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ARCHmajor · 10-18-2012, 09:30 AM

I saw a provider last week and was as ready as any guy would be but for some reason, my "soldier" just wouldnt fall in with the rest of me. No alcohol or drugs were involved, unless you count the trident gum I was chewing prior to the event. Its embarrassing when you cant get fully erect in that situation. And what sux more is most mornings I'll wake up with such a raging erection that you could hang wet bath towels from it.
Any guys ever had this happen to them? For that matter any providers see it to? Any solutions to this problem?
This is actually the second time, although the first was like 6 months ago but it was early in the morining and I had to rush to work aftarwards so I attribute it to having other things on my mind(like wondering if I was going to be late) at that time.

Maybe I'll consider suing the makers of Trident Gum, as their product seems to kill erections

Trey · 10-18-2012, 09:38 AM

Go to the doc sounds like you may want Viagra.

Champagne Brown · 10-18-2012, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by trey

Go to the doc sounds like you may want Viagra.

+1

Mr Willy · 10-18-2012, 09:48 AM

With me if there is no passion on the part of the provider I have a hard time getting ready. If they expect you to be able to go in and get an instant hard on then they have lost their mind. At my age I need all the help I can get. I try to see only those providers that I have seen reviews that say they are true GFE.

ARCHmajor · 10-18-2012, 10:02 AM

Well I'm in my 20's and I don't have normally have trouble so I attribute it as a fluke. But you're right, if they aren't passonate then I can see it as a mood killer. But I do welcome all answers. Maybe a few providers might even have their own techniques whether they do a strip tease or what not.

Champagne Brown · 10-18-2012, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by ARCHmajor

Well I'm in my 20's and I don't have normally have trouble so I attribute it as a fluke. But you're right, if they aren't passonate then I can see it as a mood killer. But I do welcome all answers. Maybe a few providers might even have their own techniques whether they do a strip tease or what not.

Well I do strip tease in all of my appts. I don't just jump right into.

Mr Willy · 10-18-2012, 10:37 AM

Arch if you are in your 20's and are having issues then you need to go get a checkup by your doctor and see if there is something causing your problem. Could be something very simple but you won't know until you go and get checked. I never had any kind of problems until I got in my 60's. That shit should not be happening in your 20's.

Guest021817-2 · 10-18-2012, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Willy

Arch if you are in your 20's and are having issues then you need to go get a checkup by your doctor and see if there is something causing your problem. Could be something very simple but you won't know until you go and get checked. I never had any kind of problems until I got in my 60's. That shit should not be happening in your 20's.

Or just Nerves.......That can be a serious bone killer.....

essence · 10-20-2012, 03:34 PM

I don;t think viagra is the issue here, it seems from the mornings that there is no physical problem.

It may be that the 'love by the hour' is not in tune with you.

We are not robots, and at my age I have to be with a girl for some time, and then when I get the mood I go for it, it cannot be forced.

It is so easy also for ladies to kill the mood, in a thousand different ways.

Maybe you are overworked and tired.

Maybe she didn;t excite you.

Maybe she was in a rush.

Maybe she didn;t provide any oral or manual help.

Maybe she didn;t spank you hard (sic) enough.

Maybe she didn;t give you a toe to head massage.

Maybe her ass was too big.

I've had recent doubles where one girl was not doing anything for me, I just wanted her to go and concentrate on the other girl, with whom I was fine. From then on, I have only had doubles with the girl who aroused me and her other friends.

Sometimes it is a matter of confidence.

Why not make an arrangement for 6:00 am when you know you are hard?

Also, if it doesn;t work, don;t make a big deal out of it, it often happens, just have fun anyway and when it works (which it will do soon) enjoy it.

Don;t be mechanistic over eroticism.

Ladies - never ever ever complain about a soft dick, a guy's ego is very fragile. Take the soft dick in your mouth and tell him how much you enjoy it, and what a good looking/intelligent/kind/handsome/rich guy he is. Flattery will go a very long way (pun intended).

spear88 · 10-20-2012, 08:47 PM

As an older man, I take some suppliments to increase my testosterone and decrease free estrogen in my bloodstream. If I take triple the usuall dose before an encounter I am a raging bull and have no problems. But without them, I am at risk of a limp dick unless the woman is unusually good at waht she does.

essence · 10-21-2012, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by spear88

As an older man, I take some suppliments to increase my testosterone and decrease free estrogen in my bloodstream. If I take triple the usuall dose before an encounter I am a raging bull and have no problems. But without them, I am at risk of a limp dick unless the woman is unusually good at waht she does.

Can you give more details?

ARCHmajor · 10-23-2012, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by essence

I don;t think viagra is the issue here, it seems from the mornings that there is no physical problem.

It may be that the 'love by the hour' is not in tune with you.

We are not robots, and at my age I have to be with a girl for some time, and then when I get the mood I go for it, it cannot be forced.

It is so easy also for ladies to kill the mood, in a thousand different ways.

Maybe you are overworked and tired.

Maybe she didn;t excite you.

Maybe she was in a rush.

Maybe she didn;t provide any oral or manual help.

Maybe she didn;t spank you hard (sic) enough.

Maybe she didn;t give you a toe to head massage.

Maybe her ass was too big.

I've had recent doubles where one girl was not doing anything for me, I just wanted her to go and concentrate on the other girl, with whom I was fine. From then on, I have only had doubles with the girl who aroused me and her other friends.

Sometimes it is a matter of confidence.

Why not make an arrangement for 6:00 am when you know you are hard?

Also, if it doesn;t work, don;t make a big deal out of it, it often happens, just have fun anyway and when it works (which it will do soon) enjoy it.

Don;t be mechanistic over eroticism.

Ladies - never ever ever complain about a soft dick, a guy's ego is very fragile. Take the soft dick in your mouth and tell him how much you enjoy it, and what a good looking/intelligent/kind/handsome/rich guy he is. Flattery will go a very long way (pun intended).

Essence, i think you hit the nail on the head. It was probably a combination of things but I'm not going to let it get me down, I wasjust curious if its happened to others and such. Thanks

Out_of_Bounds · 10-23-2012, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ARCHmajor

Well I'm in my 20's and I don't have normally have trouble so I attribute it as a fluke. But you're right, if they aren't passonate then I can see it as a mood killer. But I do welcome all answers. Maybe a few providers might even have their own techniques whether they do a strip tease or what not.

In your '20's? Damn. You need to get checked out.
I'm in my thirties and never had a problem with wood. Ever.

Guest021817-2 · 10-23-2012, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

In your '20's? Damn. You need to get checked out.
I'm in my thirties and never had a problem with wood. Ever.

Some people can hump a hole in the ground, while others might want to have a little interaction with that hole before they proceeded to hump it.

OoB.... you can be the man here and step up and call me out, but... the fact is... everyone's libido is different..... Some of you guys are "self proclaimed fuck monsters"

With no input from the other side of the action.... There are allot of guys that believe this.

The OP..... Has stuff he is working through..... I am pretty sure he needed to know that you have no problem , humping anything with a "hole and a heart beat".

I have never seen a post about you humping a hole in the ground , or a tree, but I have seen some, that put you in a different light about where to put your friend.

At any rate... have fun with my post...

essence · 10-24-2012, 05:46 AM

My latest babe finds it very flattering that I am always as hard as steel with her, but when doing doubles with her friend I have problems with her friend.

I don't do doubles with that friend any more, but she has another gf (or two

) and we all get along fine.

Some guys are more sensitive/responsive to the individual girl than others. Isn't that a good thing?