Question about "NO AA Men"???

[Bigpapa1]

I often see on this site and others and was curious as to why that is the case. I mean I know every person (provider & hobbyist) has their preference and that is fine, it's America. LOL.. We all have freedom of choice, but I am curious to know why that is the case. By saying "no AA men" to me you are lumping ALL black men in the same category. Yes, I know there sizable group of young thugs, want to be gangsters and etc, but not all of us are that way. I can't speak for others, only myself. I am a college graduate, ex football player, have a very successful career, not filthy rich, but the few providers who have met me can tell you I'm not hurting to pay my bills. LOL...

I recently had a business trip to Phoenix and of course I wanted to see a beautiful young lady. Picked one out via p411 and she messaged me back and said she didn't see black guys.. Ummm... okay. The weird thing is I read her reviews and noticed half of the reviews written on her were from guys (obviously white) who stated they attempted to haggle, negotiate her pricing, because they were not accustomed to paying her fee. After she told me she wouldn't see me because of my race, my mind immediately went back to her reviews. I thought to myself, young lady I may be black, but I am staying at the Biltmore Waldorf Astoria in Phoenix! My suite was $699/ per night! Are you kidding me.. It was funny in a way, because I thought to myself you would rather suck some broke guys dick rather than go and have Del Frisco's or Donovan's steak with a black guy... OKAY!
I'm not bragging about my money, I am not that type of person. And I believe any provider who has been around me can attest to that. I'm just curious as to why providers disqualify a gentlemen prior to screening and ascertaining what type of gentlemen he is.... so providers/hobbyist please give me some insight..... Thanks for your feedback. I just want to understand the thought process...

[ilovethemgirls68]

This topic has been discussed many times on this site. I too own my own business. My take;

1. Thug/pimp types give us a bad name. They don't want to take the time to filter through us even though that doesn't make much sense because "asshole" comes in all races.

2. The believe every brother has a 12 inch cock and they think they would be hurt (as if we can't be gentle.)

3. Good ole fashioned American racism! Either because of how they were raised or an SO who is prejudice and doesn't want them screwing brothers.

Just my take. Either way...Fuck them! Plenty of ladies willing to see brothers. I don't sacrifice my self esteem or self worth behind anything...and surely not pussy!

[Karrine_Kream]

Some ladies have a life outside of this hobby and do not wish to run into anyone they know(family/friends/etc.) or people who may know someone they know

Hence why some ask for pics as well

[Bigpapa1]

Karrine, I understand your point

[Karrine_Kream]

Now if only the others would follow this

"Just my take. Either way...Fuck them! Plenty of ladies willing to see brothers. I don't sacrifice my self esteem or self worth behind anything...and surely not pussy"

They'd rather run up behind some pussy that wont even accept their money SMDH

Originally Posted by ilovethemgirls68

This topic has been discussed many times on this site. I too own my own business. My take;

1. Thug/pimp types give us a bad name. They don't want to take the time to filter through us even though that doesn't make much sense because "asshole" comes in all races.

2. The believe every brother has a 12 inch cock and they think they would be hurt (as if we can't be gentle.)

3. Good ole fashioned American racism! Either because of how they were raised or an SO who is prejudice and doesn't want them screwing brothers.

Just my take. Either way...Fuck them! Plenty of ladies willing to see brothers. I don't sacrifice my self esteem or self worth behind anything...and surely not pussy!

[al504]

This whole AA thing is just terrible and I hope one day we are all referred to as 'men'. Stereotyping is just stupid.

I agree with comment 1. Ladies are just afraid of pimps. Even some AA ladies do not see AA men

1. Thug/pimp types give us a bad name. They don't want to take the time to filter through us even though that doesn't make much sense because "asshole" comes in all races.


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[SknyDiva]

though that doesn't make much sense because "asshole" comes in all races.
True dat!! All black do not have 12 inch cocks.

[ilovethemgirls68]

Lol! I know Diva, I was stating what some might think. lol! Was just being sarcastic!

[Nicolet]

I love all gentlemen, gentleman is the key word.

[SknyDiva]

though that doesn't make much sense because "asshole" comes in all races.
True dat!! All blacks do not have 12 inch cocks. Some do. But not all.
I don't have an issue with race. I don't understand their reasoning..

[SknyDiva]

Sarcasm? Huh? What's that? ;-)

[getsum69]

There are some that appeal to me that says No AA, but I just keep fishing in this big ocean!

[getsum69]

Some ladies have the color barrier, might have a bothered pimp, but a lot of ladies see problems especially if your hood with it.

[Bigpapa1]

Right, if you are hood with it. The screening process would mostly be able to let a provider know they are not dealing with a "hood" person. To be honest, down here in Louisiana I see just as many young white kids wanting to be thugs than blacks.. Oh and to Karrine's point about being seen in public with a black guy, I didn't want a dinner date. My reference to Del Frisco's was being able to afford it.

[Karrine_Kream]

LOL Bigpapa always has something smart to say I love it rotffl Oh so no dinner date? Dang-it I thought we were going study ROTFFL (foot in mouth-LOL)

Naw but NBA chicks obviously dont care

They may have many different reason's but I also say if you are interested in someone it never hurts to try reaching out to them-a lot of times ladies let things be known to keep certain guys away-not to say they won't bend their rule for you

just my .02

I know your smart ass could persuade them into seeing you ;

I dont discriminate-although I have ran into 1 person I knew in civi' life in the hobby-they dont know its me to this day-I wouldnt meet them (wipes sweat off) o_0