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[Joan]

Rockerrick;

Here. Thread started! :-D....lets banter ;-) xoxo. ...any topic ideas to throw out there?

[rockerrick]

OK , This one always gets the shit started !

Pay first or Pay After ? I never pay first , this irritates the hell out of some of the ladies on the boards !

[Joan]

Thats a personal matter...."to each their own", in my opinion, it's bad "hobby" ediquitte to mention such things via paper trail...or in persons for that matter. A genuine gentleman will do the research prior and not embarras the lady inquiried.

[Joan]

Pardon my spelling...in advance :-) -xo

[rockerrick]

For me it's a matter of trust , and I find it insulting that the ladies always want everything their way . The response is always why should I trust you ? Well why should I trust you ? I'm on this site because of being robbed . I'm trusting you to be there after I drive so far , I'm trusting you to not have somebody there to rob or assault me . I'm trusting you to put forth an effort at a respectful level of service . Why shouldn't you trust me , am I in infoshare for ripping ladies off . If you do your homework you'll find the answer is no . So what's the problem ?

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

I never pay first , this irritates the hell out of some of the ladies on the boards !

How about sharing your rationale on why you won't pay first?

z

[rrrabbit]

"LADIES" used in conjunction with "PAY" utilized in the same sentence - dichotomy... no?

[Joan]

Goes both ways, yes sir it does! There have been times I have been shorted...like more than once, but do you see your name in the "alert" section? (Not u per say) Nope! Why? Because I, myself, approach things. ..my own way ;-)

[Joan]

Next topic!! :-)

[Joan]

In "my own way", I mean ...your hella spamed!!!...forever!

[rockerrick]

Speaking of Spammed , I have a yahoo account , and 2 times in the past week I've been part of a group email from known providers . Are their accounts and contacts list being used by someone else , or are the providers spamming us trying to sell us diet aids ? I mean seriously if I go on a diet I'll disappear !

[Carl]

[Joan]

RR, dear; I could not tell you because I know little of yahoo "ways" and my intuition tells me, yes, they are "scammers" not spamers"! Know the difference?

[rockerrick]

Enlighten me ? It's weird that it would be from a provider , and to hobbyist , cause I recognize several of them !

[Joan]

You recognize some providers or hobbyist?