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john_deere · 02-13-2013, 02:05 PM

i want to reiterate something i said in another thread...

if you stay to play you pay.

it's that simple, but i've read a number of reviews by dudes who think they should get to decide what's fair based on their satisfaction. it don't work that way, brainio.

if you have issues, leave immediately or address them with your companion. if SHE decides to throw you a discount, that's cool. otherwise, pay up and call it experience.

how hard is it to understand? if you disagree, fuck you.

DallasRain · 02-13-2013, 02:08 PM

you my friend are a wise man!!

Jaci · 02-13-2013, 05:25 PM

Johndoe I like the way you think!!
Come & Kiss Me, Jaci

TonyStark · 02-13-2013, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaci

Johndoe I like the way you think!!
Come & Kiss Me, Jaci

Damn! And I was about to post the same thread!!!

Texasquest · 02-13-2013, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by john_deere

i want to reiterate something i said in another thread...

if you stay to play you pay.

it's that simple, but i've read a number of reviews by dudes who think they should get to decide what's fair based on their satisfaction. it don't work that way, brainio.

if you have issues, leave immediately or address them with your companion. if SHE decides to throw you a discount, that's cool. otherwise, pay up and call it experience.

how hard is it to understand? if you disagree, fuck you.

Well Said and i want to add..It doesnt matter how "well respected" you think you are..nor does it matter how many "Reviews with or without pics" youve posted..If you decide to stay and Play..Then pay the lady !!!

Spencer13 · 02-13-2013, 06:59 PM

John & TxQuest you are absolutely right. To me it is a contract that you have made with the lady. If you don't like the service, let the hobbist know. If you like the service let the hobbist know that too. But not matter what the outcome of the session is, you pay. To me shorting a provider is as bad as a NCNS.

john_deere · 02-13-2013, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Spencer13

John & TxQuest you are absolutely right. To me it is a contract that you have made with the lady. If you don't like the service, let the hobbist know. If you like the service let the hobbist know that too. But not matter what the outcome of the session is, you pay. To me shorting a provider is as bad as a NCNS.

i'd say worse than ncns, which is mostly just disrespectful. shorting someone says "i can steal from you because you're powerless to stop me."

Sophia Dane3.0 · 02-13-2013, 08:49 PM

Thanks for reiterating that John Deere!

Guest032714 · 02-13-2013, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by john_deere

i'd say worse than ncns, which is mostly just disrespectful. shorting someone says "i can steal from you because you're powerless to stop me."

ah! feels like the government raising my taxes.

Caleb · 02-14-2013, 02:10 AM

This isn't at all like the government raising you taxes.

This is about making an agreement and then HONORING that agreement.

I refuse to believe that chivalry is dead, but I am close to believing it is on life support.

pyramider · 02-14-2013, 06:00 AM

Chivalry is gone. There was a DNR put on it.

yourself · 02-14-2013, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by TonyStark

Damn! And I was about to post the same thread!!!

If you want to to be the first to kiss ass in coed, you have to be pretty quick around here.

That being said, I do agree with the OP and many times have walked away when I find the provider has lied or deceived to get me there.

I have ended sessions when they have "unexpectedly" started menstruating. (please do not misconstrue this as my actually believing a recent review by JG)

I have even ended sessions 5 minutes into them and insisted I get my money back a couple of times when the provider took the fee up front and once they got me undressed, said that was just the door fee and tried to upsell.

john_deere · 02-14-2013, 03:05 PM

i have yet to kiss anyone's ass...i'm still a bit freaked out by that whole e coli thing.

oldbutstillgoing · 02-14-2013, 03:23 PM

I have a possible issue with a blanket statement like this.

Example:
Lets say I see a girl with the explicit understanding that a specific activity will take place. Say COF, as an example. She has agreed to do so and it is important to my enjoyment of the session this takes place. At the end of the session, when I expect this to happen, she says no. As I paid for a specific activity that did not occur, I would not pay the full amount. Hopefully, we could work out a fair resolution, But, if she refused to lower the rate because she refused to do what we agreed upon I would lower what I paid her by what I consider fair.

That said, if I had already paid her and I could not get access to the funds without a physiical confortation, then I would just leave and report it here.

While I completly agree with the general idea of this post, I do see that like most blanket statements, its not always that cut and dried.

All that said, I do agree that if you stay for a session and get what you agreed upon, you need to pay the agreed rate, even if the satisfaction level with the session is sub par. Unless you stop and tell her what is wrong and give her a chance to fix it, you should pay the whole amount.

misspriss · 02-14-2013, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

I have a possible issue with a blanket statement like this.

All that said, I do agree that if you stay for a session and get what you agreed upon, you need to pay the agreed rate, even if the satisfaction level with the session is sub par. Unless you stop and tell her what is wrong and give her a chance to fix it, you should pay the whole amount.

+1 - if you had the agreed upon session, she did the activities you requested and you got your entire time - YOU PAY!

IMHO, there is some instances where a man is entitled to a discount:

1. You book a full service session, she's menstruating (I have learned that having sex around that time can make you start early or start again - IF it is done really close to your start/end date)

2. You book a session and she does not do the agreed upon service you requested

3. You book a session and she cuts your time short for ANY reason, including answering her phone, etc.

Fair is fair - if she does all she agreed to, even if it was the worst ever - you pay. But there is gray area where I believe discounts should be made. It's all about being honest and doing this with integrity.

For instance, I don't send out any revealing pics before my sessions BUT I do guarantee if someone shows up and does not like what he sees, he can leave immediately - NO QUESTIONS ASKED. I also guarantee a FULL HOUR, no time shorting or BS upselling. If they start asking if I offer all sorts of strange acronyms - I immediately advise them to see an escort. For the men who loved opening the Cracker Jacks just for the mystery prize, it works. For the men who don't, they weren't deceived in any way.