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Originally Posted by B Three
Ladies, what qualities should the men possess?
Looking forward to your thoughts!
Appearance
Very attractive many times blonde; fashion-model or porn-star type (fashion-model type is very slim, porn-star type often has large breast implants)
Education
Doesn’t mention academic credentials, usually not formally educated.
How she attracts men
The ultimate male fantasy
What she has to offer men
Uninhibited sexuality, obvious eye candy, no focus on conversational or intellectual skills
How long do her dates usually last?
A quicker date, like 1-2 hours, no lingering over dinner
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BBB, you seem like a nice lady, and lord knows there are plenty of white knights around who will agree with what you wrote, but I wrote back in 2010 that the high end escort was going to die because of the SB model, and for the most part, it has.
When I did a recent search on SA, there were 10,000+ women willing to be SBs within like 10 miles of my house. Preferred 411 had maybe 900 or so local providers listed on its site at its peak, so there was a huge expansion in supply of women willing to sell themselves for sex.
My needs were simple. I wanted the best sex with the best looking women. That used to often be high end escorts. With the explosion of women willing to take money for sex, I would meet women and put them in my sexual rotation. Some had fixed dates, and some didn't; they would call and text me asking if they could come to my place. I turned down more sex with beautiful women than most guys get in a lifetime. I started giving gifts of $400 for multihour sessions. Then I had gorgeous women jumping at $300 and then down to $200 and even less than that.
I know it is in your nature to not believe me, and you will just have to take my word on this, I have no reason to lie. Keep in mind my reputation on the sugar daddy forum was that I was massively overpaying!
I am much more conscious to price than people in general so I picked up on this trend much sooner, but can you imagine a guy who has paid four figures for a date and he sees or hears that I have a more desirable woman than he does for a fraction of the price? There was countless debate upon whether a high end woman was worth it back in the ASPD days. Back then, the truth is that what I found was some high end providers were worth it, sexually speaking, and some were not.
Still, it became a mantra of the forum, but with the explosion of SBs, the answer of paying for high end escorts became, "No, they aren't worth it." at least if the guy is paying only for sex.
What qualities should men possess? Really?
Like any business, I understand asking is the customer going to pay his bill, harm me, put me in legal jeopardy, and do I want to take the job? In my experience, selective woman are not any better performers than ones who aren't. "Selective" and "Exclusive" escort rank up there IMO with army intelligence and jumbo shrimp. What you don't get is that any guy who tells his male friends that he is seeing an exclusive escort is going to be laughed out of the room.
Again, I am done with this game, but the women with whom I had the best sex cared about me in some way, and I cared for them. It didn't have to be love. Sometimes it was friendship and sometimes, it was just a pleasant acquaintanceship, but there had to be something more than just a transaction. The escorts here belittled that notion, but they were wrong.
I have had the porn star expensive type dates you refer to, and they are a complete rip off in comparison to what I can get in the SB world today.
Only guys doing those kinds of dates now know they are overpaying. "Yeah, I know I can get laid for a lot less but I always wanted to do a porn star.", or they are fools who will soon be parted from their money.
This was a relevant list 15 years ago, but it has not kept up with the times.