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DallasRain · 10-04-2011, 10:10 PM

I have been contemplating this issue for awhile now...

When you write a review,how honest are you? Do you honestly actually list fetish activities you have participated in or do you hide them out of fear of being ridiculed??
99% of the sessions I do will include strap on play/prostate massages/men wearing ladies undergarments/etc.......but VERY few or almost none will list these type activities in the review.

I think it would be cool to let clients know what "really" happened,so they can see what a provider is "really" all about!

YOUR OPINION PLEASE

Anita Lay · 10-04-2011, 10:19 PM

Hell yea,
Glad you brought this up and this will open the door to men not being "SCARED" to put it out there.
Prostate- the man's g-spot baby and it's healthy when stimulated. Read up on this guys.
Small strap on's and butt plugs are not intimidating when using toys, some don't understand and get intimidated.
who could say "no" to you Dallas? not me.

DallasRain · 10-04-2011, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anita Lay

Hell yea,
Glad you brought this up and this will open the door to men not being "SCARED" to put it out there.
Prostate- the man's g-spot baby and it's healthy when stimulated. Read up on this guys.
Small strap on's and butt plugs are not intimidating when using toys, some don't understand and get intimidated.
who could say "no" to you Dallas? not me.

small strap ons??? LOL
I have guys ask me all the time if I have anything bigger...and I have some that even scare the crap out of me!

{I once had a guy "squeal like a pig" and beg me for a "bigger" one while I was pulling his ponytail! lol}

mikkifine · 10-04-2011, 10:36 PM

I asked a client to review me and he declined. He did not feel comfortable (even though he would have an anonymous handle) with revealing that I used a strap on. I guess that is why the guys come to us. They don't want anyone else to know.

DallasRain · 10-04-2011, 10:47 PM

that is why they can post a review in another realm...it is for those type of activities

99% of the calls I do involve me being a dom...but I still get assholes call me all the time and want to treat me like a sub!

NachoN · 10-05-2011, 08:01 AM

Great topic D!

I'm new to the hobby and have only had a couple sessions that would qualify as falling under the "Another Realm" category; TS & Domination by a Domina.

I was very graphic and honest in detailing the sessions' activities in my reviews and did get some kudos from other hobbyists. A few, though, cringed at the details. LOL

A session with a lady like yourself who knows how to use a strap-on is definitely on my To-Do List.

Guest101311 · 10-05-2011, 08:15 AM

way off kilter but dammit dallas! now you intimidate me again hehe! I want to sit with a bowl of popcorn and watch. this type of stuff arouses me to watch but i am a puss when it comes to me dabbling dominantly

yourslave · 10-05-2011, 08:51 AM

I love strap on play and have no issues saying it here. I don't want some gigantic scary one (If it's much bigger than me then it's probably not going in me...), but there's also the concern if the woman wants that information going out about her. Strap on play might scare some people off. It actually attracts me to a provider, but I'm not sure if I'm really the average person to ask as far as this conversation is concerned.

pantyfan · 10-05-2011, 09:56 AM

My only response to Dallas is "when are you back here again?"
I think she has me figured out pretty well

LatexLover · 10-05-2011, 10:10 AM

I have no problem being honest about activities during a session. Open honest dialogue in a review is the only way to ensure quality information is shared. Don't be scared to admit that you like a hot domme with a big fat cock! Those who would judge you for it are not worth your concern.

biguywants · 10-05-2011, 10:36 AM

I would do a completely honest review. If we had a strap-on, ts, or other kinky provider visit college stattion

Guest032514-1 · 10-05-2011, 12:21 PM

A review is one person's perception of an event. I had reviews on e.com where I thought "Where was I when all this happened?"

Guess thats why I dont ask for reviews, I know how much BS is built into them.

captnzen · 10-05-2011, 01:01 PM

I honestly have quit doing reviews. Since incorporating a lot of fetish, bdsm, kink elements are the mainstay of any session I indulge in...I became weary at the lack of interest or open mindedness in kink on this board ( except for this lovley little oasis) and on a couple of others.....Apparently most hobbyists want more protracted ROS bad faux porn prose in their reviews. vanilla..vanilla..vanilla.

MsKriss4Play · 10-05-2011, 01:33 PM

Excellant question Dallas! Thank you for putting this out there... now if only more hobbiest would respond... I'm book marking this thread!

Krunkman · 10-05-2011, 03:27 PM

At the end of the day the person doing the review is gonna put the things in there that they both want to include, and that they are comfortable enough to include in a public environment.

We all know the "secrecy " of ROS is pretty much a joke.

There is probably far more back-channel questions and requests going on than you might realize...