Ashley Madison

[jococat]

Just curious if any of the guys ever went this route and how it turned out. I would not try it - way too many risks on many levels - but the voyeur in me spent some time one day looking at the profiles and was surprised to find out how many ladies live with an a 5 mile radius of me that are "looking" .

I always love the "open marriage" decree on some of them. Open until the other half finds out.

[aspenxtremes]

truthfully from what I have saw on there...not worth the money and as you have said depending on your situation it may be more risky than this. You will find an awful lot of women right around 40 who want to try something new though on these. I've never met any off of that, but have on other sites in the past and have been pleasantly surprised as they have been drop dead sexy. Some have been complete head cases as well, but not much different than the regular dating world I guess.

[MsElena]

Why spend the money, most the hookers from the boards are on there and the sugar daddy sites.

[The DarkSide]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Why spend the money, most the hookers from the boards are on there and the sugar daddy sites.

+1. Why get a subscription to ashley Madison when you can get all the trim here!

And buy a bottle of the finest and do the mattress mambo with Elena!

[Guest030824]

A waste of money all of the ladies say all of the things that will get your attention. But they have no intention of carrying through. I for one have no interest in breaking up a marriage or having a jealous husband at the door. That put all of the women that were married off limits.I did at the end of my year get one person that was willing to have coffee with me. How ever it was at the same time my points ran out and I would have had to pay for another year. How strange that it happened at that time. I suspect it was a come on to get me to pay for another year. In my opinion it is a rip off.

[bartipero]

I'm not sure what to make of it as I wouldn't invest the time and money in it I suspect it takes. I spent a little bit just to throw a line in and see what happened.
As a result, my test reveals it to be a blend of the unrealistic (just because if expectations and the demographics of it), rip off and inefficient in many ways, not the least of which is design. I suspect it's a lot better for the women in some respects, though, not the least of which is the number of willing males vs females.

Otherwise, it strikes me like mining. There is some finite gold, some rare earth minerals, a lot of copper, a little silver and a whole lot of worthless rock. So much that it's odds off you'll get to the good stuff. The mine on a whole doesn't pay the cost of extraction either in time outlay or operating expenses and there are few geologists talented enough to find the mother load and you have to move the whole mountain to get there.

Add to that you really can't put your picture out there and hold a job and picking the girls is like 5,000 card Monty, a huge curiosity that killed the cat.

It is highly populated by unattractive, undesirable and quite overweight women. I'm not saying the guys are any better, but that usn't my interest.

There is a small population of extreme female players. Their pictures are obvious and they enjoy the stroke play. Think 'Looking For Mr. Goodbar', at best. They are there for the thrill of being worshipped with attention and that power trip. They live for the rush of verbally cutting your proverbial throat and throwing you off a bridge. They are indeed hot and could get any guy they want, and appear to be after model quality beef cake, and do find it. Personally, I say count yourself lucky you don't meet that broad. They are street smart, some even book smart, but otherwise blindingly stupid flying their world with their wings if wax. Haughty is their best friend.

There is a minority of attractive women fronting as bait for couples and swingers . I imagine that interview process is excruciating if you get past square one there.

There are some drive by curiosity seekers. They open an account, experience the site, then quickly quit.

Then I strongly suspect there are shills. My guess is they are either hired to retain interest in the site or are computer generated.

I'm sure Sgt Pepper's Lonely Hearts Band is also there strongly along with the pros as some of the pictures you will know. This and other miscellany out there put you back in the mine.

Others may have a different view, but they would be the exception and should either buy a lottery ticket with that kind of luck or teach classes with that kind of skill.

[aspenxtremes]

Ashley Madison seems to be way overpriced from what I could tell. The only site I ever took time to actually try in the past was adultfriendfinder. I agree you will find many of the ladies who provide on these as well as a good 90% that are fake profiles but when I tried it then I did have luck meeting some very nice ladies, ladies who would turn heads (in a good way), and weren't thinking they were all that. The majority were all around their 40's but looked about 30. I also suspected they were fake profiles at first just by their pics but was quite surprised to find out they weren't when I met them. From what I could gather from those I talked to and met is that yes they are bombarded by ignorant men whose first line is, "hey wanna fuck", or send a picture of their cock thinking that will whoo them over. If you treat a woman on there like you would, or shall I say, how you should in real life, you may be pleasantly surprised. Would I recommend the sites for anyone, no not really as you'll have just as good of luck going to a bar and picking someone up and if you really want a sure thing, just call one of your favorite providers, then you know what you're getting. If you like a challenge and scavenger hunt, by all means go for it.