Question for the ladies!

[Samcro84]

What is too much, I don't mean size.

Is there a cut off on how often you will see the same visitor?

Do any of you have weekly dates with the same guy?

How about a guy that only sees you, is that an option?

Just asking about the ground or hidden rules so to speak.

[foxyred73]

yes when the hour is up

[bearf15amc]

Originally Posted by foxyred73

yes when the hour is up

Lol

[foxyred73]

all laugh aside .....to anw your questions no for me that is to much and if you step over your lady bounties with lady

[Aidan MacKenna]

Is there a cut off of how often you will see the same visitor? No, so long as boundaries are kept on both sides and terms of engagement are met.

Do any of you have weekly dates with the same guy? Over the past 5 years, I have had the delightful opportunity to enjoy the company of men on a somewhat consistent basis. I did meet once a week with one particular gentleman for a while, but after the first year, boundaries began to be pushed. Our meetings became requests for off the clock lunches, anniversaries of our meeting, birthdays, nights out. All were taken into consideration based availability (I mean, after all, he was seeing me ONCE A WEEK). After year 2, rates were asked to be negotiated, which was taken into consideration. About year 3, he broke up with his girlfriend and other requests were made that I could not accommodate. It was then that we amicably parted ways.

How about a guy that only sees you, is that an option? It has happened in my recent past. Again, so long as boundaries are kept on both sides and terms of engagement are agreed upon and met, no harm no foul.

I have also had a business relationship with a person that requested me to ONLY SEE HIM. I have to say, that worked really well until he died while on a business trip. (May he rest in peace.)

I must warn you, in all of the above scenarios, after a while, emotions and feelings form and uncomfortable discussions must be had. It's truly best for everyone involved if you stick to the underlying "rules" as they are in place for everyone's protection as these can quickly become matters of the heart.

[Guest101314]

What Aidan said.

Probably about a month ago I had a client who didn't see me regularly, maybe once a month but would text me ALL the time about how amazing I was and such. I probably saw him three times. It started getting weird on our last date when I moved under him and he somehow thought I was giving him the okay to go raw. He didn't, I stopped him but then I started getting text messages about how he wishes he could feel me like that. I ended up just telling him bluntly what it was and he stopped calling me. I feel like I have more of these types of issues with guys closer to my age or younger than me.

I have had a few clients whom I've seen on a regular basis. Most of the time though it's maybe once every two or three weeks.

If he wants to see me only, that's on him. That has no effect on if I would see him again or not, how he acts in my presence, online and via phone does.

If he wants me to only see him... well... it's definitely negotiable but that hasn't come up yet.

[Hottassamelia]

Is that??????
no....
(Rubs eyes in case I'm seeing things)
IT IS!
Aidan MacKenna.....in the flesh?
What a nice surprise! How have you been sweet girl??


Sorry OP...I saw her and got excited



oh,and yes,and +1 on what Aidan said

[Guest101114]

Is there a cut off on how often you will see the same visitor?

I usually see returning friends 2-3 times a month... I have hardly played at all this year... booOOOooo!! How lame!!

The most I have seen the same guy is 4 times in one week... whew!!

Do any of you have weekly dates with the same guy?

Of course... I prefer this... I've stuck with the same 5 returning friends this year that I have been seeing since 2011 or maybe even earlier... I also added 3 new great guys to my friends list this year... 2 of which have become regulars and I think I have already seen them for repeat visits 4-8 times...maybe more

I am not one to meet new guys every week or month... Some guys have been wanting to see me for years and they think I am being mean but I am just shy and stay busy away from the hobby... I prefer (and mostly cater to) multi-hour appointments as well as repeat clients... this ensures that I can get lost in a state of euphoric pleasure... As intimacy should be... I don't like the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am stuff... All the guys I see would rather give me an orgasm (or 2) than receive 1 themselves... Or they sure do give me that impression... So generous!!

How about a guy that only sees you, is that an option?

I've had guys tell me they only see me... As long as it stays professional and they realize that I am not going to be exclusive to them, then I am okay with it... I've had guys tell me they "love me" or am "falling in love with me before."

I prefer it to stay XXX naughty

Some guys have scared me away with the "I love you" stuff

[Samcro84]

Thanks girls. A lot of good information, we as guys need to realize that it is not all about us.

It's ok Amelia I understand.

Very smart move Tracy.