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Old 11-09-2012, 08:43 AM   #1
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Question Pull my hair...slap my ass...demand that I look into your eyes while I...?

SO I have mentioned this before but I am curious! Do you really hold back with a provider and are you too shy to ask for some spice? I can be everything from sweet GFE-PSE-Straight up wild ass kink. I have found that most are really shy and pussyfoot until I'm like "HARDER!", "Slap it!", "Grab my hair!"... then they REALLY get into it. There is a time and a place for everything BUT if you are all over each other really clicking kissing with roaming hands grabbing, squeezing, caressing, pushing, pulling, grinding,pinning, and all that jazz why not take it a step further? Gently bite my nipple or really get a hand full of my hair and slightly pull back to devour my neck and make me gasp.
There are some of us out there that enjoy the rougher side of things. ASK!
Save the fear and shyness for the civi world, express yourself here baby! If you want an oil change with your alignment don't leave it up to your mechanic to figure it out!
Is it something you have never tried? Is it something you are ashamed of wanting? Is it something that JUST came to mind in the heat of the moment?
I know this is going to be a post that generates a lot of PMs and emails but I want YOU to post here. Come out of the closet.
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Old 11-09-2012, 09:08 AM   #2
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I like smothering and face sitting and playful spanking hairpuling and even a little pinning biting and throttling...but for me the line where it crosses over to BDSM is too far down the road. Operative word is playful.
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Old 11-09-2012, 11:24 AM   #3
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Cool How I like it!!

Yeah, okay, I do enjoy it on the rough side! Biting nipples, both give and take, even twisting or pinching! You can even grab the old twig & berries, and twist and pull! (I think every guy is just concerned that visible marks on him, might lead to some very damaging questions from his SO)

Crap, I'd love to show a little domination, after taking crap all day at work! I think that as "big strong men", we are just a little worried that any "rough stuff", might lead to "hand-cuffs", and not the velvet fur-lined type!

I think it boils down to communication. If I tell you what I want, when I first walk into the room, and don't go all soft on ya....then maybe holding you down, and grabbing a hand full of hair or ass, will bet both of us in the proper mood!

SH@#*T...now i need a shower!!
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Old 11-09-2012, 11:46 AM   #4
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I'm total chicken shit shy.... Think that's why I've had some bad experiences as some providers will use my shyness to stall. Other times I'm just too shy and afraid to ask.

I know some guys have no problem with it but maybe it's my age or just me but I'm a total wimp.
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Old 11-09-2012, 02:32 PM   #5
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Blow on my taint
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Old 11-09-2012, 04:09 PM   #6
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I'm total chicken shit shy.... Think that's why I've had some bad experiences as some providers will use my shyness to stall. Other times I'm just too shy and afraid to ask.

I know some guys have no problem with it but maybe it's my age or just me but I'm a total wimp.
I just go for it. give a spank and see how it goes. never met a hoo errrr provider shy to tell ya

mmmm I spanked Hanna once. errrrrrr then she went back to work. ok do not spank Hanna

mmmm I spanked Hunter. errrr I got slugged errrr och, then she went back to work. ok again do not spank Hunter.

mmm so far not good

I spanked ATF. errrr read part of my signature line. She now stops working to get me to spank her. If I tickle her she stops and then I have to stop that to give a spank.

now if a a more normal guy not likin being slugged or 'ed on by a lady. just ask. They seem to like that.

Me, I been slapped slugged and 'ed at. errrr and spanked for tickling. I love my doghouse.

hair pulling well I checked on that the same way. errrr safer to ask. I prefer the fun way. Just do it, you will know fast LOL.
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Old 11-09-2012, 05:09 PM   #7
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I'm total chicken shit shy.... Think that's why I've had some bad experiences as some providers will use my shyness to stall. Other times I'm just too shy and afraid to ask.

I know some guys have no problem with it but maybe it's my age or just me but I'm a total wimp.
This sums me up, I wish I had more balls but I just can't get myself to say "suck my dick" and not feel weird or foolish for saying it. I usually prefer women who can lead me a bit until things get rolling and then I open up a bit.

Lexxxy, if you're in Rochester again, we need to talk!
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Old 11-09-2012, 06:10 PM   #8
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I love being spanked and having my hair pulled Lexxxy you made a great thread girl!!! This is going to be interesting!!
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Old 11-09-2012, 06:45 PM   #9
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Tapping taint is always good.
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Old 11-09-2012, 07:42 PM   #10
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Tapping taint is always good.
I'm guessing anything involving taint is good
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Old 11-09-2012, 08:07 PM   #11
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How did you know?
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Old 11-09-2012, 10:35 PM   #12
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Old 11-09-2012, 11:35 PM   #13
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I love being spanked and having my hair pulled Lexxxy you made a great thread girl!!! This is going to be interesting!!
Leave it to Lexxxy to start an entertaining thread. I think I would ask before things got going before any hair pulling or spanking. Nothing kills the mood faster than doing something she doesn't like. My question is how hard can you pull hair and spank before it's too much.
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Old 11-10-2012, 05:38 AM   #14
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Listen to the taint and many questions will be answered.
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Old 11-10-2012, 07:05 AM   #15
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I'm total chicken shit shy.... Think that's why I've had some bad experiences as some providers will use my shyness to stall. Other times I'm just too shy and afraid to ask.

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Same here SS I am a shy person and usually like to let the lady take the lead. I don't want to push too many issues or buttons to piss her off So i usually take the low road and don't try anything like that!!
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