To pay or not to pay?

[Britttany_love]

I have a question for you ladies and gentlemen.

I recently had a appointment with a newer hobbysit who booked an hour date with me. Before the session it was mentioned ..what happens if I "finish" early? I told him im very msog friendly and he said perfect. Ok so we have a full out gfe date and alittle over 40 mins he gets off. I clean him up and we chit chat a bit then he mentions he cant normally do a round 2 and hinted to just paying my half hourly rate. I politely mentioned he had booked an hour date with me and since I blocked off an hour for him thats the time he owes. Was I wrong? He paid my full hour donation but talk about an awkward moment after a fun time. If you book an hour with a lady and msog is offered but your unable to partake you still owe the full donation right?

[shayla84]

I think since it was 40 mins yeah the hour donation, but if it woulda been 30 mins or less I would have done the hh donation.

[Loxly]

You are correct. You might have offered some additional stimulation but still it went into 40 mins.

[Cygnus X-1]

^^^^^^ Yep!

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by Loxly

You are correct. You might have offered some additional stimulation but still it went into 40 mins.

That was offered but no go.

[austinwebdev2010]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I think since it was 40 mins yeah the hour donation, but if it woulda been 30 mins or less I would have done the hh donation.

The original agreement was for a full hour. That amount of time should be expected by the hobbyist and provided by the lady. If the full hour is blocked off, that's what needs to be paid, especially if you are msog. I don't think negotiating after the fact is the way to go. If the guy is done in less than 30 mins and the lady plans to stay with him for the full hour, it's on him to get whatever enjoyment he can before the time is up. But if the lady tries to cut things short, he is due for a donation adjustment.

[AfterDarkIFeel]

Wow, I would never do that... if I book an hour, I pay for an hour and I stay the hour even if we just hang out and chat the last 30 minutes. This isn't a "pay as you go" sort of business. For all I know, the lady may have altered her plans specifically for my full hour... lost an appointment, canceled going out with her friends, asked the babysitter to stay longer, etc.

[Britttany_love]

Thanks for all the input...im glad to see others agree.

[Guest010218]

He asked for a full hour, asked about MSOG and popped at 40 mins. Since you provided a full hour as expected, then the Hobbyist should NOT expect a refund.

Time spent with the ladies is time that should be paid for. Sounds like a newbie who doesn't really understand the hobby world.

[Falcon58]

he could have spent the additional 20 minutes with you. that was his choice to leave early, even though he accomplished his goal.

[Austins1hobby]

Its on the hobbyist to pay. With everything mentioned before hand he should pay to pipeher lol.

My2cents

[John_Dough]

You book an hour you pay an hour.

[onei]

Very seldom do I book an hour. Why? I know me and know I seldom can go twice in an hour. He knows himself too. He booked an hour. His performance problem is his problem not yours. When I book an hour I fully expect that I probably won't achieve MSOG but I just want to spend extra "time" with the lady. You are right in your assessment.

[fun2come]

Book it under: Cheap Bastard ... and THX for giving us another idea

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by fun2come

Book it under: Cheap Bastard / Idiot ... and THX for giving us another idea