, it's whatever. At the end of the day though, I know who I am and what I have to be thankful for, I'm actually very happy with my life...no I don't have everything I want, but I certainly have everything I need. So I neither feel the need to bully others as you do or let the words of a bully effect me either.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by ToriStarr

At the end of the day though, I know who I am and what I have to be thankful for, I'm actually very happy with my life...no I don't have everything I want, but I certainly have everything I need. So I neither feel the need to bully others as you do or let the words of a bully effect me either.

if so ...happy ...why come on here bitchin bout a few texts? ....or maybe this jus be an ...attention threAd?

...as fer bully ...congrats! ...you be usin the fascist mind controllers word du jour ...sweeeeeeet ...anything you dont like to hear ...label it bullying

[ToriStarr]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

if so ...happy ...why come on here bitchin bout a few texts? ....or maybe this jus be an ...attention threAd?

...as fer bully ...congrats! ...you be usin the fascist mind controllers word du jour ...sweeeeeeet ...anything you dont like to hear ...label it bullying

Because yes even the happy are allowed to get annoyed and bitch about it
I have plenty of attention thanks! I started the thread to vent, but also to maybe, hopefully, inform some gentlemen when they're new to the board and just don't know any better...because God knows they'll find little to no useful help from most of the guys on here who just hide behind keyboards acting all macho
And there is a difference between difference of opinions and bullying. I can handle differences of opinion, I'm a big fan of agreeing to disagree....has nothing to do with what you're saying dear but rather how you say it

[Plastic Man]

make sure an ...take the time to thank ...plastic man ...cause this shitbird ...be sproutin feathers

[Howdy Do Me]

Ole PM!! Funnel bustin again.



Bet funnels are begging to be a PM filly

Giddy up

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by Howdy Do Me

Ole PM!! Funnel bustin again.



Bet funnels are begging to be a PM filly

Giddy up

oh doody ...please be careful ...yer ol puppet hole is smokin again

[tonytuna]

I agree with Tori that some guys need to have a little consideration regarding the provider wanting to take some minimum safety precautions but I have seen that some providers want employment info which I do think is too much to ask for.
Regarding the little men who troll on here just to start fights, it seems to me they are like a dog that's been beaten, they get no attention otherwise, so, they will bark and bark because even if its negative, its still human contact. I don't understand why a guy who hates women so much that he can't hide his disdain for them would even come on here. Obviously he visits ladies so he can take out his anger that they don't have a penis to stick in his mouth. Do some soul searching, come out of the closet, and enjoy the rest of your life. P.s. I think the word bully was used because you devolved into name calling, a typical bully move. The only douche buzz words used improperly would have to be using "beta" repeatedly. Now that's how you rant!