Of course there are 'clicks' but the best are when personal likes are set aside and invites are open AFTER a verification process. So your provider refers you or you refer a provider and so on. Done is a public place such as a brewery or somewhere to hang out. I went to one in a hotel off of 280 in the mid 2000's. Not at all a play group actuall hooking up is frowned upun. Its simply get together as a computer group and meet and talk. You learn about the person and their mannerisms and YES that matters to me...
I there are some people here that was in attendance then. (Mr Movie Guy)
In Atlanta we did them once a month in different parts of the city. I and the other ladies adored getting dressed to go out and flirt and tease.
It made screening so much easier. The ladies were happier to work togethwr to keep one another safe.
The downside you ask? Well... You get to stop pretending that that ONE favorite is all you see... If you come out them its out of the bag that she is not your only Mistress... Yes grown ups have drama but if that is an issue those people simply do not recieve an email with the meeting location the next time...
I would be happy to set something up if I had a co host in different areas to help with logistics...