For some of you new fellas

[DestinyInKC]

Stumbled across this in an article and thought id repost
http://m.wikihow.com/Be-an-Escort's-Favorite-Client

[skbinks]

Wow, I'm going to add that link to my little newbie info that I put out. Nice Work Gorgeous.

[dumars]

Personally, I'm leery of the "tip" advice. Frankly, the whole donation is a tip. My idea of showing favoritism or appreciation is to come back whether next week or next month. Value/Safety to me is being/having a regular. She knows who's coming, I know what's going to happen.

I raise an eyebrow with phrases like "being treated like a lady". Can't help to think the lady (used as a reference to gender) expects me to kiss her ass. Ain't no lady (in the chivalrous sense) is going to treat me like I hope and expect to be treated! ROFL!!! I don't think any of these women expect this wretch to lay a wreath of flowers at their feet from the tip of my lance before my joust with the evil wind mill. ROFLMMFAO!!!!

$50 tip the the first lady who can identify the two sources of that last sentence! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[dumars]

I was too late to add this to the end my previous post.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Geeze Don Quixote of course, and I agree, tips should not be necessary. I also disagree with bringing a gift. Unless you are a regular and have built up a rapport, gifts are unnecessary. The best tip is a good review and a return visit. The best gift is to follow the rest of the suggestions on the link Destiny provided.

[Roboz]

I liked the list pretty much too. With regards to tips--a provider is a offering an intimate service and I expect most of us tip our barber, stylist, hotel staff etc who do a good job for us. I look at tipping in the hobby the same--it is for good service, not an expectation. Gifts on the other hand, should be a kindness given to those with whom you have a regular and friendly professional relationship to express a higher regard for the person. Again, not expected. My opinion and practice.

[DestinyInKC]

The items that stood out to me most on the list were to be on time, or call if you wont be. And to know whats on your providers menu. Also to never discuss sexual acts on the the phone or in person, this can put a weary feeling in me and I am likely to not see you if you ask me a bunch of specific questions like that that are already addressed in my reviews and on my website Also I think tipping and gifts are up to the fella. I dont think it is necessary to do both either, I think that is all gentlemans choice.

[i'va biggen]

That sounded more like a first date on Christian Mingle.

[DestinyInKC]

LOL

[Roboz]

I thought the tips and warnings were particularly good information. Thanks D.

[dumars]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Geeze Don Quixote of course,

Correct on the 2nd one.

[Guest090920]

I like #11:

Ask her if she would like to be reviewed. If yes, keep it simple, and do not fabricate...

There is something to be said for accurate, adequate, simple and without superfluous information and misguided attempts at becoming the world's best erotic novelist.

Just my personal opinion, however.

[jackstacked]

This is some good stuff. Mostly send like common sense, but I bet it's not that common

[dumars]

I also have something of a problem with #1, "Never find your escort on sites like Backpage or Craigslist". In a general sense that is true but the fact is most great women have/had their start on one or the other. And there are STILL plenty of women who just don't want to get involved with forums and web sites.

Oddly, one, at least is missing. Present your donation, without fanfare, in an envelope. And on the women's side, don't count it. Plunking down a pile of paper printed with portraits of dead people cheapens the environment. Chivalry works both ways.

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by Roboz

I liked the list pretty much too. With regards to tips--a provider is a offering an intimate service and I expect most of us tip our barber, stylist, hotel staff etc who do a good job for us. I look at tipping in the hobby the same--it is for good service, not an expectation.

My rule of thumb is to tip an employee of a business who is working for wages. I don't tip the owner of the business, even if he is performing the same service as an employee.