If you really, really want to meet a provider that's hot and new....

[Still Looking]

If you really, really want to meet a provider that's hot and new.... there are a few things that you should know and do.

In the last year I have helped out a few ladies with their accounts. One super hot young thing comes to mind. It was unreal how many PM'S she received in a day. 80% of them were a waste of time. I also realized how many lurkers are here on ECCIE. 60-70% had ZERO reviews. Countless PM'S saying I want to meet you and your hot. Geeeez! This young lady was getting 100-150 per day.

When I contact a new provider my PM states that I have 200+ reviews and they can contact any of the reviewed providers they wish. I also mention that I am on P411. I let them know I want an hour appointment and give them my phone number and email address. I also describe myself. And give her my availability which is pretty much any time LOL Just imagine my success rate?

Some words of advise... if you have ZERO reviews you better be on P411 and have 2-3 references up front. If not your just wasting your time and looking to not get a response or a copy and paste response requesting the references.

Also realize when a provider is new and hot or flavor of the month she is getting acclimated to the site and doing the best she can to respond but it can be overwhelming. She certainly doesn't have time to be a pen pal.

SL Sample Communication via PM:

Hello,

I have over 200 reviews. You are welcome to check with any of the wonderful young ladies you wish. I am also a P411 member. My schedule is wide open and I only schedule hour appointments.

I'm 51, 268 lbs, 6'2", White, Full head of hair, if I was a secret agent my number would be 008.5, I have a great sense of humor, love having fun and always a gentleman.

You can PM, email or call or text me to schedule. Please forward your rate(s) and menu.

stilllookingmanwhore@yahoo.com (Not my real email LOL)

(512) MAN-WHOR (Not my real number LOL)

Hope to hear from you soon.

SL

These are a waste of time!

1) Your really hot!

2) Love to meet you.

3) Are you available tonight?

4) I know Still Looking. When can I see you?

5) Do you like wine?

6) How much?

7) Hey what's up?

8) How do I get a session with you?

9) Do you care if I'm ugly?

10) Can we meet first to have a drink?

11) Do you like kissing?

12) So what do you do?

13) How big is your kitty?

14) Can you send me face pictures?

15) Can I shower before and after off the clock? I don't know your rates but are they negotiable? (This ones my favorite!)



Guys I hope this has been helpful. Ladies feel free to post some of the funny and crazy communications you get from the guys.

[offshoredrilling]

I choose not to feed GPS

[Marshpirate]

Great advice SL!

[bojulay]

I just PM them and say

Bujangadang Baby!!

Works every time, I get blocked every time.

[Cpalmson]

As always, sound advice from SL. I, too, hope to have over 200+ reviews-- some day

Honestly, SL KNOWS what he is talking about. I've mentored several new ladies as well. These are girls that really have no business experience or hobby experience. The whole endeavor can be overwhelming. For them, the easy part is the physical aspect of the game. I tell them about ECCIE and P411. I tell them to avoid Backpage as their sole source of advertizing. I tell them about the need to screen and advise them to get in touch with established providers in order to learn the TCB side of the game from a lady's perspective.

I, too, reach out in my communication to perspective dates with a nice introduction. I tell them about myself, what I enjoy and my availability. If I contact I lady, I genuinely want to see her and am not a time waster. I approach it as if I'm setting up an actual date. I wantt her to feel as comfortable about me as I want to feel comfortable about her.

[Zhivago52]

Here's my approach that has a 100% success rate.

I'm rich. I'm old, fun, and generous. I'm rich. I'm on 411. I'm done in an hour. I'm rich.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Zhivago52

Here's my approach that has a 100% success rate.

I'm rich. I'm old, fun, and generous. I'm rich. I'm on 411. I'm done in an hour. I'm rich.

And you managed to post about 10 of those!? LOL

[Guest022718]

SL.....great post.

Do you really send a physical description of yourself when requesting an appt with a lady you have not met? And I assume the "spy" comment is a witty way of telegraphing equipment size? I assume the actual numbers in your example are ficticious, but I want to know:

I can kinda see the point behind the physical description.....allows her to verify appearance with your references. But why inform her of your equipment particulars? (unless you're really proud of it.....lol.....) I thought they didn't care as long as the donation was right?

Also, would you take the same approach if you were making the first contact thru P411?

Serious question.....I'm trying to make this a teaching moment.

PS: sorry about the bedbugs and herpes comments. I feel kinda guilty, so y'all come on back to NE anytime.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by hgritstoo

SL.....great post.

Do you really send a physical description of yourself when requesting an appt with a lady you have not met? And I assume the "spy" comment is a witty way of telegraphing equipment size? I assume the actual numbers in your example are ficticious, but I want to know:

LOL it's a way of relaying I have a sense of humor. 008.5 would be if I measured from the lower edge of my wallet in my back pocket.

I can kinda see the point behind the physical description.....allows her to verify appearance with your references. But why inform her of your equipment particulars? (unless you're really proud of it.....lol.....) I thought they didn't care as long as the donation was right?

Hell I have actually stated I'm a Leo, Love Walks on the Beach, Believe in World Peace and shared my favorite chick flick and told them I wear size 12 shoe size. Anything to get their attention to call, text or PM me.

Also, would you take the same approach if you were making the first contact thru P411?

On P411 I simply state I can't wait to meet them and give my availability.

Serious question.....I'm trying to make this a teaching moment.

PS: sorry about the bedbugs and herpes comments. I feel kinda guilty, so y'all come on back to NE anytime.

You know I'll be back. I figured you guys miss me LOL That was pretty funny if I say so myself!

[ESwho'snext?]

Thank you for your insights into this. I am new to the internet side of the hobby and know that I have made some of these mistakes. With your advice I hope I never make those again.

[Guest021716-4]

Are you avail'? John

Screening by selfies... Don't you send that Anthony Weiner look alike to her! Don't do it! She will NOT be impressed!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Are you avail'? John

Screening by selfies... Don't you send that Anthony Weiner look alike to her! Don't do it! She will NOT be impressed!

[Sami]

Good post SL. It really makes a difference when a gentleman sends a complete email, with all the details a lady needs to screen. Hg it really is important to give a description of yourself, especially if you have extremely large package. Every lady is different, you don't want to waste your time going to visit a lady who can't handle you. Do you? Doing it in a manner that SL does is funny and a good way to show your personality.

I used to respond to all emails, but now if I get a pm or email like SL shows above, it goes straight to trash. Reason why is I used to respond back, never hearing anything back. I have created one hell of a list of TimeWasters.

SL another one you missed- Wanna Fuck? or Email me in text format?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Sami

Good post SL. It really makes a difference when a gentleman sends a complete email, with all the details a lady needs to screen. Hg it really is important to give a description of yourself, especially if you have extremely large package. Every lady is different, you don't want to waste your time going to visit a lady who can't handle you. Do you? Doing it in a manner that SL does is funny and a good way to show your personality.

I used to respond to all emails, but now if I get a pm or email like SL shows above, it goes straight to trash. Reason why is I used to respond back, never hearing anything back. I have created one hell of a list of TimeWasters.

SL another one you missed- Wanna Fuck? or Email me in text format?

Thank you...

[BigBaldBlk]

Originally Posted by Sami

...it really is important to give a description of yourself, especially if you have extremely large package...

Sami, I thought all guys have large packages BCD when donation is placed in plain site?

SL, another great thread, should be a sticky!