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Old 08-15-2013, 12:03 PM   #1
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Default Ladies: Need some help here.

Guys can chime in, too. Here's a situation I was in recently. Note: Because of my location in the boonies, I frequently schedule events 2 or more weeks in advance. You guys in Omaha who can go get laid anytime you want really piss me off. But I digress......

14 days before: I schedule the date.
9 Days before: Dang.....I'm coming down with something.
8 Days before: Really nasty summer cold.
6 Days before: Feeling human again
5 Days before: Feeling pretty good....some residual symptoms
1 Day before : Feeling fine, maybe a bit stuffy. Co-worker comments it sounds like I've still got a bad cold. If I sound this bad.....will it freak out the lady I'm seeing? I email her....laying out the above. Tell her I feel fine but sound bad. Give HER the pass or play option. She opts to play anyway.

My question: Did I handle this correctly? Ladies.....would you have wanted to know this prior to the meeting? Do you think I've just condemned myself to inferior service? I always want to do what is right for all parties involved. Is there a better way to handle this situation?
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Old 08-15-2013, 01:43 PM   #2
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You handled it just fine. You told her you had a cold, but were feeling fine. Its on her now if she catches the cold and is down for a few days.

Myself, I always wanted to know if someone didn't feel good or was just on the tail end of a cold and I appreciated those calls from clients telling me if they were sick. I personally don't want to catch the flu/cold/whatever. Just like I'm sure they wouldn't want to catch a cold or the flu from me.
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Old 08-15-2013, 03:40 PM   #3
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I agree, you handled it fine. Especially if you emailed her a day in advance, which gives her time to schedule something else if you couldn't make it.
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Old 08-15-2013, 03:47 PM   #4
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I'd say you're pretty darned considerate. If she becomes ill, it's on her. She still chose to accept the date. :-)

Whadda schweetheart you are!
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Old 08-15-2013, 07:08 PM   #5
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See, now, I guess I don't comprehend someone who can't take 30 seconds to text, e-mail, or call someone with this or other relevant info, like, I'm late, I'm lost, I can't make it, there's a cop parked outside your door, etc.

I mean, really ladies, is this that out of the ordinary? Are we (men) that callous and obtuse in general?
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Old 08-15-2013, 08:05 PM   #6
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I'm a worrier. Am I communicating enough? So much that I'm wasting her time? Providing too much info? I find this feedback very helpful. Thanks to all.
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Old 08-15-2013, 08:35 PM   #7
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Grits, you are always a gentleman. I wish more where like you!
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Old 08-16-2013, 12:01 PM   #8
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You were very considerate and communicated well and at least warned her well before instead of just showing up and mentioning you're sick like an afterthought.
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Quote:
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You handled it just fine. You told her you had a cold, but were feeling fine. Its on her now if she catches the cold and is down for a few days.

Myself, I always wanted to know if someone didn't feel good or was just on the tail end of a cold and I appreciated those calls from clients telling me if they were sick. I personally don't want to catch the flu/cold/whatever. Just like I'm sure they wouldn't want to catch a cold or the flu from me.
Totally agree...
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