Question for the ones who hobby.

[Tyrael]

Hello fellow hobbiests.
I am not new even though this handle is new.
I am using a alternate handle to post a very thought provoking question.

What if you found out that one of your favorite girls you've seen for a long time turns out to be handled by a pimp or wants to be with a pimp. (same difference??) Would you still see that girl.

I been hobbying off and on for a long time... (More off than on lately) And I of course enjoy seeing true independents. I do not like the fact that my money that is going to the girl that I was seeing, is ending up with a pimp.

This girl I saw for awhile listed herself as a independent, well that wasn't true.

so I like hobbiest input on your thoughts about this fact.

Would you still see a girl or not (that was/is your favorite) knowing that she is with a pimp.

[BassCat]

It has never deterred me from seeing a provider I am interested in. I have always been of the mind set that if a woman is so stupid as to let a man pimp her out then she is getting what she deserves. I have seen many providers knowing their pimp was roaming the halls or even in the next room and it has never bothered me.

[skeeter]

I'm just the opposite of BC.... I don't turn my back to many things and I just don't trust someone that would let a pimp control her..... Just my .02 cents

[bodilly]

I wouldn't think anyone would give your question any credence after you admitted to being to scared to ask it with your real handle.

"I am not new even though this handle is new.
I am using a alternate handle to post a very thought provoking question."

[kindafun]

This is a pretty generic question. I don't know why you wouldn't use your regular handle. To answer it though, I wouldnt see a provider if I knew she had a pimp. This hobby carries enough inherent risks without adding an extortionist like a pimp into the mix!

[Guest113012]

It's coed so I suppose I can add my .02 as well.

First of all it's obvious why he wouldn't use his real handle especially if it's a girl he's seen for a while because either a. He doesn't want her to know he knows, and b. her pimp obviously would read and know and could possibly know info on the guy.

I for one would never want my safety OR the safety of my clients in anyone's hands but our own. This hobby is risky enough without the threat of other unknowns who can sit in parking lots and copy license plates or worse. Never understood the girls who rely on pimps or agency's but what do I know lol I'm still a newbie.

[heidilynnla]

Isn't that against the rules or is that only for providers?

Originally Posted by Tyrael

Hello fellow hobbiests.
I am not new even though this handle is new.
I am using a alternate handle to post a very thought provoking question.

What if you found out that one of your favorite girls you've seen for a long time turns out to be handled by a pimp or wants to be with a pimp. (same difference??) Would you still see that girl.

I been hobbying off and on for a long time... (More off than on lately) And I of course enjoy seeing true independents. I do not like the fact that my money that is going to the girl that I was seeing, is ending up with a pimp.

This girl I saw for awhile listed herself as a independent, well that wasn't true.

so I like hobbiest input on your thoughts about this fact.

Would you still see a girl or not (that was/is your favorite) knowing that she is with a pimp.

[gimme_that]

Ban him and burn him at the stake.


Here's a thread I started on this same topic. You might find some of the responses surprising. It went multiple pages too.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=372109

[DaniellaDViante]

Its completely against the rules to have multiple accounts, irregardless of the type of account. If a provider did this everyone would be burning her at the stake so it should go both ways.

And, I'd advise anyone against seeing pimped women not because they are "so stupid as to let a man pimp her" but because they are most often in this industry against their own will. When you see sexually exploited women your not just putting money in a pimps hand, your putting money into what is most likely a larger crime syndicate involved in not only sex crimes, but also drug and weapons trafficking crimes as well - so your essentially endangering not just yourself, so people in your community who had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that you were a little horny one afternoon may still become victims of armed robberies with guns financed by the pimps cashflow.

And don't think you can "tell" if the girl is a willing participant or a sex slave, I volunteer working with women who have escaped from these situations and trust me, a pimped girl can seem like the happiest hooker after months of abuse and brainwashing.

I've yet to ever meet a woman who sought ought a pimp to help get her started as an escort, its always kidnapping, blackmail, a guy she thought was her boyfriend or sometimes even "modelling agencies". Girls can be victims by night while leading seemingly normal, family-oriented lives during the day.

Please don't ever think it just "doesn't matter" when you see a pimped woman or that "those people" are separate from you and that they can't hurt you. American women and children are the single, number one international item of contraband. Whats a really good way for a pimp to get one? Blackmailing the husband and father who saw one of the pimps girls (or guys) in exchange for access to his wife and/or children. Or, just follow him home and commit a kidnapping. That may sound like a completely unlikely situation, and for years it was extremely rare, but now - for reasons unknown - its happening more and more frequently and the sex slave trade is currently skyrocketing at a higher rate than any legitimate industry and most illegal ones as well.

I know that was a bit dark and grim, and we all like to ignore that not-so-pretty side of the hobby, but it is the unfortunate truth. Get your head out of the sand - girls do not want to be pimped, you are hurting these girls more when you see them, and you are not immune to becoming a victim yourself.

[thehighlander]

Well said Daniella.
I've seen pimps lurking in certain motel hotel lobbies when I've gone seen a provider. I turn around and leave then call and say "sorry I had car trouble"
Sometimes its funny they lurk in cars at the hotel/motel....seen quite a few of those too..Thanks to my 20/20 vision.

I agree with carmen too....

But I am not immune... Did see one who said she was independent...swore to it...very pretty yet she wore tons and tons of makeup all the time. Had bruises on legs and sometimes on arm (first sign of pimp abuse) I accidently tried to kiss her and grabbed gently on the side of her head...yet she screamed in pain (second sign of abuse)....i think i said enough.

pimps = abuse and control

so I'd say a big "NO"

[Asigarillo]

I used to say, not my problem as long as she operates as if he doesn't exist. But after reading Daniella's post, my viewpoint totally changes. If I know, it's a no-go.

Thanks for the bigger picture perspective Daniella!

[Guest113012]

Awesome post Daniella!

[CajunGent]

Points well made Daniella.

[jerryjeffy73]

I have never and would never see a provider that has a pimp.

[Guest092112-2]

Nope would not see her.