Why do clients care so much if they get us off?

[MISS0666]

Hello all,

From reading the many reviews you gentleman have written over the past few years it still astounds me why in the commentary you constantly debate about if a provider truly "gets off" during a session. As if her ability to just sit on any client and climax multiple times makes her genuinely worth seeing. Wouldn't you want to be with in bed with a cute girl who could show genuine passion and didn't have to pretend you got her off 4 times during a session? We are not sex robots, even with my significant others I can have mind blowing sex and get off maybe twice. Does the # of times lessen the experience? Methinks not. On ECCIE I recently read "Rants from an Upscale Denver Escort", and besides being moved to a fit of giggles found that she had some great information to share.

"We are emotional creatures, and just a little more complicated then just you plugging away at us and expecting for us to cum".
Exactly! just because we became providers DOES NOT mean that we shut off the normal female erogenous zones that cause an orgasm. A woman takes 4 times as long as man to achieve climax and our orgasms last twice as long; we are clearly built differently. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense for you to sound off on the internet wasting all your precious time about whether we "actually" got off. If you build a relationship with a provider, meaning become a "regular" client who builds trust and respect, you are going to have a lot better chance of witnessing the rare female orgasm. But the guys on here that only book a 30 min appt (all with different girls) that have the audacity to really debate with their ECCIE friends about whether they "got her off"? Who are you guys kidding, we require 30 minutes of foreplay to even have good sex.

There are also girls who cannot have an internal orgasm, they require clitoral stimulation. As in, slow gentle sensuous touching- not you violently shoving your fingers into us as if somehow thats going to lead to anything other than an injury...Trim your fingernails and do not attempt to penetrate while fingering. We like it A LOT more if you simply caress the delicate outer area than trying to bury your entire hand inside of us. If we had a basic sex-ed course for every client on ECCIE, wives would be grateful. Just sayin'.

"Pussy Eating for the so-called experts
Rule #1 Don't spead my lips apart with your hands so far that they tear the inner soft skin on the vagina.How about I pull your pee hole in two different directions
Rule #2 Don't suck my clit and labia up into your mouth and catch it on your teeth..lets say I rake my teeth over your cock? Wouldn't that feel great?? Rule #3 Keep your tounge on the top or the bottom. The middle of my vagina is my pee hole. I don't know about you but tounging my pee hole is NOT a turn on.
Rule #4 Lick on TOP of the hood not under. There are 4,000 neves on my clit and it feels WAYYYY to sensitive. Kinda like your cock, JUST after you cum."
See this for further information:
http://www.vice.comguide-eating-pussy-100-guides

Food for thought!
xoxo
MISS0666

[homer13]

Those are some great tips dude. I agree with everyone of the pussy eating ones.

I also like to call b.s. on all these guys who think they are getting chicks off 5 times and who talk about 50 positions and pounding them till everyone is shaking. I know some can but I doubt the majority can so I do get a chuckle at the guys who like to throw into every review how well hung they are or how she was able to take it all in even though I'm huge etc.... She complimented my size, hahahahahahaha

I remember a funny joke I heard as a kid.

How can a real man tell if a woman had an orgasm? A real man doesn't care, hahahahahahahaha

[MISS2868]

oh...my...god....HAHAHAHA! THANNNK YOU!

[Sire]

I've made a handful of providers cum in my day. With my mouth AND my cock. Doesn't happen all the time, and I don't expect it to, but it does happen.

MISS 0666, keep in mind that:

#1: Not all providers are created equal. Not all providers will agree with the points you make in this thread.
#2: Not all HOBBYISTS are created equal. Some have skills, some don't. Some care if the lady gets off, and many don't.

ijs.

[RALPHEY BOY]

its a 'Story' we are telling and in a story not all facts are exactly as they happened

so do I believe what i read in every review? NO
do I believe some of it? the info I can verify first hand or from someone I know and trust
do I care if the girl cums or not? Its up to her, she does not need to fake it for me,

[teyeger72]

Truth of the matter is that it's a issue of pride and ego with us guys for the most part. Some guys do exaggerate as if it's some point of conquest to make a provider have an orgasm, when the truth is they have to compensate for something they are lacking somewhere. Just sayin'.

That being said, I've had some SOs take offense if I don't want to have sex every day or even every week. Most of the time that is an issue of respect in the relationship itself. If I don't feel respected by the provider or SO, then the likelihood of a positive sexual response is quite low.

At the risk of oversimplifying things, the general differences in men and women come down to this: A woman's top needs are love and security; men = respect and sex. If women don't feel secure in their encounter, then obviously the arousal is not going to happen. If a man doesn't feel respected, then he will have a more difficult experience with the ladies.

Mutual respect for one another can ultimately lead to bliss for both. But if we guys treat the ladies like whores and prostitutes rather than the hobbyists they are (and yes, there is a difference and I am sure some will want to debate this with me, but I digress), you can't expect to have a mutually beneficial experience beyond a mere business transaction.

Do I care if the women I am with experience an orgasm? Of course, but that is dependent of the level of chemistry between the two of us, as opposed to some robotic "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am so I can get off" kind of experience. I try to make sure the experience I have with a provider is mutually satisfactory.

You want to see a lady squirm, stimulate her mind first before you get to her body. The biggest sex organ anyone has is their brain, so use it and treat that first. The rest will follow accordingly.

[nuglet]

LOL, Like I care if she gets off. I'm not paying for her to enjoy herself, I pay for me. She can buy her own ticket.. Only a amateurish fool would think he's making the lady enjoy the act. She may enjoy his (or my) company, but the sex is for me, not her.

[homer13]

Originally Posted by teyeger72

Truth of the matter is that it's a issue of pride and ego with us guys for the most part. Some guys do exaggerate as if it's some point of conquest to make a provider have an orgasm, when the truth is they have to compensate for something they are lacking somewhere. Just sayin'.

That being said, I've had some SOs take offense if I don't want to have sex every day or even every week. Most of the time that is an issue of respect in the relationship itself. If I don't feel respected by the provider or SO, then the likelihood of a positive sexual response is quite low.

At the risk of oversimplifying things, the general differences in men and women come down to this: A woman's top needs are love and security; men = respect and sex. If women don't feel secure in their encounter, then obviously the arousal is not going to happen. If a man doesn't feel respected, then he will have a more difficult experience with the ladies.

Mutual respect for one another can ultimately lead to bliss for both. But if we guys treat the ladies like whores and prostitutes rather than the hobbyists they are (and yes, there is a difference and I am sure some will want to debate this with me, but I digress), you can't expect to have a mutually beneficial experience beyond a mere business transaction.

Do I care if the women I am with experience an orgasm? Of course, but that is dependent of the level of chemistry between the two of us, as opposed to some robotic "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am so I can get off" kind of experience. I try to make sure the experience I have with a provider is mutually satisfactory.

You want to see a lady squirm, stimulate her mind first before you get to her body. The biggest sex organ anyone has is their brain, so use it and treat that first. The rest will follow accordingly.

Dude, this thread and everyone in it is Gayer because of your post.

this is a hooker board so the # one emotion here for the chicks is the joy of a full pocket book not love and security. Don't try to put RW emotions and feelings into a business transaction which is all you really are. Doesn't mean I don't have a great time but I'm will REB, I don't need the ego boost of a fake orgasm. Do I think I've given real ones, absolutely I've always been pretty good in the sack, just ask all my ex-wives who I lost interest in and ended up here. Does it make you feel good if you think you do, hell yes. Do I put in my reviews that I think I gave her 5 O's. Hell NO, I'm not delusional, was it real or fake, don't know but I don't need to put it in review to try and prove Im a huge stud. I paid for a chick like everyone else doing a review so I stick to the facts and focus the review on the lady which is where it needs to be so guys can make a judgement call on if they want to see her.

[JJones]

Anything that occurs BCD I assume is for my entertainment. The girl fakes an O, big deal. For some guys I imagine it inflates their ego, for others it is just part of the illusion the provider is weaving.

[teyeger72]

Originally Posted by homer13

Dude, this thread and everyone in it is Gayer because of your post.

this is a hooker board so the # one emotion here for the chicks is the joy of a full pocket book not love and security. Don't try to put RW emotions and feelings into a business transaction which is all you really are. Doesn't mean I don't have a great time but I'm will REB, I don't need the ego boost of a fake orgasm. Do I think I've given real ones, absolutely I've always been pretty good in the sack, just ask all my ex-wives who I lost interest in and ended up here. Does it make you feel good if you think you do, hell yes. Do I put in my reviews that I think I gave her 5 O's. Hell NO, I'm not delusional, was it real or fake, don't know but I don't need to put it in review to try and prove Im a huge stud. I paid for a chick like everyone else doing a review so I stick to the facts and focus the review on the lady which is where it needs to be so guys can make a judgement call on if they want to see her.

Sorry you feel that way, but I was just responding in kind to the discussion topic as posed by the lady. You don't have to agree with me. Real or fake O's, whatever. Just be real with people. It becomes really obvious when a guy says he gave a provider 2 or 3 Os in a 30 min session that he's lying through his teeth and probably didn't even have one himself. So that begs the question of the accuracy of reviews - should anything be believed by what you read in the review? Consider the source and think critically as you read if you want to get an accurate picture of what your own experience may be when you meet with the lady you are reviewing.

But this whole idea that a guy has to feel validated only if a provider does achieve an orgasm is ridiculous and childish. Which is my whole point.

[homer13]

Originally Posted by teyeger72

Sorry you feel that way, but I was just responding in kind to the discussion topic as posed by the lady. You don't have to agree with me. Real or fake O's, whatever. Just be real with people. It becomes really obvious when a guy says he gave a provider 2 or 3 Os in a 30 min session that he's lying through his teeth and probably didn't even have one himself. So that begs the question of the accuracy of reviews - should anything be believed by what you read in the review? Consider the source and think critically as you read if you want to get an accurate picture of what your own experience may be when you meet with the lady you are reviewing.

But this whole idea that a guy has to feel validated only if a provider does achieve an orgasm is ridiculous and childish. Which is my whole point.

Much better and a lot less gay, good job

[teyeger72]

LOL

[VictoriaLyn]

I don't care why they care as long as they got what they came for and if.I get off too then I am an extra happy camper

[rockerrick]

That's why I like the squirters , no faking a true physical response !

[Laney1]

True that Hardy.




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