Have the Ladies been holding out on us?

[LordBeaverbrook]

6 Old-School Myths About Women And Sex, Busted


Myth 1: Women are best suited to sexual monogamy.
Well, OK, I guess we knew this one was a myth unless we just didn't believe our lying eyes!

Myth 2: Women don't crave sex as much as men do.
"Unfortunately, romantic conventions tell women to passively await male sexual advances, while society at large slut-shames women whom are deemed "too sexual." These kinds of pressures inhibit women from pursuing sex as freely as men do. "

Let's get this fixed!

Myth 3: Women aren't as "visually" stimulated as men.
"Though women typically rank their enjoyment of pornography lower than men do in research studies,their brainwave activity is just as responsive. "

Good to know!

Myth 4. Women take much longer to become sexually aroused.

Interesting....read the article to find out!

Myth 5: Women's libidos and sexual enjoyment decrease with age.

"It's mere myth: According to research done by University of Texas psychologist David Buss, women in their 30s and 40s actually have higher sex drives than teenage girls and women in their 20's. What's more, women in their 40s also experience more powerful orgasms and are more likely to be multi-orgasmic, according to a Harvard Health Report"

Lucky ladies!!!

Myth 6: Orgasms make women fall in love; it's hormonal.

Whew! Dodged that bullet!

What do YOU think about all this?

[Miss Valentina]

Ah, the long held Victorian (and rather very very Pre-Victorian) notions about female sexuality.

The conversation between doctors, behaviorists, researchers sexologists et all has been changing for decades but the answers to these questions still remain elusive. For example, the G-spot has yet to be scientifically proven. I can say if there is supposed to be a G-spot in these sugar walls, I do not posses it. However kiss/bit the nape of my neck and I am likely to be reduced to quivering girl goo willing to do anything I'm bidden. So I've got that going for me.

I think old assumptions on female sexuality were made based on our reproductive differences, the assumption that we're naturally more monogamous because we seek security within a relationship to provide for offspring, we don't crave sex as often because we are not able to reproduce at the dizzying rate at which men are capable and other statements that are perhaps nothing more than mythologies at this point but notable for how many people still believe and regurgitate such notions.

If one looks at female sexuality away from the reproductive sphere and the monogamy associated with secure child rearing than one might discover women are much more sexually nuanced than ever understood.

I can tell you that none of the above ever applied to me, though I was raised to believe it. But my sexuality is not a straight arrow, meaning that it does not follow the same path from day to day, person to person, or year to year. As of recently, my desires have been extraordinarily ravenous, dare I say completely insatiable, but I'm not particularly base in my proclivities. Ok, a little base for sure, and I may be more or less base next year. There are subtleties and changes to my sexuality that even I don't understand.

One thing for certain, I do like a good healthy vigorous athletic screaming rogering on the daily.

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by LordBeaverbrook

6 Old-School Myths About Women And Sex, Busted


Myth 1: Women are best suited to sexual monogamy.
Well, OK, I guess we knew this one was a myth unless we just didn't believe our lying eyes!
When I was married, but I love my variety now, both in and out of the hobby!
Myth 2: Women don't crave sex as much as men do.
"Unfortunately, romantic conventions tell women to passively await male sexual advances, while society at large slut-shames women whom are deemed "too sexual." These kinds of pressures inhibit women from pursuing sex as freely as men do. "

Let's get this fixed!
I wake up wanting it first thing in the morning. And have my toys when needed although I prefer the real thing.
Yes it does seem that we are deemed sluts, etc if we want it more than guys
Myth 3: Women aren't as "visually" stimulated as men.
"Though women typically rank their enjoyment of pornography lower than men do in research studies,their brainwave activity is just as responsive. "

Good to know!
I'm not really interested in watching others, however, watching in a mirror, taking pics or vids AS IT IS HAPPENING can b a major turn on...
Myth 4. Women take much longer to become sexually aroused.

Interesting....read the article to find out!
BS!!! I wake up wet and ready.
Myth 5: Women's libidos and sexual enjoyment decrease with age.

"It's mere myth: According to research done by University of Texas psychologist David Buss, women in their 30s and 40s actually have higher sex drives than teenage girls and women in their 20's. What's more, women in their 40s also experience more powerful orgasms and are more likely to be multi-orgasmic, according to a Harvard Health Report"

Lucky ladies!!!
Definitely multi-orgasmic here. My drive continues to get stronger with age.
Myth 6: Orgasms make women fall in love; it's hormonal.

Whew! Dodged that bullet!
There is a difference between great sex and love. Some ladies may not be able to distinguish between the two.
What do YOU think about all this?

Originally Posted by Miss Valentina

For example, the G-spot has yet to be scientifically proven. I can say if there is supposed to be a G-spot in these sugar walls, I do not posses it. However kiss/bit the nape of my neck and I am likely to be reduced to quivering girl goo willing to do anything I'm bidden. So I've got that going for me.

I don't know if it has been scientifically proven or not, but mine is pretty easily found. I've been able to tell a few guys what to look for. It swells up right before squirting. But not all ladies or men know of it. And every person responds differently to stimuli. No reason to feel that we will all respond the same. And it's not right or wrong to assume we will.
The same as men sometimes are stimulated just by sight, some have to be touched, kissed, etc. It's what makes us individuals.

[Guest010218]

I like the way this thread is going--it has great potential.

[ck1942]

fwiw, very unlikely that the G Spot will ever be discovered during an autopsy for obvious reasons.

And, fwiw, again, there are TWO G Spots, with the second one being the external/flip side of the internal, and usually somewhere in the vicinity of the internal, but not exactly on it.

[cinnamonshark]

Originally Posted by LordBeaverbrook

6 Old-School Myths About Women And Sex, Busted


Myth 1: Women are best suited to sexual monogamy.
Well, OK, I guess we knew this one was a myth unless we just didn't believe our lying eyes!

Myth 2: Women don't crave sex as much as men do.
"Unfortunately, romantic conventions tell women to passively await male sexual advances, while society at large slut-shames women whom are deemed "too sexual." These kinds of pressures inhibit women from pursuing sex as freely as men do. "

Let's get this fixed!

Myth 3: Women aren't as "visually" stimulated as men.
"Though women typically rank their enjoyment of pornography lower than men do in research studies,their brainwave activity is just as responsive. "

Good to know!

Myth 4. Women take much longer to become sexually aroused.

Interesting....read the article to find out!

Myth 5: Women's libidos and sexual enjoyment decrease with age.

"It's mere myth: According to research done by University of Texas psychologist David Buss, women in their 30s and 40s actually have higher sex drives than teenage girls and women in their 20's. What's more, women in their 40s also experience more powerful orgasms and are more likely to be multi-orgasmic, according to a Harvard Health Report"

Lucky ladies!!!

Myth 6: Orgasms make women fall in love; it's hormonal.

Whew! Dodged that bullet!

What do YOU think about all this?

Hmmmm.....I think that these myths only apply to RW women. I know for a fact they are totally false. Hmmmm.......maybe they apply in both cases. But, I will share my opinions.

Myth 2 -- I totally call BS on it

Myth 3 - women are visually stimulated. But...they are not stimulated by the same things us men are.

Myth 4 -- I actually agree with it. There are some cases that I have experienced where it didn't take long, but I agree with Jeff Foxowrthy: "Women are like diesel engines...you gotta warm them up but they can last for a very long time."

Myth 5 -- nope, it increases.